Hearts Entwined Podcast

First Dates: Don’t Make These Mistakes - Lyn Smith

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Lyn examines how best to approach first dates and the common mistakes people make when evaluating potential partners, focussing upon the importance of not dismissing someone after just one meeting, especially if overall there was a feel good vibe.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Initial chemistry or attraction may not be present on a first date, but that doesn't mean a potential relationship should be dismissed. It's important to give people a chance to reveal their true selves over time.
  • After a first date, reflect on how you felt about yourself rather than solely on the other person. If you had a good time and felt comfortable, it's definitely worth considering a second date.
  • Studies show that many couples who eventually form strong, healthy long term relationships did not feel an immediate spark on their first date. Getting to know someone better can certainly lead to a deeper connection.
  • It's easy to dismiss someone based on initial impressions or lack of chemistry. However, taking the time to explore a relationship can reveal attractive traits that were not initially apparent on a first date.

    • BEST MOMENTS

    "Sometimes on first dates, people are very nervous... there might not automatically be chemistry and sparks flying to start with."

    "If you've had a good time... it doesn't mean that it can't happen further down the line."

    "What do you feel about yourself after that date? If there's loads of negatives and red flags, fair enough, no second date."


    "It does take more than a first date to get to know somebody properly, doesn't it?"


    ABOUT THE HOST

    Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert

    Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace.

    She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale.

    Contact Method [email protected]

    This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

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