This episode responds to a listener’s question about why Bar Mitzvahs are often celebrated so publicly while Bat Mitzvahs look very different. We explore how Judaism understands maturity, responsibility, and distinct communal roles for boys and girls, and why those differences shaped how each milestone developed

What happens when strangers stop in the streets of the Old City of Jerusalem and ask the questions everyone is thinking—but few are willing to say out loud?

From fear in the diaspora to pride in Jewish identity, from the pain of October 7 to the hope for Moshiach, these raw, unscripted conversations cut straight to the heart of what it means to be a Jew right now.

Passersby from Paris, Brooklyn, London, Miami, and beyond open up about antisemitism, faith, exile, Torah, and the future of the Jewish people. No politics. No talking points. Just honest questions—and answers rooted in history, responsibility, and emunah.

This is Jerusalem as it’s meant to be:
 A meeting place of souls.
 A city of questions.
 A city of truth.

In this episode, Rabbi Shoff delves into the question of Orthodox Jewish women and their beautifully styled wigs, exploring what true modesty means in Jewish tradition. Through personal stories, Torah insights, and honest reflection, he unpacks the purpose behind religious dress, the distinction between external and internal beauty, and how modesty is ultimately about dignity, self-worth, and authentic spiritual connection.

In this powerful street-side conversation series, Rabbi Shoff engages with people from all walks of life—soldiers, seekers, skeptics, spiritual strugglers, and even a Catholic seminarian—offering warmth, wisdom, and deep emotional insight. 

Through raw, unfiltered questions about faith, pain, Jewish identity, trauma, teshuva, and the search for meaning, he meets each person with empathy and clarity. 

Whether discussing a father drawn to Messianic Judaism, navigating religious hurt, wrestling with grief, or exploring the purpose of mitzvot and the afterlife, Rabbi Shoff gently reframes complex struggles into pathways toward healing, connection, and inner strength. 

This episode captures the heart of what makes these encounters so compelling: honest questions, compassionate guidance, and the timeless Jewish belief that every soul is capable of growth, love, and return.

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Are we pushing people into marriage too early—or waiting too long? In this thought-provoking episode, Rabbi Shoff dives deep into the world of shidduchim and dating, tackling tough questions about readiness, maturity, and the balance between spiritual ideals and emotional development. Drawing from Torah sources, real-life stories, and community dynamics, he explores when marriage truly makes sense, what it means to build a meaningful Jewish home, and why respect, self-awareness, and patience matter more than the length of your dating process.

In this episode of Fire Away, Rabbi Shoff delves into one of the hardest questions in Jewish thought: If God is good, why is there so much suffering, including tragedies like the Holocaust? He explores the difference between intellectual and emotional pain, the limits of human understanding, and the Torah’s view on why hardship can lead to growth.

Watch the video version of this podcast on Meaningful Minute Plus at https://mmplus.org

What’s really behind the divide between the Israeli army and the yeshiva world?
 In this powerful first episode, Rabbi Shoff dives deep into one of the most emotional and complex questions facing the Jewish people today: Why do some fight in the army while others stay in yeshiva?

He explores both perspectives — the soldiers’ sacrifice and the Torah learners’ devotion — with honesty, empathy, and depth. This is not a debate; it’s an invitation to understanding, unity, and compassion among Am Yisrael.

🎧 Listen as we unpack:

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  Why Haredi leaders oppose army service for yeshiva students

  
  

• Whether Torah study truly protects the Jewish nation

  
  

• The role of media, misunderstanding, and respect in today’s divide

  
  

• What real unity could look like

👉 Watch now and join the conversation.
 Send us your thoughts and questions at FireAway.plus

No question is too small. No topic is too big.

Every week, Rabbi Elchanan Shoff steps into the fire—answering the questions people are really asking. Torah and halacha. Life and relationships. Meaning, morality, and the struggles of being Jewish in today’s world. And much more.

Your questions on anything Judaism. Plus, the myths and lies about our faith—debunked with clarity and truth.

This is not just another Q&A. This is Fire Away—where the hardest questions ignite the deepest answers.

You can send questions in via speakpipe.com/meaningfulminute or email them to [email protected]