In this show Duane discusses finding who you are and healing plus growing through these experiences. He then discusses his involvement with Veronika Archer and her “You Get to be YOU” Podcast Series that has over 32 experts in their respective areas. We then discuss how these experiences give you the opportunity to change the direction of your life. Duane then discusses how he used therapy with YouTube (Richard Grannon) to work through the emotional pain and trauma he was going through. A listen er asks, “Do we create our own mess” and Duane discusses his thoughts on lessons and how these experiences force us to deal with past traumas. A caller shares how the failed relationship with his ex forced him to look at his past and realize he had a trouble family of origin. We then discuss a comment asking if over trusting is our “main” failure. Duane then discusses after a comment about the importance of healthy emotional boundaries in good relationships. Finally we discuss how a narcissist operates and if they “plan” what they do.