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There's something really interesting about getting older as a woman.
I think most of us spend our 20s worrying about things that, with hindsight, didn't matter at all...
Our bodies.
What people think.
Whether we're getting it right.
Whether we're too much.
Not enough.
Too loud.
Too needy.
Too independent.
Too emotional.
Then somewhere along the way we hit our 40s and think:
Jesus Christ. What was I worrying about?
This week's conversation with Jen Maxwell went in all sorts of directions — people pleasing, boundaries, confidence, saying no, menopause and midlife, the fear of disappointing people, and the stories we tell ourselves about what will happen if we stop making everyone else comfortable.
And one thing kept coming up again and again.
How often women abandon themselves without even realising they're doing it.
We talk about why setting boundaries can feel so uncomfortable when you've spent years keeping everyone else happy. Why saying no can bring up guilt. How people pleasing slowly disconnects us from what we actually want. And what can happen in midlife when we start questioning some of the roles, expectations and behaviours we've carried for years.
We also talk about getting older, body confidence, menopause, relationships, self-trust and that glorious point where you begin to care a little less about what everybody else thinks and a lot more about whether the life you're living actually feels like yours.
I loved this conversation. It's honest, funny, thoughtful and one of those chats where you find yourself nodding along thinking...
Oh thank god, it's not just me.
Enjoy.
RAIN practice
Jen also shares a RAIN practice to accompany the episode:
[Listen to the RAIN practice]
About Jen Maxwell
Jen Maxwell is a feminine leadership guide, fire walking facilitator, tantra teacher and creator of the RISE™ Framework. She supports women through powerful rites of passage and life transitions such as burnout, identity shifts and menopause, helping them reconnect with their bodies, truth and inner authority.
Her work is rooted in embodiment, sovereignty and feminine awakening, guiding women to release conditioning and return to who they truly are beneath expectation and survival patterns.
At the heart of her work is the RISE™ Framework, which supports women to Reconnect with the body, rediscover Intuition, reclaim Sovereignty and fully Embody their authentic self.
Jen offers 1:1 RISE mentorships, fire walking and empowerment experiences, and transformational retreats.
Here is a link to the RISE framework https://jenmaxwell.com/the-rising/if you can embed it or add to the bottom.
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