Insecurities often cause us to hide our true selves and push people away. The truth is, we need each other to bring the best out of us. Learning how to address our insecurities and find internal validation is key to trusting others and finding security in our own lives. 

Transformation Tip: “You must trust and believe in people or life becomes impossible.” -– Anton Chekhov

Shame causes us to hide. Our doubt creates insecurity which causes us to shield ourselves from others.

Growing through your identity is a process. Growth takes time. 

Your starting point will dictate your finishing point. Live from a positive starting point. 

Focusing on internal validation is vital. You have to find your security from within. If you can only find validation externally, your self-worth will constantly be under the power of circumstances you cannot control. 

Insecure behaviors:

• Control 
• Defensiveness 
• Independence 

Being vulnerable and authentic will draw people to your security. 

When we don’t feel secure, we conclude that we need to do everything for ourselves and become independent/self-made. This often leads to self-centeredness and loneliness and exhaustion. 

We need each other. We need people to bring out the best in us. 

Practical self-awareness exercises:

• Understand and identify your triggers
• Look for moments when you find yourself over-reacting
• What provoked your insecure reaction?

• Walk in the opposite direction of your fears

• Make declarations and affirmations
• How you see yourself is how you treat yourself

Transformation application: Pick one of the three self-awareness exercises listed above and put it into action. 

Coaching Resources:

 http://www.stevechuaintl.com

http://www.petecoaching.com/

https://www.insightoutcorp.com/

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