Vision Beam Episode: Kari Clewett on Sex, Faith, and Healing After Betrayal

In this eye-opening Vision Beam episode, JP sits down with Kari Clewett—psychologist, sexual therapist, couples counselor, and YWAM elder—to explore the intersection of sex, faith, and healing in today’s church. With honesty and warmth, Kari shares her personal journey and professional insights, challenging long-held taboos and offering hope for those navigating intimacy and betrayal.

Sex, Shame, and the Church

JP and Kari address the discomfort that often surrounds conversations about sex, especially in Christian communities. Kari recounts her experiences as a sexologist and therapist, highlighting the embarrassment many feel even when seeking healthy, faith-based resources. She notes that while secular culture may appear more open, honest conversations about sex are rare everywhere—often replaced by humor or avoidance.

Kari believes this silence and shame have left a void, allowing harmful narratives and misinformation to take root. Her mission is to help the church reclaim its voice on sexuality, offering a vision where sex is seen as a sacred, God-given gift that strengthens marriages and families.

A Vision for Restoration

A key moment in the episode is Kari’s “moonshot” vision: to help a million people rediscover the value of sex as God intended. She explains that when couples embrace intimacy with respect and openness, it transforms not just their relationship but also their families and communities. Kari wants to see the church become a place where sex is discussed honestly and positively, breaking cycles of shame and misunderstanding.

Books and Real-Life Impact

Kari and JP discuss her two books. Her first, Buenexo, explores God’s design for sex and is available in Spanish, with an English version on the way. Her latest book, Traición (Betrayed), addresses the pain of infidelity from multiple perspectives—those betrayed, those who betray, and those supporting them. Drawing from her own experience with betrayal and divorce, Kari offers practical, compassionate guidance for every stage of healing.

She blends scientific research, biblical wisdom, and her own story to help couples and individuals understand what happened and how to move forward. Kari’s approach is both empathetic and actionable, equipping listeners to find hope and restoration.

A Hopeful Message for Listeners

Throughout the episode, Kari’s passion for helping others is clear. She describes how sexual therapy can revive marriages and how honest conversations can break the cycle of shame. Her message is simple but powerful: by understanding sex from God’s perspective, we can build stronger relationships, healthier families, and more authentic faith communities.

Don’t miss this Vision Beam episode—a practical, inspiring conversation that redefines intimacy, healing, and hope.

All of Kari Clewett’s links: 

https://links.kariclewett.com/

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

YWAM BCN web: https://www.ywambarcelona.org

Here’s your no-nonsense, direct advice from this episode of Fish Bag’s “All Killer, No Filler”:

• Understand Team Dynamics: Every team goes through stages—forming (getting together), storming (conflict and disagreement), norming (finding solutions), performing (working at a high level), and adjourning (wrapping up). Don’t skip the “storming” stage—conflict is necessary for growth.

• Embrace Conflict: Healthy teams argue! Disagreement isn’t personal—it’s about finding the best solution. If you disagree, speak up respectfully and offer alternatives. Avoiding conflict leads to stagnation and people quietly dropping out.

• Build Trust: Trust your teammates’ intentions. Believe everyone wants the best outcome. This trust makes it easier to have tough conversations and reach better solutions.

• Leaders: Invite Dissent: If you’re leading a meeting, actively ask for disagreements and concerns. Make space for honest feedback. If everyone always agrees, your team isn’t growing.

• Reflect and Reconcile: After conflict, work to reconcile and move forward together. This deepens relationships and strengthens the team.

• Practical Tip: In your next meeting, ask everyone what they agree and disagree with, and why. If no one disagrees, dig deeper—real teams challenge each other.

Bottom line: Don’t fear fighting—use it to build a stronger, more effective team.

Being excellent your industry is essential, valid and key to your ministry.

Fish Baggers, here’s your direct, essential advice from JP and Josh on this week’s Fish Bag Podcast:

• Pursue Excellence in Your Work: Strive to be excellent in your craft and relationships. Excellence earns you respect and authority, opening doors to share your values and faith in any environment.

