Do you hate the love language paradigm? Is it useful at all?

Everyone says this, but how can you really learn how to not care about their business and believe it's really what you think about yourself that matters?

If it's going to get done, it has to be by me. Ever feel like this? We do.

We take a little quiz to see how optimistic we are. We are both surprised (though you may not be).

What is forgiveness? Is it letting things go or is it something more?

We have both been through changes in our religious beliefs, but have also ended in very different places. 

Some people hate birthdays. Some people love birthdays. Guess which of us is which?

How do you feel about your changing physical appearance after age 50? Wrinkles, gray hair, sagging--um, other parts. We chat frankly about these issues.

What is happy? How is happy? Is happy?

How do yout rust yourself when you are the one who has always minimized and betrayed you?