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  • #94: Stop Waiting to Become a Pleasure-Filled Woman (Why 28 Days Changes Everything)

    Pleasure isn't a switch that flips one day. It's a skill, a devotion, a vessel filled drop by drop.

    In this episode, I share my own return to pleasure after an international move, a reset of body and mind, and finally planting roots here in Melbourne. I'm in the middle of my own 30-day self-pleasure ritual right now, and I'm walking you through the blocks that rise up every single time, so they never quietly talk you out of your own aliveness.

    Inside this episode:

    • Why dopamine isn't the pleasure chemical, and why a new practice feels flat at first
    • The "numb middle," where most women give up right before the change arrives
    • Why true pleasure is subtle, and why we've been sold the volcanic, instant version
    • How committing to one full cycle lets you meet your pleasure in every season of your body
    • Why being embodied has never mattered more than it does now
    • Don't know where to start?
      14 Days to Ecstasy is your done-for-you doorway: a video and a micro practice for each of the 14 days. Just press play and let yourself be held. 

      Ready to go deeper?
      VIP, my signature program, opens for enrollment on November 5th, 2026, and you'll receive 14 Days to Ecstasy free when you join. Join the waitlist here: VIP

      Books mentioned: 

      • Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas
      • Tantric Orgasm for Women by Diana Richardson
      • The Art of Sexual Ecstasy by Margot Anand
      • If this episode stirred something in you, leave a five-star review. It helps more women find their way home to their bodies.

        54 min
      • #93: Stop Waiting to Feel Alive:The Neuroscience of Deciding & Why Pleasure Is the Portal

        In this intimate, unfiltered episode I'm sharing where I've been the last three weeks... Getting vulnerable about how I'm REALLY doing during the move home to Melbourne, the messy in-between of life, and the very uncomfortable truth I had to face about myself. 

        The episode for the woman in the in-between — who's been waiting to feel alive again. 🌹

        The woman who is abandoning herself from living the life she was put here to experience, out of fear. 

        This ones for you, my love. 

         

        INSIDE THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL UNCOVER: 

        • The real reason this last month has been the hardest of my life
        •  What happens in your brain (and life) when you make a decision and stop wishing for your dream life to happen... 
        • Why pleasure is the fastest, most direct portal into rewiring your entire reality
        • The exact reason 14 devotional days is enough to make you completely unrecognisable & quantum leap into your new life.
        • + so much more! 
        •  She's jammed packed with gold! 

           

          MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE  
          • The 14 Days to Ecstasy - Join now! 
          • {Doors close on the 10th of May OR when we get 20 enrollments} 

             

            CONNECT WITH ME
            • Instagram @carliejade 
            • Substack: @carliejade 
            • Website: https://carliejade.com/
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              51 min
            • #92: How You Do Sex Is How You Do Life (feat. Marie Zak)

              A soul-stirring conversation, originally from my guest appearance on The Marie Embodied Podcast — now brought home to Find Your Feminine.

              This is the fullest version of my story I've ever shared here on the podcast. The night everything cracked open. The hypnotherapy session that took me back to age three. The moment my body came online & my pleasure returned for the first time.

              Marie and I move through the difference between a climactic life and an orgasmic one, what your numbness is really sitting on top of, the illnesses that whisper back to unfelt s*xual trauma, and why your p**** is the most honest compass you'll ever meet.

               

              What we cover: 

              ✦ The moment I knew something needed to change and I didn't want to spend my entire life numb.
              ✦ The three-year-old memory I didn't know I was carrying that was blocking my pleasure.
              ✦ Climactic life vs. orgasmic life
              ✦ The quiet language of your p**** (and what she's been trying to tell you)
              ✦ Yoni dearmoring & the night I wept in my husband's arms
              ✦ The glow no facial can give you
              ✦ What every woman secretly wants — no matter her surface goal

              + SO much more! 

              About Marie: Somatic practitioner based in Nelson, BC, and host of The Marie Embodied Podcast. Her work guides women home through a nervous system lens. → [@marieembodied]

               

              Resources + Links Mentioned

              • 🎓 Free Orgasmic Woman Masterclass → [JOIN NOW]
              • 📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade] 
              • 1 hr 5 min
              • #91: How Pleasure Heals You at a Cellular Level - The Science of Epigenetics + Your Orgasm

                his is the episode Carlie has been dying to record. Equal parts science and soul — and genuinely one of the most mind-blowing things you'll hear on this podcast.

                We're going deep into epigenetics — the science of how your behaviours, environment, thoughts, and feelings actually change the expression of your DNA. And specifically, how your pleasure, your orgasm, and your relationship with yourself are some of the most powerful healing tools available to you right now.

                If you've ever been told your health is just genetics, or that pleasure is indulgent, or that your body is something to fix from the outside — this episode will completely reframe everything.

