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  • Win the Fight - Whale Hunting Series: Negotiation

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    The deal doesn’t get won when the opportunity shows up. It gets won in the fight.

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright breaks down Phase Four of the Whale Hunting series: The Fight. Using the analogy of battling a big fish offshore, RB explains what really happens after the strike—and why this is where most people lose.

    In business and sales, the fight is negotiation. It’s the moment where objections, questions, hesitation, and resistance show up. And how you handle that moment determines whether you win… or lose the deal.

    This episode teaches you how to manage that process with control, clarity, and discipline.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why the “strike” is just the beginning—not the win
    • How negotiation mirrors the push and pull of fighting a fish
    • The concept of controlled tension and why it matters
    • How to handle objections without forcing or backing off
    • Why top performers stay composed when pressure shows up

    Key Takeaways

    • “The fight is where deals are won.”
    • “Objections are not rejection—they are requests for more information.”
    • “If you push too hard, you lose them. If you back off too much, you lose them.”
    • “Controlled tension keeps you in the conversation.”

    Objections vs Conditions
    RB breaks down one of the most important distinctions in negotiation: the difference between objections and conditions. Objections are questions that can be worked through. Conditions are non-negotiable. Knowing the difference is what separates professionals from amateurs.

    Your Challenge This Week
    When you face pushback, don’t panic. Stay in the conversation. Ask better questions. Listen more. Manage the tension. Because winning doesn’t happen before the resistance—it happens in it.

    What’s Next
    Next episode in the Whale Hunting series: Landing the Fish—closing the deal and finishing what you started.

    If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs to learn how to stay in the fight and win it.

    14 min
  • Your One Shot to Connect - Whale Hunting Series: The Spread

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    You don’t get unlimited chances.

    In business and in life, you get a moment. A look. An opportunity. And in that moment, your presentation either connects… or it doesn’t.

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright breaks down Phase Three of the Whale Hunting series: The Spread. Using offshore fishing as the foundation, RB explains how the spread—the baits and lures behind the boat—is what the fish sees and reacts to. It’s not random. It’s intentional, precise, and aligned with the target.

    Then he brings it directly into business and sales.

    Your spread is your presentation. Your message. Your positioning. And for most people, this is where it falls apart.

    If your message isn’t clear, if your delivery isn’t aligned, or if your presentation doesn’t connect, the opportunity is gone—no matter how good you are or how strong your product is.

    This episode is about getting clear, getting intentional, and making sure when your moment comes… you’re ready.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why your presentation is your one shot to create a reaction
    • How clarity drives connection and eliminates hesitation
    • The direct link between targeting and messaging
    • Why confusion kills action in sales and communication
    • How high performers intentionally design their “spread”

    Key Takeaways

    • “Your presentation is what people see, feel, and react to.”
    • “You don’t get paid for what you know—you get paid for what people understand.”
    • “Confusion kills action.”
    • “Precision, not hope, creates results.”

    Innergator System Connection
    This episode ties directly into the Innergator system, where clarity in communication and intentional presentation are critical components of execution. It’s not just about knowing what to say—it’s about making sure it connects.

    Your Challenge This Week
    Take a hard look at your presentation.

    •  Are you clear? 
    • Are you intentional? 
    • Are you aligned with what your audience actually needs? 
    • Or are you just putting something out there and hoping it works?

    Because hope is not a strategy. Precision is.

    What’s Next
    Next episode in the Whale Hunting series: The Fight—how to handle pressure, objections, and close when the opportunity is on the line.

    If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs to sharpen how they show up and communicate.

    13 min
  • Follow the Plan - Whale Hunting Series: Planning

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    Most people don’t fail because they lack effort. They fail because they don’t have a plan—or they don’t follow one.

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright breaks down Phase Two of the Whale Hunting series: Planning. After identifying the right target through research, the next step is building a clear, structured plan that removes emotion and drives consistent execution.

    Using real-world tournament fishing strategy, RB explains how top performers identify specific target areas, assign time blocks, and make disciplined decisions based on results—not feelings. The same principles apply directly to business, sales, and life.

