First sexual experiences can be messy, magical, confusing, or completely unexpected — and for queer people, they often come with extra layers of identity, uncertainty, and unspoken questions.

In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Mallory — a sexologist and educator — to unpack how cultural narratives, internalized pressures, and a lack of clear communication can shape queer first times. Together, we explore the myths, the realities, and why consent and self-trust are so essential.

And in a moving listener story, you’ll hear how one man’s first time wasn’t a single moment, but a personal journey that unfolded over years.

Whether you’re still figuring things out or reflecting on your own past, this episode is for anyone who’s ever felt unsure, unseen, or just... human.