• Let Your Actions Speak: People notice your integrity and professionalism. When you consistently do good work and treat others well, you gain credibility—this is what gives you the right to speak into people’s lives.

• Integrate Faith and Work: Don’t separate your faith from your workplace. Bring your values, honesty, and compassion into everything you do. Even in high-pressure, results-driven environments, your faith can shape how you lead and connect.

• Prioritize Relationships: No matter how successful someone is, everyone craves real relationships. Invest in your coworkers, ask how they’re doing, and build genuine connections. This opens opportunities for deeper conversations about what motivates you.

• Be Vulnerable: Leaders and professionals often hide their struggles, fearing loss of authority. But being honest about your challenges builds trust and deeper relationships. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

• Show Fruit, Not Just Talk: The visible “fruit” in your life—kindness, integrity, joy—demonstrates God’s work in you more than words ever could. Let your life be the evidence.

• Work Together, Embrace Imperfection: Nobody’s perfect. Recognize your own flaws and the strengths of others. Collaboration and openness make everyone better.

• Take Initiative: Whether you’re a student, a missionary, or a professional, step up and bring your best. If you’re not seeing opportunities to share or lead, focus on serving and loving those around you—doors will open.

Fish Baggers, if you want to make an impact, start with excellence, build real relationships, and let your faith show in both words and actions. Be bold, be real, and keep growing—your influence starts with how you live every day.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time of gathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, read the Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneous worship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. A night of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These take place around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather to pray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_dave for info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gather in the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabiskt for info)

What's the trick to maintaining your faith?

This episode of the Fish Bag Podcast dives into the essentials of maintaining faith, drawing on the collective wisdom of the community during a recent Thursday Revival Morning at the 81 Space. JP kicks things off by framing the discussion as a kind of “spiritual survival guide,” inspired by classic survival manuals but focused on what it takes to keep faith alive and thriving—especially in a world that can feel spiritually hostile or simply distracting.

The group identified several core pillars for sustaining faith, which emerged from both personal reflection and small group discussions. These pillars were remarkably consistent across the community, highlighting shared experiences and biblical foundations.

Key Points to Maintaining Faith:

• Community: Staying connected to other believers is vital. Community offers encouragement, accountability, and a sense of belonging. Engaging with the church and building relationships with fellow Christians helps guard against isolation and spiritual drift.

• Relationship with God: Regular engagement with God through prayer, Bible reading, and seeking solitude are foundational. The group emphasized the importance of “practicing the presence of God”—being aware of and communicating with God in all circumstances, not just during set religious activities.

• Service: Actively serving others and sharing your faith strengthens your own beliefs. Evangelism and testimony are not just for others’ benefit—they reinforce your own commitment and remind you of God’s work in your life.

• Disciplines: Spiritual disciplines like rest, gratitude, worship, and self-examination help maintain a healthy body, mind, and spirit. Practicing humility, remembering your salvation, and allowing your mind to be transformed by God’s truth are all crucial.

• Expecting Challenges: The group agreed that expecting suffering and spiritual attack is part of the journey. Difficulties are not signs of God’s absence but opportunities for growth, maturity, and deeper intimacy with Him.

A standout insight was the power of constant communication with God. JP likened it to having a direct line to your commander in the field: your “spiritual radio” is always on, and God is always listening. Even when routines change or life gets busy, the invitation is to keep talking to God—He never tires of hearing from you.

The episode wraps with an invitation to keep building this culture of faith together, encouraging listeners to share their own tips and join the ongoing conversation.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time of gathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, read the Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneous worship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. A night of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These take place around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather to pray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_dave for info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gather in the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabiskt for info)

I've had it up to here, with presentations that I can't read. X>

If you want to make your presentations instantly better, here’s what you need to do:

1. Make your slides legible. Use large, bold text that’s easy to read from across the room. Don’t fill your slides with paragraphs—keep text minimal and to the point.

2. Use strong, high-contrast images. Choose visuals that reinforce your message and help guide your storytelling. Make sure your text stands out clearly against the background; light text on a dark background or vice versa is best.