    If you’re tired of being busy without results, this episode will challenge you to move from intention to execution.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why having a plan is different than having goals or ideas
    • How structure removes emotion and improves decision-making
    • When to stay committed and when to adjust your approach
    • Why most people abandon plans too early or stay too long
    • How high performers create consistency through disciplined execution

    Key Takeaways

    • “Follow the plan, not your feelings.”
    • “Being busy without a plan is just controlled chaos.”
    • “You’ve already made the decision—now execute.”
    • “Structure creates discipline, and discipline creates results.”

    Innergator System Preview
    RB introduces the upcoming Innergator Daily Execution Planner, a tool designed to help you map out your targets, allocate time, define success, and execute with clarity and consistency.

    Your Challenge This Week
    Build a real plan. Identify what you’re going after, where you’re focusing, how long you’re committing to it, and when you will adjust. Then follow it, especially when it’s not working.

    What’s Next
    Next episode in the Whale Hunting series: The Spread — how your presentation and positioning determine your results.

    If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs to stop guessing and start executing.

    13 min
  • You Don’t Just Show Up and Win - Whale Hunting Series: Research

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    If you’re trying to win at a high level, you don’t get there by working harder—you get there by preparing better.

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright breaks down the first phase of the Whale Hunting series: Research. Drawing from real offshore tournament fishing experience, RB walks through how preparation begins weeks in advance—studying conditions, tracking movement, and using the right tools to identify the best opportunities.

    Then he connects it directly to business and sales, showing how top performers use data, technology, and intentional research to position themselves for success before they ever make a call.

    Because success isn’t about guessing.

    It’s about knowing.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why high performers don’t just work harder—they prepare better
    •  How research helps you identify the right opportunities and timing
    •  The direct connection between preparation and confidence
    •  Why most people waste time chasing the wrong targets
    •  How to apply research strategies in sales, business, and life

    Key Takeaways

    • “You don’t win at a high level by guessing—you win by preparing.”
    •  “Preparation creates confidence. Confidence creates better conversations.       Better conversations create better results.”
    •  “When you skip research, you’re choosing to struggle later.”
    •  “Hope is not a strategy—preparation is.”

    Whale Hunting Series – Phase 1: Research

    This episode is the foundation of the Whale Hunting framework. Before you can plan, execute, or win, you must first understand what you’re going after and whether the conditions are right.

    RB walks through how this applies across industries—from offshore fishing to mortgage banking, real estate, and sales—using tools like data platforms, social media, and market research to eliminate guesswork and increase precision.

    Your Challenge This Week

    Before you make your next move, stop and ask yourself:

    1. What do I actually know about this?
    2.  Have I done the research?
    3.  Or am I just hoping it works?

    Because where you start determines where you end up.

    What’s Next

    Next week, RB breaks down the next phase in the Whale Hunting series: 

    Planning – Turning Research Into a Strategy

    If This Episode Helped You

    Share it with someone who is ready to stop guessing and start preparing.

    Because greatness isn’t built by chance…

    It’s built by doing the work before it counts.

    16 min
  • What Are You Fishing For? Are You Targeting… or Just Hoping?

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    What are you really going after? 

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright challenges you to take a hard look at the difference between being busy and being intentional. Coming off a recent trip to Bermuda, RB shares a powerful lesson from offshore fishing—one that applies directly to your life, your business, and your results. Because when things weren’t working, the answer wasn’t to quit… it was to adjust without losing sight of the target. 

    This episode marks the beginning of a new series: Whale Hunting—a framework built around targeting bigger opportunities, operating with intention, and executing at a higher level.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why most people aren’t stuck—they’re just targeting the wrong things
    •  The difference between activity and intentional execution
    •  How your results reflect what you’re truly aiming for
    •  Why high performers don’t panic when things aren’t working
    •  The importance of adjusting the plan without abandoning the goal

    Key Takeaways

    • “Your life reflects what you’re targeting.”
    •  “You’re not behind—you’re just not being intentional.”
    •  “One right opportunity can change everything.”
    •  “Don’t abandon the goal… adjust the plan.”

