Finding Oneness In Duality

Do you believe we were made for one person? 

Inanda shares her experience of the Shamanic direction of the North, and the energy that is held here, including our journey of turning inward to our own wisdom as we shed the guru’s, teachers and guides that we can get attached to. Soul Retrieval, soul integration and Soul contracts are held in the direction of the North. 

This led us to the conversation around Soul Mates, Twin Flames and Soul contracts.  In a conscious practice, can we have deep soulful connections with the opposite sex and still have it be appropriate and within Inny when the two people are in other committed relationships? Can we choose out of Soul Contracts? Do Twin Flames really exists and are they the “completion” or “other half” of our experience  in deep Spiritual connection? There are so many differing opinions on what it means to have a soul contract with a soul mate, and the eternal longing for the Twin Flame union. Inanda and Val also have their own opinions on what that means, based on their own experiences. Join us for an interesting and reflective conversation around our own experiences and conscious choices in soul connections.

Our Ask today is: “What things today will bring more consciousness to my experience in the choice points that are present?”

Episode 15...Conscious Parenting. Today, we share from our experience of parenting and how we have grown and evolved over the years, through being deeply entrenched in  religion, through leaving religion, through divorce and all the things, and into the present day. Parenting has been one of the most challenging and yet rewarding experiences in our lives. Working through the "idealized" story of what being a parent means to the actual reality of the day to day nitty gritty has been eye opening, to say the least. Parenting has been a living workshop for growth and evolvement on the daily, and often, it's our children that are teaching us. 
What if we start to teach our children how to be embodied and trusting themselves in their own lives, which is teaching them to source from their own internal compass? How can we keep an open line of trust and communication with our children so that they feel safe to come to us when they need help? How can we empower our children to express themselves as who they are in the world and build thier confidence rather than having obedient robots who do what we say? We have the priviledge of sharing a journey with these amazing souls that are coming to Earth to create change and move humanity forward. This innately requires that things are done differently, than how they've been done in the past. 
Our ask today is, If you don't feel like you have a relationship with your children that you desire, where can you shift to start creating that?

Sovereignty, what does that mean, and how can we embody this practice in our every day lives? We talk about body awareness and how we can feel more of our sovereign selves in our physical bodies and how we can consciously access our personal empowerment. Our bodies are AMAZING vehicles that give us indicators as to what is going on internally. As we learn to be embodied, and listen to our physical vessel, we become powerful in consciously shifting energy, aligning with the timeline we choose to live, and project our creative energy out into the world to powerfully create our lived daily experience.
Inanda gets vulnerable and shares her very recent and current situation working through some health issues as she learns to tune in to her body and find the balance of expert medical advice, as well as her own internal truth. Her process of healing is ongoing, and she is learning to listen to her body, loving the process, learning to be rooted and resourced from source as she navigates her own sovereignty.
We talk about different ways to be embodied and learn to listen to the deep messages from the wisdom of our bodies. Our ability to heal our own bodies is a process of learning to trust ourselves, listening to our innate inner wisdom and taking action from that place of truth. This is sovereignty in practice.
Sovereignty is an embodied practice of both the Divine Feminine; trust, surrender, intuition, inner guidance with the Divine Masculine; heart-centered right action, alignment, integrity. Learning how to find the play between the two is the dance between being rooted and connected with a letting go and trusting the process as it shows up in our lives and trusting ourselves to navigate from our own internal compass.

Our ask: If you believe that everything is for a greater understanding and experience of who you are, and nothing you do truly matters, what would you do different in your life today? As you grow, I grow. As we grow, 'god' grows.

References:
The Afterlife of Billy Fingers
https://www.amazon.com/Afterlife-Billy-Fingers-Bad-Boy-Brother/dp/1571746943/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3C6QEOPQBATM1&dchild=1&keywords=the+afterlife+of+billy+fingers&qid=1598302842&sprefix=the+afterlife+of+bill%2Caps%2C260&sr=8-1

Inanda's breath meditation: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=video&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwjPhMeq3rTrAhVDGM0KHZ6iAvEQtwIwAXoECAEQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DYQhUgdKvoro&usg=AOvVaw0ptLBF8Gj89_VZVX7Rs9KD

Episode 13.....We are relational BEINGS. In fact, you could argue that our reality is created through our relationship to the OTHER. Be it the economy, politics, friendships, sex, partnership, money, success, scarcity, abundance, spirituality....our relationship to the OTHER will always define our experience and thus our REALITY. In a time of huge shifting of paradigms, and drastic changes in life and what is NORMAL, how can our experience in relationship to these changes help us navigate uncertainty and receive life in the fullest way possible?
We are in Eclipse Season, Summer Solstice, New Moon Energy and there is an amazing opportunity to let go, tune in and set intention to create through our relationship to the other. Life, Death, Life cycle. We have huge opportunities to shift ourselves right now and literally create our reality. What if we could experience "heaven on Earth" right now? What if we are the absolute creators of our reality and where we place our attention we understand that we are directing energy towards expanding that experience? What if we stepped fully into our sovereignty, personal accountability and our divine ability to shift our relationships to a more elevated, personal experience of abundance, passion and joy and recieve support in all the ways that feels good to us personally and that reflects our beliefs, values, and desires? Could we allow that same process to be true for the OTHER? Can we be willing to step into our own power and in relationship to all things and allow the same to be true for others? This is Sacred Relationship. Sacred Relationship with ourself first, and then with the other.  
Our Ask today is: "What is my relationship to giving my power away and why?"