                 

                In This Episode You'll Learn

                • What epigenetics actually is 
                • Why 95% of your genetic expression is mutable and changeable through how you live and the type of sex you're having. 
                • How your self-talk either makes you sick or healthy
                • The exact biochemicals released during orgasm and what they do for your health
                • Why your pleasure is one of the highest frequency states you can be in
                • 5 practical ways to use pleasure as medicine starting today
                • + SO much more! 
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                  Resources + Links Mentioned

                  • 🎓 Free Orgasmic Woman Masterclass → [JOIN NOW]
                  • 📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade] 
                  • 39 min
                  • #90: How to Introduce Your Partner to Tantra & Sacred Sexuality (When They've Never Done This Before)

                    This episode was inspired by a message from one of Carlie's long-term clients — a woman who had done deep pleasure work solo, and was now in a new relationship wanting to bring her partner into this world without freaking him out. If you've ever felt ahead of your partner on this path and wondered how to bridge that gap, this one is for you.

                    Carlie breaks down exactly how to invite your partner into sacred sexuality — without the awkward conversation, without emasculating him, and without turning the bedroom into a yoga class.

                     

                    In This Episode You'll Learn

                    • The difference between regular sex and tantric sex — and why it matters
                    • The #1 mistake women make when introducing their partner to this work (and why it always backfires)
                    • The exact 6 steps you can follow to upgrade your sex life and bring your partner into this this sacred sexuality work. 
                    • + SO much more. 
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                      Resources + Links Mentioned

                      • 🌸 Free Pleasure Blocker Quiz [Take the Quiz Now] 
                      • 🌹 Watch The Orgasmic Woman Masterclass [Sign Up] 
                      • 💫 VIP — Very Important Pussy (Carlie's signature program, includes the Sacred Lovers Guide as a free bonus) → [OPEN NOW] 
                      • 📲 Find Carlie on Instagram → [@carliejade]
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                        55 min
                      • #89: Sex, God & Healing: The Sacred Sexuality Conversation Nobody's Having | with Alina Camargo

                        What does it actually take to heal your sexuality — not just intellectually understand it, but feel it, reclaim it, and make it holy?

                        In this episode I'm joined by my dearest friend, Alina Camargo — love witch, medicine woman, and sacred sexuality healer — for one of the most raw, real, and profound conversations this podcast has ever held.

                        This is not a light episode. But it is a liberating one.

                        In this episode, we go into:

                        • Alina's journey from sexual abuse and trauma to becoming an orgasmic woman
                        • How Ayahuasca helped her purge generational sexual trauma — and the moment she realised it ends with her
                        • Why tantra changed her relationship with God, sex, and her own body 
                        • The biggest misconception about sexuality work
                        • + SO much more!
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                          🔗 CONNECT WITH ALINA:

                          • Worship Her Masterclass - Join here 
                          • @alinatheprimalmystic 
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                            🔗 CONNECT WITH ME:

                            • Instagram @carliejade 
                            • Substack: @carliejade 
                            • Website: https://carliejade.com/
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                              1 hr 1 min
                            • #88: Why You Can't Orgasm (And It's Not What You Think) | The Neuroscience of Pleasure & Orgasm Blocks

                              If you've ever felt broken in your body, numb to pleasure, or like no matter what you do, you just can't let go during sex? Then this episode is for you.

                              In today's episode of The Find Your Feminine Podcast, women's sexuality hypnotherapist Carlie Jade deep dives into the real neuroscience behind why so many women struggle to orgasm & why it has absolutely NOTHING to do with them being broken.

                              In this episode you'll discover:

                               

                              • The real neuroscience reason why you can't orgasm (and why it's not your fault)
                              • What your amygdala is doing during sex and why it's blocking your pleasure
                              • The Thinking/Feeling Loop that keeps women stuck in cycles of numbness and disconnection
                              • What women need to experience true orgasm. 
                              • What researchers found in brain scans during female orgasm that will blow your mind
                              • The 3 top biggest orgasm blocks for women 
                              • How neuroplasticity can literally rewire your brain for more pleasure
                              • And practical steps you can start today to bring your pleasure back online. Because your pleasure is your birthright! 
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                                Resources mentioned in this episode:

                                🧠 Take the FREE Pleasure Blocks Quiz → [Link to Quiz Here] 
                                Answer these 13 questions to uncover exactly what's blocking your pleasure. 

                                💫 Join the VIP Waitlist → www.carliejade.com/vip
                                VIP is Carlie's signature 12-week women's sexuality hypnotherapy program combining nervous system healing, subconscious reprogramming, and somatic pleasure practices. Doors open soon — get on the waitlist for first access (limited spaces). 

                                 

                                🔗 CONNECT WITH ME:

                                • Instagram @carliejade 
                                • Substack: @carliejade 
                                • Website: https://carliejade.com/
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                                  1 hr 6 min
                                • #87: The Truth Behind The Files: Why Your Sexuality Is Your Greatest Rebellion

                                  If you've been reading the news, watching the world crumble right before your eyes, and wondering "what the f**k am I supposed to do about any of this?", then this episode is for you. 

                                  With everything happening in the world right now. From the riots, the revelations, the files being released, I finally understand WHY I chose to do this work and why it matters more than ever. And why you too chose to be here too during it all. 

