Sometimes people ask me for the secret of success. We live in a world of fantasy where people want magic formulae for everything. Let me tell you the good news. It is not a secret, but it is a magic formula. Focus + Investment + Consistency. Works every time.
I have given it the acronym, FIKR – K from the phonetic pronunciation of Consistency (Konsistency). As for R – well, we’ll get to it. Just remember FIKR
One
of the most famous cases is that of Dashrath Manjhi, a poor villager in Bihar,
who literally carved a road out of a mountain. When his wife died tragically
because he was unable to get her to a hospital in time thanks to the fact that
he had to go around a mountain to get to the main road, he decided to cut the
mountain and build a road. He carved a path 110 meters long, and 9.1 meters
wide to form a road through the rocks in Gehlour Hill so that nobody else would
need to suffer the same fate. It took him, working with a chisel and hammer, 22
years.
You
can read more about him here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dashrath_Manjhi
What was his secret? Focus + Investment + Consistency. Works every
time.
In
1983, I had just returned from Guyana and joined the tea planting industry in
the Anamallais. On my first annual vacation, I attended a two-week residential,
experiential learning workshop on Applied Behavioural Science by the Indian
Society of Applied Behavioural Science (ISABS), in Jaipur. I found it very
beneficial and was impressed by the potential to help people that lay in this
line of work. I was particularly impressed by Mr. Aroon Joshi whose
facilitation enabled me not only to understand myself better but to resolve
some issues which had been bothering me. Aroon has been my dear friend and
mentor ever since. The long and short of this was that I decided that I would
make training, my profession. I was a tea planter. And I wanted to make a career
in training. Sounds crazy. It was. How did I do it? That’s what I want to share
with you. I hope you will be able to benefit from the lessons I learnt in my
life.
Before
I go into the how, let me tell you what I did since then, so that you have a complete
picture in your mind. From the time you saw a young tea planter, sitting on the
floor in an ISABS Lab (that is how it worked), agonizing over his work
relationships, you would have seen him single-mindedly focused on learning how
to train, to taking some very hard decisions and risks which would have left
many, freaked out. You would have seen him speak to his first client and stake
his reputation in his pitch. You would have seen him succeed and fail but
succeed more and never fail at the same thing twice. In short, you would have
seen him learning. Learning all the time. Enjoying learning, which enabled him
to take ever higher risks. You would have seen him challenging himself and
doing things which most people in any line of work, never do i.e. write
thirty-six books. Today, I have trained over 200,000 people on three continents
from practically every nationality, race and walk of life.
From
where I started in training, I specialized in leadership development. That is
what excited me. To see people come in, looking like something off the clothesline
and walk out, straight and tall with a glint in their eye and to know that I’d
had something to do with that. Over the years, now almost 40, several times I
have had people come up to me in an airport or in a restaurant and say, “I