Welcome back to "Superheroes in Heels," the podcast where powerful women come together to rise, lead, and confidently own every room they walk into. I’m your host, Kimberley Borgens, and in this episode, I’m inviting you to join me for an honest, soul-baring conversation about a hidden truth that often accompanies the journey to the top—loneliness.
Even after decades of building success in male-dominated industries, I’ll be the first to admit that there’s a side of achievement we don’t talk about enough—the emotional isolation that can come with breaking barriers, scaling our businesses, and evolving into the leaders we strive to become. Outwardly, we’re told to celebrate our wins, showcase our influence, and keep pushing higher, but behind closed doors, many of us quietly feel the ache of disconnection—from friends, from old routines, and even at times from our own teams.
In this episode, I dig deep into the realities of shifting relationships as you grow. I share stories from my personal journey, from the evolution of my friendships to navigating the delicate balance of being personable—but not too personal—with a large team. I open up about what it’s like to wonder where all your friends went, and how power dynamics and changing priorities can reshape even the closest bonds.
But I don’t stop at just naming the problem. Together, we’ll explore real, practical solutions—how joining masterminds, seeking out mentors, and intentionally reconnecting with peers can empower us to create new circles of understanding and support. I’m candid about the grief that can come when relationships fade, but I’m just as passionate about the joy that comes from forming new, authentic connections with women who are on similar journeys.
If you’ve ever found yourself feeling isolated at the top, wondering if you’re the only one experiencing these challenges, I want you to know you are not alone. This episode is about validation, encouragement, and self-care. It’s about learning to let go of guilt, embracing change, and understanding that you do not have to carry your superhero cape by yourself. Together, we’ll talk about letting connection become your superpower, building community on purpose, and giving yourself permission to grow unapologetically.
So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s get real about the hidden cost of female success—and how we can overcome it, together.
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00:00 "Loneliness in Female Success"
03:39 "The Isolation of Success"
09:25 Loneliness in Leadership
11:05 "Professional, Not Personal Leadership"
14:45 "Reach Out, Don't Hold Back"
18:53 Mastermind Connections Drive Success
23:34 Leadership: Balance, Growth, Connection
25:05 "Leadership: Find Support, Overcome Loneliness"
28:22 Overcoming Loneliness in Leadership
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