    Introducing: Whale Hunting

    This episode kicks off a powerful new series where RB will break down how to research the right opportunities, how to build a plan that actually works, how to position yourself for success, and how to execute, adjust, and ultimately win.

    The Innergator System (Coming Soon)

    RB also introduces the upcoming Innergator System—a structured approach designed to help you get clear on what matters, act with intention daily, track real progress, optimize your relationships, and reflect and reset for continuous growth. Because hearing it is one thing… doing it consistently is something completely different.

    Your Challenge This Week

    Take a step back and ask yourself: What am I actually fishing for? Are my actions aligned with that target? Because being busy and being intentional are not the same thing.

    If This Episode Hit Home

    Share it with someone who needs to hear it. Because greatness isn’t built by doing more… it’s built by targeting better.


    12 min
  • When Nothing Is Working… Adjust the Plan

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    What do you do when nothing is working?

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright shares a powerful, real-life story from a recent trip to Bermuda—one that started with high expectations… and quickly turned into frustration, setbacks, and uncertainty.

    From rough seas and broken equipment to empty waters with no fish in sight, this wasn’t the perfect trip.

    But what happened next holds the lesson.

    Through adjusting the plan, relying on relationships, and staying disciplined under pressure, everything changed—from no action… to blackfin tuna and a 50-pound wahoo… and an unforgettable evening with great food and even better perspective.

    This episode isn’t about fishing.

    •  It’s about life.
    • It’s about business.
    •  It’s about what happens when things don’t go your way.

     What You’ll Learn

    •  Why “no results” doesn’t mean the goal is wrong
    •  The difference between amateurs who panic and professionals who adjust
    •  How tracking and awareness guide better decisions 
    •  Why relationships matter when you need them most
    •  The power of reflecting and resetting to improve performance 
    •  How structure—not motivation—is the key to long-term success 

     The Innergator System (Preview)

    RB also introduces the upcoming Innergator System—a structured approach to turning intention into consistent action.

    Because let’s be honest:

    • Hearing it is one thing…
    • Doing it every day is something completely different.

    The system is designed to help you:

    •  Get clear every morning 
    •  Act with intention throughout the day 
    •  Track what actually matters 
    •  Optimize your relationships 
    •  Reflect and reset for continuous improvement 

     Key Takeaways

    • “Just because the plan isn’t working doesn’t mean the goal is wrong.”
    • “You don’t need everything to go right to win… you just need to stay in it long enough to adjust.”
    • “The people who win aren’t the ones with perfect conditions… they’re the ones who adjust when conditions aren’t.”

    Your Challenge This Week

    When something doesn’t go your way—and it will—

    •  Don’t quit 
    •  Don’t panic 
    •  Don’t abandon the goal 

     Adjust the plan.

    If This Helped You…

    Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.

    Because greatness isn’t found in perfect conditions…

    It’s built through discipline, intentional action, and the ability to adjust.

     Connect + Follow

    More episodes, tools, and the upcoming Innergator System coming soon.

    17 min
  • The Internal Conversation That Changes Everything

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    What if the biggest thing holding you back… is the conversation happening inside your own head?

    This week on Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright shares an unexpected moment that stopped him in his tracks while attending an event in Charlotte, NC.

    Walking through the hotel hallway with Daniel DiGuglielmo (Danny D), RB noticed a hand-written “Growth Mindset” board hanging inside the HR office. What looked simple at first turned into one of the most powerful real-world reminders about mindset, self-talk, growth, discipline, and personal transformation.

    The board contained daily affirmations designed to challenge negative thinking and replace limitation with growth:

    “I can’t do this.”
    - “I am still learning.”

    “I’m afraid of making mistakes.”
    - “Mistakes are how I learn and grow.”

    “This is too hard.”
    - “With more practice, it will get easier.”

    “They are better than I am.”
    -“What can I learn from them?”