REFERENCES: "Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone" by Brené Brown, "Rise Sister Rise: A Guide to Unleashing the Wise, Wild Woman Within" by Rebecca Campbell, "The Great Human Potential: Walking in One's Own Light" by Wendy Kennedy and Tom Kenyon, "The Divine Feminine Oracle Guide Deck" by Meggan Watterson

Episode 12....This episode is a little different. We are consciously choosing to release it unedited, uncut, raw, authentic and imperfect, and this is why. 
We start this episode out so strong and aligned with DIVINE FLOW where everything is flowing with ease and power. As we finished our recording session, the WTF moment happened.....only 23 minutes of amazing content was recorded. We both were disappointed and struggled to step back into the FLOW to re-create what was lost. In our practice of embodiment of the Divine Feminine, we realized that nothing can be re-created and we had a powerful opportunity to basically, SURRENDER and WALK the TALK. So, we step into VULNERABILITY and share our process of EMBODIMENT of being AUTHENTIC to the moment, feeling the DISJOINTEDNESS of our struggle, allowing ourselves to feel what we are feeling in the moment, and TRUSTING THE PROCESS that is present. Our intention is walk our talk, allow for DIVINE FLOW even when things don't feel like they are flowing, and embrace the moment for exactly what it is presenting. It's a practice of SURRENDERING, ALLOWING and BEING. Our ASK today is, What is your practice of the Divine Feminine and how are you embodying that practice? Feel free to share on our IG and FB pages. We'd love to have a conversation.

Episode 11....Wow! We are immersed by such INTENSE ENERGY right now on our planet, and in our Country. None of the current issues of Racism, Violence, Slavery, Division are new, they have been going on for centuries, the difference is that NOW they are being seen and felt on the surface. The deep wounding that is being exposed can no longer being hidden in the shadows. The Triangle of Disempowerment is in full activation between Victim, Perpetrator, and Rescuer and the energetics and pain are on the surface and swirling around creating CHAOS, CONFUSION, MOVEMENT, AND NEW OPPORTUNITIES FOR CHANGE. 
So, now what? What can we do in such an overwhelming time? We would like to offer that the answers are WITHIN each of us, through our own personal work of healing. What if our experience in the current paradigm is IN SERVICE to showing each of us where our individual wounding is and how we can start our process of INVOLUTION, going inward to witness what is asking to be seen, heard, and healed? And from the inner work, we can engage in a process of EVOLUTION to a new paradigm.
If we continue to go outside of ourselves and engage in BLAME, SHAME, VIOLENCE, DIVISION, we will continue to feed the program of SLAVERY, RACISM, VIOLENCE, and DISEMPOWERMENT. We CANNOT expect to have RADICAL CHANGE by feeding the collective with the same energies that have been so damaging to ALL OF US. The world doesn't need more of the low level frequencies we've been swimming in. What we need is RADICAL UNITY which only comes through the INNER work of HEALING and INTEGRATION so that we may come together and start having a conversation from a place of WHOLENESS rather than from WOUNDING, that is IN SERVICE to the COLLECTIVE.
Our ask today is, "How can we see all sides of the narrative, and how much of inner wounding is controlling our individual narrative and how much are we allowing our narrative to be controlled?" Take a deep breath, feel into your body, and be so brave. 

REFERENCES: The Great Human Potential: Walking in One's Own Light. Teaching from the Pleiades and the Hathors by Tom Kenyon and Wendy Kennedy. For channeled sound healings from the Arcturians and Hathors go to tomkenyon.com. To read more about Synarchy check out Richard Rudd's work in The Gene Keys.

Episode 10.....Reptilian Brain....Aliens....Slave Race....Yep, we are going there, into the land of the woo woo. For this episode we invite you to have an open mind and consider some ideas that may have never been in your paradigm before. The questions of Where do I come from and Why am I here have been the questions of philosophers, religions and human-kind across time. What if Science Fiction is more Fact than Fiction? What if we have been enslaved as a human race and have been in an illusion of who we really are? What if, our interconnectedness expands beyond our planet and into the Cosmos? Are we really Inter-Galactic Royalty and our expansion and evolvement affects over 25 different Alien species because our  DNA comes from more than 25 different inter-galactic races? Come along with us as we explore a different narrative than the traditional religious story we've been given through a Patriarchal system. Does it resonate with you or absolutely not? Our Ask today is: Can I be willing to be open minded and look at things I never considered before? We'd love to hear your thoughts on our IG page or FB page. Let's have a conversation.







