Superheroes in Heels with Kimberley Borgens

Financial Infidelity: Why Women Keep Money Secrets and How to Move Forward


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Welcome back to Superheroes in Heels! I’m Kimberley Borgens, and in this episode, I’m inviting you to join me for an honest, compassionate conversation about something that quietly affects so many women: financial infidelity. If you’ve ever kept a little cash on the side, started a secret savings account, or felt anxious about discussing money with your partner, you are not alone—and you are absolutely in the right place.

With more than 30 years of experience navigating male-dominated business spaces, I’ve seen and experienced firsthand how women are often expected to rely on others when it comes to money. In this episode, we’ll talk openly about those hidden stashes of cash, the unspoken habits we picked up from our moms and grandmas, and the deeper reasons we sometimes keep money secrets—from a need for survival and safety, to carving out our own autonomy, or even just fueling our ambitions and dreams.

I’ll share some of my own stories—like why I kept my kitchen savings a secret, and how past financial betrayals shaped the way I think about money today. But this isn’t just about sharing my experience; it’s about empowering you to release any guilt you’re carrying and to see your financial strategies as acts of strength, not shame.

Together, we’ll explore ways to move from secrecy to strategy—how you can set up your own savings systems, create budgets that actually work for your real life and dreams, and learn to navigate conversations about money with confidence, whether with yourself or your loved ones. I also want you to know that if you’re in a situation where secrecy is needed for your safety or peace of mind, you’re doing exactly what you need to do—and no one should judge you for protecting yourself.

And because financial power comes from knowledge, I’ll share the value of financial literacy and the importance of tapping into supportive communities and resources designed for women just like you. By the end of this episode, I want you to feel inspired, validated, and armed with practical steps you can use right now to reclaim your financial power—one smart, intentional choice at a time.

So grab your favorite mug, get comfortable, and let’s dig into this sometimes-tough, but incredibly important, topic. As your host and fellow superhero in heels, I’m here to remind you: you are not alone, your financial dreams are valid, and together, we’re building a future where women own their financial stories with courage and pride.

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Superheroes in Heels with Kimberley BorgensBy Kimberley Borgens