3. Don’t overload your audience with details. If there’s information that absolutely must be included (like a schedule), make it clear and easy to digest. Avoid overwhelming your audience with too much small text.

4. Never just read the slides. Use your slides as prompts, not scripts. Let your spoken words carry the details while your visuals support your message.

5. Always consider your audience’s perspective. Imagine someone sitting at the back of the room—if they can’t read your slides easily, you need to make changes.

Follow these steps and your presentations will be clearer, more engaging, and way more effective. Make your slides right—bold, simple, and easy to read. It’s a small change that makes a huge difference.

Send me feedback.

Contact JP at: [email protected]

JP's thoughts on the special mentality of practicing the presence of God on all things.

Welcome back, Fish Baggers! In this episode of the Fish Bag Podcast, JP dives deep into the heart of creativity, faith, and finding God in the everyday grind. Whether you’re a self-proclaimed creative or someone who’s never picked up a paintbrush, JP wants you to know: everyone is creative in their own way, and that spark is meant to be explored, not boxed in by labels or past experiences.

JP kicks things off by sharing his own journey—how learning to edit and experiment with the podcast is stretching him, and how inspiration often comes from the most unexpected places. He encourages Fish Baggers to embrace their own creative side, reminding us that creativity isn’t just about art or music; it’s about approaching life, work, and even the most mundane tasks with a spirit of play and curiosity.

Throughout the episode, JP unpacks how creativity and faith are deeply connected. He shares stories about friends who naturally blend their creative process with their relationship with God, showing that God is present in every moment—whether you’re making music, building Lego with your kids, or just cleaning the kitchen. For JP, it’s not about producing something “for God,” but practicing God’s presence in the middle of whatever you’re doing.

Drawing from his experiences as a dad, JP reflects on how watching his kids discover the world through play has helped him rediscover a childlike approach to both creativity and spirituality. He challenges Fish Baggers to let go of perfectionism and embrace the joy of exploring, making mistakes, and being present in the moment.

Even the mundane gets a makeover: JP describes how God can turn chores or repetitive work into moments of connection and even fun, just by being aware of His presence. He compares this to working alongside a good friend—suddenly, even the dullest tasks can become enjoyable.

JP wraps up by encouraging Fish Baggers to look for God in the ordinary and to invite Him into every part of their lives. Whether you’re sweeping floors, making art, or just trying something new, God is right there with you, ready to turn the ordinary into something extraordinary.

So grab your headphones and get ready to get fishy and squishy—this episode is all about embracing your creativity, practicing God’s presence, and finding joy in every moment.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time of gathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, read the Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneous worship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. A night of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These take place around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather to pray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_dave for info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gather in the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabiskt for info)

Is God putting inconvenience into your life?

Thursday Morning Revival – Perspectives, Surprises, and Unexpected Grace

This week on the Fish Bag podcast, listeners are invited to jump into a lively Thursday morning session at the 81 Space in Barcelona, where community, conversation, and spiritual exploration take center stage. The episode kicks off with the usual Fish Bag energy—hosts and regulars sharing wisdom, humor, and a genuine invitation for everyone to join the ongoing Thursday gatherings.

The heart of this episode features a special message from Nooch, a friend of the community, who dives into the theme of perspective—how the way we view life’s inconveniences can be transformed into opportunities for growth and service. Neuchch shares a personal story about a simple tissue, illustrating how even small annoyances (like allergies) can become blessings in disguise when seen through a different lens.

Listeners are drawn into an interactive Bible trivia session, where familiar stories are re-examined with fresh eyes. The quiz isn’t just for fun—it’s a springboard for deeper questions about how we label people and events in scripture. From prophets who were disappointed by their own success, to disciples like Thomas and Peter, to talking donkeys and unexpected heroes, the conversation challenges the audience to move beyond stereotypes and see the surprising ways God works.

Neuchch unpacks how God’s perspective often upends our expectations: choosing the least likely people, using “villains” for divine purposes, and showing mercy where we might not. The message is clear—labels like “doubter” or “failure” don’t define a person’s value or potential in God’s story. Instead, honesty, risk-taking, and creativity (like that of Bezalel, the first person described as filled with the Holy Spirit, who was an artisan, not a prophet) are celebrated as vital parts of faith.