REFERENCES: The Arcturian Anthology by Tom Kenyon & Judi Sion, 

Episode 9
We live in a dualistic world where we have access to experience a broad range of all the things. Duality gives us a deeper understanding of what something is, through the experience of what it is not, thus opening our awareness of polarity. Polarity can create some chaos as we swing between the opposites in our process of living and learning who we are in the world. The magic is created in becoming conscious in our process of duality and learning how to hold the center point, or finding the balance between the opposing poles. Once we learn how to hold center, what if we can then begin to play with polarity to hold the truth within both? Instead of holding judgment for our experience of duality, we can create a magnetic field by holding the paradox of the opposing forces. Using the power of alchemy in the space of the duality, we can powerfully create new programs of manifestation while honoring the truth of the "shadow" that we all experience. This is a practice of stepping into our magnetic resonance as an electomagnetic being to create our Reality. This is the practice of claiming our Sovereignty as the Ultimator Creator of our Life in all forms and in all the ways. Join us for a fun conversation of looking at Duality in exploring another perspective in the practice of holding center or the place of non-duality.
Our Ask today is: "How can I play with the energies of duality in creating my reality?"
We'd love to hear your Power Statements using the magnetic force of duality. Leave your comments on our IG page @Finding.Oneness.In.Duality or on Facebook page, Finding Oneness in Duality.


REFERENCES: DNA Demystified, The Practical Guide to Reprogramming the 13 Helixes at Zero point Volume 1 by Kishori Aird, The Sophrenic Collective can be found at thesophreniccollective.com for more information and to schedule appointments, Gene Keys: Unlocking the Higher Purpose Hidden in Your DNA by Richard Rudd.

In episode 8, Amanda and I dive into an exploration of the idea of Walking the Beauty Way. WTF does that look like and how do we embody a new way of navigating life in an empowered, Divine Feminine energy? During challenging times of change, life is demanding an elevated approach for birthing new outcomes. As we change, everything changes. 
We have an opportunity to walk The Beauty Way and practice turning inward to find our place of truth in the present moment to inform us of the next movement we choose to make. We are powerful in alchemizing our lives as we move from repeating patterns to a more expanded experience in our ability to consciously create our lives. We are being asked to drop into our bodies and feel our way through the unknown, surrender our plans, and be ok not knowing what's next. 
How would our lives change if we understood the interconnectedness of all things? We believe we need to shift from a place of dominion on the planet to a place of a symbiotic relationship. This can be done by looking at our own traumas and being willing to do the healing work to come to a place of wholeness. Identifying our coping skills and when they are active will help us to become more conscious of our patterns and inform us as to how we can let go of the need to control, feel unloved and unsafe, and potentially repeat unwanted family patterns. Healing our traumas will allow us to alchemize a painful and charged experience into a place of compassion and deep wisdom.  When we heal ourselves and our relationships, we can start to understand the ripple effect that takes place through the collective consciousness, and we can help to heal the world.
Walking The Beauty Way asks us to look inward and practice living in a more balanced and unified place within ourselves as we embody an elevated practice of BEING. Our ask today is: How is my outer world reflecting my inner world back to me? 


REFERENCES: Dr Masaru Emoto water experiments can be found on YouTube, Reconnect  is the documentary we referenced on Ayuhasca and can be found on LondonReal.com 

Episode 7...Whoa! We jump in right from the get-go and practice trusting the flow of the process. Emotions are high as we discuss the very real circumstances we are all experiencing in our world and challenge ourselves to look at all the things with the lens of non-duality. Is that even possible? How do we remain neutral when everything feels so charged? And should we? What is the fine line between "following the rules" and still maintaining our values and rights as human beings? 

In a world that is not making much sense, we discuss ways we can navigate through the beautiful mess of life, especially now. When we experience things that bring up fear, we can ask ourselves what can we do about it. This will move the energy from fear, into empowerment and action. Practicing trust in ourselves also helps us to let go of the rampant fear that is present. Finding ways to agree to disagree, and honoring the other for their beliefs, opinions, and actions can also help ease this highly charged time. As the collective and individual are grasping to navigate such an unknown time, we can learn to embrace compassion, let go of our ego's and not knowing, while allowing ourselves to be comfortable in the discomfort. To hold the space of non-duality, we have to see the interconnectedness of everything, whether we agree with what is happening or not and challenge ourselves to offer compassion, in all circumstances. Our ask today is: "How can I be more aware and more allowing of the physical response in my body as the indicator of my truth and can I hold it in a space of compassion?"

Come along with us for the wild ride of our choatic conversation.