What does it really mean to “honour your father and your mother”? In this episode, Pastor Mark continues our Ten Commandments series from Exodus 20 with the fifth commandment, often called the “bridge” commandment because it links how we relate to God with how we relate to people, starting in the home. Pastor Mark unpacks what honour is and is not: it isn’t just for children, it isn’t blind obedience, and it never requires anyone to stay in a toxic or abusive relationship. Instead, the Hebrew word for honour carries the idea of weight and significance, the same word used for the glory of God. For listeners with difficult or absent parents, he shares a moving wedding story about finding just one true thing to honour. Along the way, you’ll hear about a visit to Noosa National Park with a French guest named Valerie, a Nana who raised three children as a single parent in post-war Brisbane, and a church lady named Anna with a prayer list of every young person’s name. Pastor Mark also looks at Jesus’ challenge to the Pharisees over “Corban” in Mark 7, and gives three reasons why society flourishes when the elderly are honoured and included: we learn authority at home, we gain wisdom from experience, and families and churches thrive when they are intergenerational.
Whether you’re young or old, a parent, a child, or somewhere in between, this message on honour, family, community, and the church as a place for every generation will encourage you to take one practical step to honour someone older than you today.
Is God prompting you to take your next step in honouring someone older, serving your church family, or following Jesus for the first time? We’d love to hear from you. Head to flbc.org.au/respond today and let us know how we can pray for you and walk with you.