Throughout, the Fish Bag community’s warmth shines—listeners are encouraged to participate, share their own insights, and even try their hand at teaching in a supportive environment. The episode closes with a reminder that honoring God can look like many things, from ministry to making art, and that faith is about stepping out, even when the outcome is uncertain.

Tune in for a mix of laughter, reflection, and practical encouragement—Fish Bag is all about seeing the ordinary with new eyes and finding inspiration in unexpected places.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time of gathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, read the Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneous worship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. A night of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These take place around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather to pray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_dave for info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gather in the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabiskt for info)

What does Improv have to do with working well with others?

Welcome to All Killer, No Filler-the Fish Bag Podcast episode that delivers a powerful shot of wisdom to help you communicate and collaborate better, especially in multicultural or diverse environments.

Have you ever asked someone for help or made a suggestion, only to be met with a list of problems or a flat-out “no”? This kind of communication breakdown is common at work and in everyday life, and it can stall productivity and create frustration. The key to overcoming this is to approach conversations with a mindset borrowed from improv comedy: always try to say “yes,” or at least keep the conversation moving forward.

When someone brings you an idea or request, resist the urge to block it with immediate objections. Instead, treat the interaction like a game where the goal is to keep the ball rolling. If you can’t say “yes” outright, look for ways to clarify, investigate, and offer support. For example, if you’re asked to do something that seems impossible, pause and consider why it feels that way. Is there a resource or a workaround you can offer? Can you invite the other person to help brainstorm solutions? By doing this, you transform a potential dead end into a collaborative opportunity.

If you notice yourself being the one who often says “no” or lists reasons why something can’t be done, try to shift your approach. Ask yourself: How can I help move this forward? What can I say “yes” to, even in a small way? This attitude not only keeps projects moving but also builds trust and encourages teamwork.

Remember, especially in multicultural teams or when working with people from different backgrounds, misunderstandings are easy. Always assume the other person is rational and has valid reasons for their perspective. With a little extra communication and a willingness to play along, you can break down barriers and find win-win solutions.

So, next time you’re faced with a communication challenge, treat it like an improv game. Focus on saying “yes,” clarifying intentions, and keeping the momentum alive. Collaboration is a team sport, and every conversation is a chance to play together, solve problems, and achieve more.

Keep it real, keep the ball moving, and watch your communication-and your results-improve.

Answer from Perplexity: pplx.ai/share

Do you want to share your vision with the Fish Bag community?

Welcome back, Fish Baggers!

In this episode of the Fish Bag Podcast, your host JP brings a fresh experiment to the show, inviting the community to help shape the future of Fish Bag together. JP kicks things off by reminding listeners that Fish Bag is still a “minimum viable podcast”-raw, real, and all about discovering what content truly connects with the local community and beyond.

This week, JP introduces a new segment called “Vision Beam.” The idea? Give Fish Baggers a platform to share their dreams, projects, and visions with the wider community. Whether you want to rally support, find collaborators, or just get your idea out there, JP wants to hear from you. He encourages everyone to send feedback, leave comments, or reach out directly if you want to get involved or even appear on the podcast.

Since there’s no guest this episode, JP shares one of his own visions: creating a cozy library corner at the community’s 81 Space. Imagine comfy chairs and shelves packed with books that have inspired, challenged, and shaped members of the Fish Bag community-everything from mission stories and leadership guides to business and art books. JP believes that sharing books and ideas can spark deeper conversations and help everyone grow together. He invites Fish Baggers to contribute their favorite reads, drop off books at the office, or even mail them in.

JP reflects on his own journey with reading, recalling how he rediscovered the power of books during challenging times in business and life. He shares how reading opened his mind, gave him new language for his questions, and helped him help others. JP also reminisces about classic YWAM libraries and the value of having physical books on hand for spontaneous learning and discussion.