                                  And what we're supposed to all be focusing on right now, especially if we feel hopeless and confused. This is the BEST thing we can do not only for ourselves but for civilization as a whole. 

                                  HINT: It's all tied to your own sexual reclamation and healing. 

                                  Content Warning: This episode discusses sexual trauma, collective trauma, and current events that may be triggering for some listeners.

                                   

                                  What We're Diving Into:
                                  • Why 30-40% of women struggle with orgasm (and it's not what you think)
                                  • The ancient connection between sexuality and source energy that's been hidden from us
                                  • How sexual trauma—personal and collective—keeps us disconnected from our power
                                  • Why the most powerful thing you can access as a human has been suppressed, shamed, and manipulated
                                  • What tantric practices actually are (hint: it's not just about sex)
                                  • The real reason behind sexual trauma, trafficking, and the darkness we're seeing exposed right now
                                  • How to reclaim your birthright to pleasure, power, and connection
                                  • Why focusing on the reality you WANT is the most important thing you can do right now
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                                    This Episode Might Be For You If:
                                    • You struggle with orgasm or opening up sexually
                                    • You have a hard time trusting in relationships
                                    • You're carrying sexual trauma (from this lifetime or feeling like it's deeper)
                                    • You feel disconnected from your body and power
                                    • You're looking at world events and feel helpless about what to do
                                    • You want to understand the bigger spiritual picture of what's happening right now
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                                      Resources Mentioned:
                                      • "Outwitting the Devil" by Napoleon Hill
                                      • Elizabeth April Youtube Interview + Videos 
                                      • First hand experience of a Human Traffic Survivor 
                                      • VIP Program (link below)
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                                        🔗 CONNECT WITH ME:

                                        • Instagram @carliejade 
                                        • Substack: @carliejade 
                                        • Website: https://carliejade.com/
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                                          Keywords:

                                          sexual awakening, women's sexuality, orgasm, tantric practices, sexual trauma healing, spiritual awakening, source energy, hypnotherapy, reclaiming power, sacred sexuality, higher timeline, collective healing, feminine energy, sexual freedom

                                          Hashtags:

                                          #SexualAwakening #SacredSexuality #WomensSexuality #SpiritualAwakening #TraumaHealing #TantricPractices #ReclaimYourPower #SourceEnergy #FeminineEnergy #Hypnotherapy #SexualHealing #CollectiveHealing #HigherTimeline

                                          46 min
                                        • #86: The Real Reason Relationships Fail (& 6 Ways to Make Yours Thrive)

                                          This might be one of my favorite episodes I've ever created.

                                          After watching Married at First Sight Australia and witnessing how quickly people run when relationships get uncomfortable, I knew I had to share what makes a relationship actually THRIVE.

                                          After my own experience of devotionally loving the same man for over a decade, plus having qualifications in the field of love, sex, and relationships and working with hundreds of clients, I've found that thriving relationships need these exact 6 key ingredients.

                                          If you want a love like your grandparents had.... Something handcarved, intentional, and soul-deep—this episode is for you.

                                           

                                           

                                          💕 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

                                          • Very Important Pussy (VIP) program
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                                            🔗 CONNECT WITH ME:

                                            • Instagram @carliejade 
                                            • Substack: @carliejade 
                                            • Website: https://carliejade.com/
                                            • 1 hr 10 min
                                            • #85:The Energetic Glow Up Masterclass — Why Your Body Holds Trauma (and How to Glow Again) PART 3
                                              PART 3

                                              [Watch Masterclass Here] 

                                              Hello beautiful souls & welcome to the Find your Feminine Podcast. 

                                              Today I'm bringing you a 3 part series taken from such a potent and powerful live masterclass I held called the "Energetic Glow Up". Which is all about how unhealed sexual trauma lives in the body and how it shows up as numbness, disconnection, illness, and a completely dims our natural glow as women. 

                                              The Ultimate glow up is when a woman returns to her pleasure! And I'm about to show you how. 

                                              Inside this episode I will be sharing how any woman can go from numb to mulit-orgasmic in as little as 90 days. The exact steps I guide my clients through that provides them with the most phenomenal results. 

                                              Some of the topics covered today: 

                                              • The Specific Characteristics of All Highly Orgasmic Women 
                                              • How to become a highly orgasmic woman in 90 days
                                              • + so much more! 

                                                 

                                                MENTIONED IN TODAYS EPISODE:

                                                • Watch the Energetic Glow Up Masterclass 
                                                • Join Waitlist for V.I.P 
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                                                  Social Media: 

                                                  • Instagram @carliejade 
                                                  • Substack: @carliejade 
                                                  • Website: https://carliejade.com/
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                                                    30 min

                                                  About Find Your Feminine Podcast

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                                                  Welcome to the "Find Your Feminine" podcast, where host Carlie Jade—a Tantric Hypnotherapist—guides women on a journey to heal from lifelong trauma, embrace embodiment, and awaken to true sensual…