    In this episode, RB breaks down why mindset is not motivation — it is the lens through which you interpret adversity, pressure, failure, opportunity, and growth.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why failure is tuition
    • How repetition creates confidence
    • Why growth requires discomfort
    • The danger of negative self-programming
    • How comparison can either destroy confidence or fuel growth
    • Why your internal dialogue becomes your identity
    • The connection between mindset, discipline, and greatness

    This episode is a direct challenge to examine the words you repeat to yourself every single day.

    Because eventually…

    Your thoughts become your actions.
    Your actions become your habits.
    Your habits become your identity.
    And your identity becomes your life.

    If you’ve ever battled self-doubt, fear, comparison, frustration, or limitation — this episode is for you.

    You already have greatness inside of you.

    Now it’s time to let the gator out of the cage.


    18 min
  • From Addiction to Purpose: John Langdon’s “Whatever It Takes” Story

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    This may be one of the most powerful and real conversations we’ve had on Finding Your Innergator.

    In this episode, RB Wright sits down with John Langdon, a loan officer whose story is nothing short of transformational.

    Just a few years ago, John was battling addiction at the deepest level—meth, heroin, and alcohol—living in what he describes as the darkest place imaginable.

    Today?

    He’s building a thriving business, impacting thousands of lives, and living out a mission rooted in discipline, faith, and purpose.

     What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    •  John’s journey from addiction and rock bottom to recovery and purpose 
    •  How small decisions led to massive consequences—and how new decisions changed everything 
    •  The role of discipline, faith, and daily habits in rebuilding a life 
    •  How he went from 14 loans a year → 83+ units → explosive growth in 2026
    •  The power of massive action and consistency
    •  Why relationships are the true driver of opportunity 
    •  How clarity and intentional action changed his trajectory 

     The Turning Point:

    At his lowest moment, John wrote five words on a dry erase board:

     “Whatever it takes, I want to live.”

    That mindset didn’t just save his life…

    It now drives everything he does.

     Impact Beyond Business

    John is the co-founder of Whatever It Takes Addiction Prevention, a nonprofit focused on educating students about the dangers of addiction.

    •  Reaching over 20,000 students
    •  Sharing real stories that resonate 
    •  Helping young people make better decisions before it’s too late 

    His message is simple:

    • Small decisions matter.
    •   Discipline matters.
    •   Your life can change.

    CLICK TO HERE TO LEARN ABOUT JOHN's NON-PROFIT

     Key Takeaways:

    •  You are not defined by your past 
    •  Growth requires intentional daily discipline
    •  Massive action + consistency = massive results 
    •  Relationships create opportunities 
    •  When you change your mindset, everything changes 

     This Week’s Challenge:

    Ask yourself:

     “Where am I not doing whatever it takes?”

    Is it your habits?
     Your discipline?
     Your consistency?

    Because that’s where your breakthrough is.

     Final Thought:

    Inside every one of us…

    there is greatness.

    But it’s not found.

     It’s built—one disciplined decision at a time.

     If this episode impacted you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

    And as always…

     Go Gatorize your day.

    30 min
  • Why Most People Stay Stuck — And How Top Performers See Opportunities First - Featuring Zan Monroe

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    What separates top performers from everyone else?

    It’s not talent.
     It’s not luck.

    It’s how they see the world differently.

    In this episode of Finding Your Innergator, RB Wright sits down with longtime friend, speaker, and author Zan Monroe to break down the mindset, awareness, and daily disciplines that allow high achievers to recognize opportunity early—and act on it.

    From powerful life lessons to real-world examples in business, fishing, and personal growth, this conversation dives deep into how trends develop, why most people miss them, and how you can position yourself ahead of the curve.

    They also explore one of the biggest shifts happening right now—artificial intelligence—and how to use it as a strategic advantage instead of falling behind.

    If you’ve ever felt stuck, uncertain, or like you’re missing something… this episode will challenge you to think differently.