The episode wraps up with a heartfelt encouragement for Fish Baggers to get involved-whether by sharing a vision, contributing to the library, or just connecting with the community in new ways. JP’s message is clear: Fish Bag is a space for experimentation, collaboration, and growth, and every listener has something valuable to offer.

Stick around for a soulful musical outro from James Malcolm Tyson, and remember-Fish Bag is all about you, the community, and the visions we build together.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time ofgathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, readthe Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneousworship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. Anight of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These takeplace around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather topray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_davefor info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gatherin the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabisktfor info)

If you want a classic dose of live YWAM style content, that really makes you feel like you're sitting right there in the room with the whole group, then you're going to like this one.

In this uplifting episode of the Fishbag Podcast, listeners are invited into a special live recording from the recent Revival Morning, featuring veteran missionary Curtis Clewett as he shares his hard-earned wisdom on how to build a long-lasting and resilient life in missions. With over 50 years of experience across the globe-including decades in Spain, the Pacific Islands, and America-Curtis brings both authority and warmth to his reflections, offering practical advice that resonates with anyone considering or currently living a life of service, whether in traditional missions, church work, or as a “missionary” in the workplace.

The episode opens with a candid introduction, acknowledging the often harsh realities and high burnout rates among missionaries and pastors. Curtis’s message is both a challenge and a comfort: staying the course is tough, but it is possible with the right mindset and habits. Through a blend of personal stories, biblical insights, and humor, Curtis outlines four essential principles for longevity in missions.

Listeners hear about Curtis’s own journey, from his youth during the “Jesus Revolution” in California to his adventures with Youth With A Mission (YWAM) in Spain and the Pacific. He recounts pivotal moments-like joining a mission trip straight out of high school, facing unexpected setbacks, and wrestling with doubts about his future. Curtis’s honesty about his fears and uncertainties makes his advice all the more relatable.

The first principle he shares is to “go all in”-to commit wholeheartedly to the calling, embracing both the risks and the rewards. He illustrates this with a memorable story of literally giving away his only valuable possession at a church altar call, underscoring the importance of holding nothing back. The second principle is to “maintain a sense of humor,” a trait Curtis credits with sustaining him and his family through the unpredictable ups and downs of missionary life. He shares a touching and funny anecdote about finding laughter even in the face of his mother’s illness, highlighting the power of joy in difficult times.

Throughout the episode, the atmosphere is lively and inclusive, with live audience reactions, Spanish translation, and even a musical outro from James Malcolm Tyson. Curtis’s reflections are deeply personal yet universally applicable, encouraging listeners to embrace adventure, cultivate resilience, and trust in the enduring presence of goodness and mercy.

Whether you’re a seasoned missionary, a newcomer to ministry, or simply seeking inspiration to persevere in your own calling, this episode delivers heartfelt encouragement and practical tools to help you thrive for the long haul.

Outro song by James Tyson. IG: https://www.instagram.com/james.mtyson/

Contact JP at: [email protected]

Join us in Barcelona. 

The following weekly points of connection take place at our hub: the 81 space. (81 Bac de Roda, Barcelona. ring “bajos”)

🔥 REVIVAL MORNING – A time ofgathering with the community for teaching, worship, sharing, or prayer
🗓 Thursdays 11:00-12:15

🥣 SOUP SUNDAYS – Eat good soup, readthe Bible, and connect
🗓 Sundays 18:00-20:00

🎶 FRIDAY WORSHIP – Spontaneousworship!
🗓 Fridays 10:00-12:00

🎨✨ SUELOS DORADOS – Creative night. Anight of ‘playground mentality’ creating (playful, free, and open to anyone)
🗓 Fridays 18:00-20:00
//

These takeplace around the city. Message for location.

🛹🙏 MACBA MORNINGS – Skaters gather topray at MACBA every Monday!
🗓 Mondays 10:00-11:30 (DM @panama_davefor info)

📖🛹 SKATER BIBLE STUDY – Skaters gatherin the city to read the Bible and connect
🗓 Wednesdays 18:30-21:00 (DM @fabisktfor info)