In this compelling episode, we delve into the calculated tactics predators use to identify and exploit vulnerabilities. Abusers often target individuals whose boundaries have been previously eroded, recognizing those who may flinch but not flee. This discussion sheds light on the insidious nature of coercive control, where resistance is worn down over time, making survival appear as consent.

Through evocative spoken word poetry, “First, You Flinch” explores:

• Coercive Control in Abusive Relationships: Understanding how abusers manipulate and dominate their victims through psychological means. 

• Erosion of Personal Boundaries: Examining how repeated violations can weaken an individual’s ability to assert themselves, leading to compliance. 

• The Illusion of Consent: Highlighting how abusers create conditions where victims feel compelled to agree, masking coercion as voluntary participation.

This episode offers a profound reflection on the gradual dismantling of autonomy and the lingering impact of such experiences. By bringing these issues to the forefront, we aim to foster awareness and understanding of the subtle dynamics of abuse.

Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of abuse and coercive control, which may be triggering for some listeners. Please listen with care.

Join us as we unpack the complex layers of coercion and the haunting weight of compliance, providing insight into the often-overlooked aspects of abusive dynamics.

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Music: Find Me by Forest Blakk