     What You’ll Learn:

    •  Why recruiting, growth, and success all start with identity
    •  The difference between chasing opportunities vs. attracting them
    •  How the “lily pad effect” explains success and failure trends 
    •  Why most people miss opportunities—even when they’re right in front of them 
    •  How to use AI as a thought partner, not just a tool 
    •  The role of daily discipline and tracking in long-term success 
    •  Why your comfort zone is the biggest threat to your growth

     Key Takeaway:

    You don’t fall behind overnight.
     You fall behind slowly—until one day it’s too late.

    Top performers don’t wait until the pond is full…
     They recognize the trend early and act.

     About Today’s Guest:

    Zan Monroe is a speaker, author, and coach with decades of experience in real estate, leadership, and personal development. Known for his ability to simplify complex ideas and inspire action, Zan has helped countless individuals and organizations grow through mindset, discipline, and strategic thinking.

    zanmonroe.com 

     Call to Action:

    If this episode impacted you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

    And if you’re ready to take control of your mindset, your discipline, and your results:

    • Explore the Innergator system
    • Connect with RB
    • Start building your next level today
    59 min
  • From Rock Bottom to Global Impact | Featuring Alison Blanchard

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    What does it really look like when the Innergator system comes to life?

    In this powerful episode of Finding Your Innergator, R.B. Wright sits down with Alison Blanchard, real estate leader, speaker, and founder of Compass Impact, to explore how discipline, relationships, and intentional action can transform not only your life—but the lives of others around the world.

    From pawning her wedding ring just to survive…
     to building a thriving business…
     to helping construct schools and provide resources in Uganda…

    Allison’s story is a real-life example of what happens when you align the five pillars and refuse to stay in your comfort zone.

    🔑 Key Takeaways
    •  Success is built through alignment—not luck 
    •  Relationships are the ultimate multiplier in life and business 
    •  You cannot be committed to your comfort zone and your goals at the same time 
    •  Your beliefs shape your reality—challenge the limits you’ve accepted 
    •  Massive action creates momentum—even when conditions aren’t perfect 
    •  True success leads to impact, not just income 
     Alison’s Journey
    •  Raised in small-town Wisconsin with a heart to help others 
    •  Worked in psychiatric rehab helping women re-enter society 
    •  Moved to Mississippi after Hurricane Katrina to help rebuild communities 
    •  Hit rock bottom financially—pawned her wedding ring to survive 
    •  Entered real estate with no resources but relentless determination 
    •  Quickly rose to the top 5% through service and discipline 
    •  Built a thriving real estate business and multiple ventures 
    Making an Impact

    Through Compass Impact, Allison and her team are:

    •  Building schools in Uganda (including education access for young girls) 
    •  Providing clean water and essential resources 
    •  Supporting healthcare initiatives in underserved and war-torn regions 
    •  Creating opportunities where none previously existed 

    One of the most powerful moments:

    A young girl in Uganda was asked what she wanted most in life…
     Her answer: “Opportunity.”

    Practical Lessons You Can Apply

    1. Move When It’s Time to Move
    Don’t wait for perfect conditions—take action and adjust along the way.

    2. Build the Right Circle
    Surround yourself with people who push you, challenge you, and elevate your thinking.

    3. Stop Listening to Yourself—Start Talking to Yourself
    Replace doubt with direction.

    4. Make Aligned Decisions, Not Convenient Ones
    Convenience often leads to regret—purpose leads to growth.

    5. Create Your Reality
    Your beliefs shape your outcomes—choose them intentionally.

    Quotes From This Episode

    “Your beliefs become your reality—so choose them wisely.”

    “The better your relationships, the greater your impact.”

    Challenge This Week
    •  Evaluate your inner circle 
    •  Identify one limiting belief and challenge it 
    •  Take one bold action you’ve been avoiding 
    •  Look for one opportunity to create impact beyond yourself 
    Connect & Support

    Want to support Alison’s mission and global impact efforts?

    👉https://bit.ly/compass-impact

     Final Thought

    Inside of you, there is greatness.

    But greatness doesn’t grow by accident.

    It’s built through discipline…
     through relationships…
     and through intentional action.

    1 hr 8 min

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 Finding Your Innergator is a podcast about leadership, life lessons, and discovering the strength that already lives inside you.


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