Flip the Box® with Shari Leid

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Ever felt overwhelmed by the whirlwind of life's major milestones and unexpected turns? This week on An Imperfectly Perfect Life Life Unscripted, I share my recent roller coaster ride—celebrating my son's graduation in LA, embarking on a mother-daughter adventure at Bottle Rock in Napa, and selling my house in a jaw-dropping 36 hours. Discover how these experiences, coupled with the joy and chaos of relocating with two big Labradors, have shaped my days and tested my resilience. I open up about the stress of finding a new home that fits my family's needs and how I've managed to stay grounded through it all.

You'll also hear about my personal strategies for handling life's pressures, including the surprising addition of two new theme songs that uplift my mornings—"Counting my Blessings" by Shep Schulter and "Good Day" by Forrest Frank. We'll explore the different ways we respond to stress (fight, flight, tend, and befriend) and how music and mindfulness can help us navigate tough times. Whether you're in need of some practical stress management tips or simply a dose of inspiration, this episode promises to deliver heart, humor, and a whole lot of real talk. Tune in and join me on this unscripted journey!

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In this thought-provoking episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted," join our host as they delve into the complex world of divorce from a legal perspective, drawing on their own experiences as a former attorney. Whether you're contemplating divorce or just seeking information, this episode offers a compassionate guide to navigating the legal landscape with integrity. Our host discusses the importance of feeling comfortable and informed when consulting with an attorney, shares advice on selecting the right lawyer for your situation, and provides a comprehensive list of crucial questions to ask to ensure you're fully prepared for the process ahead. Tune in to learn how to handle your divorce proceedings with confidence and grace, ensuring you make decisions that align with your values and long-term well-being. This episode is a must-listen for anyone facing the daunting prospect of divorce, offering both guidance and reassurance on this challenging journey. Join us for an insightful session that promises to empower and inform. Don't forget to check out our exclusive 1-day VIP coaching sessions that could transform your approach to life's challenges. We're on a short break after this episode, but we'll return soon with more life-changing content!

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Struggling with the thought of ending your marriage? You're not alone. Let me, Shari Leid, be your confidante as we explore the delicate intricacies of deciding whether to stay or part ways. Through my personal experiences and the essential considerations of friendship, teamwork, and mutual respect, I'll help you weigh the gravity of this decision. It's a journey of reflection, and I'm here to navigate it with you, sharing insights on preserving the beauty of life's messy moments, even when they include something as complex as divorce.

Questions:

1.  **New Friend Test** - If you met your spouse today, would you want to be friends with them? 

2. **Teamwork** - Could you see yourself working on a project with your spouse? Do you function well together? 

3. **Mutual Respect** - Do you respect your spouse? And do you feel respected by them?

4. **Quality Time** - Do you enjoy spending time together, just the two of you, focusing on one another?

5. **Physical Attraction** - Are you physically attracted to your spouse? If not, why? In addition to compatibility and friendship, attraction needs to be there.  

6. **Fear or Love** - Are you staying in this marriage out of love, or is it because of fear?

7. **Missing Piece** - Do you miss your spouse when they’re not around because you genuinely enjoy their company?

8. **Safety Check** - Does your spouse make you feel safe? Secure? Loved?

9. **Long-term Vision** - Can you picture yourself living this way every day for the rest of your life?

10. **Lessons for Kids** - What is your relationship teaching your kids? Are they witnessing a healthy relationship?

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Navigating the labyrinth of love and partnership, we grapple with the question: can the imperfect dance of a romantic relationship be choreographed to happiness? This week's episode of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life, Life Unscripted" is the grand finale of our series 'Creating Your Happiness Blueprint', where I, Shari Leid, draws from the threads of self-worth and the fabric of family and friendships to this week - stitching together the tapestry of those romantic partnerships and the role they play in our happiness blueprint.

Prepare to unlock the secrets of a joyous partnership through four actionable steps, as we dissect the essence of a healthy romantic relationship. We delve into the power of communication, respect, and mutual understanding, alongside the art of maintaining one's individuality within the duo. Come along as we demystify the daily acts of kindness and deep connection that construct a blissful bond, and remember, the path to happiness in love isn't paved with grand gestures, but with the small, consistent steps we take together.

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The echoes of my father's inspiring career pivot from Boeing engineer to a beloved math teacher for deaf students serves as a testament to the transformative power of meaningful work. His story and the many others we've shared underscore the immense satisfaction that comes from aligning our work with what stirs our spirits. Throughout this episode, we discuss not only how to craft a happiness blueprint in our professional lives but also the importance of sprinkling seeds of purpose through volunteer work. As we wrap up part 4 of this 5 part series - creating a happiness blueprint -  we explore together how these small yet intentional acts of service can sprout into a garden of joy and fulfillment, enriching both our lives and the community around us.

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Circled by strangers in a new city, with the daunting task of building a community from scratch - that was my reality before life's twists kept me anchored in Seattle. But the blueprint for happiness I had sketched was too precious to shelve, and that's what we're sharing with you today. Step into episode 20 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," where we strip down to the core joys and complexities of friendships. We're not just talking about any connections; we're diving into how to forge and deepen the ones that truly light up our lives.

Imagine this: you're armed with a plan, ready to conquer the challenge of making friends in unfamiliar territory, from Toastmasters to tango classes, and even a documentary film festival. Though my own plans took a detour, the strategies remained invaluable. Join me, Shari, as I unfold the lessons learned and guide you through the art of  friendships - an endeavor that's less about chance and more about strategy. Whether you're starting over or simply looking to enrich your circle, this episode promises to equip you with the practical steps to create a community that resonates with your heart.

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Ever encounter that one family member who never fails to push your buttons, turning gatherings into gauntlets? Well, you're not alone, and this conversation is the life raft you didn't know you needed. Join me, Shari, as we pull back the curtain on the genuine essence of family dynamics, where I'm sharing practical tools that promise to change the way you navigate the choppy seas of relative relations. It's a candid look at family happiness, stripped of any pretense, and full of transformative insights for dealing with those challenging personalities that can make or break a family feast.

No guests, no filters, just real talk on how to upgrade your happiness blueprint with a good dose of self-worth and hindsight. I'm letting you in on personal anecdotes, the kind that showcase the power of seeing ourselves as the adults we are now, rather than the children we once were. It's about embracing the entirety of who we've become and using that self-recognition to rewrite our interactions with family. So kick back, get comfortable, and let's unravel the complexities of family joy, because this episode isn't just about finding happiness—it's about creating it, one family gathering at a time.

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Embark on a transformative expedition to the heart of self-worth and its profound impact on our quest for happiness. Channeling the wisdom of Dr. Stan Tatkin's "Wired for Love," I recount the intimate voyage from being adrift like a wave to finding my grounding as an anchor, uncovering the undeniable truth that joy is our birthright. In the first chapter of our five-part series, we unravel the tapestry of self-perception, resilience, and the power of adversity, sharing candid tales of personal battles and breakthroughs that spotlight the potency of acknowledging one's inherent value.

As we chart the course to elevate your self-worth, you're invited to participate in a curated collection of eight life-affirming strategies. From the art of crafting personal affirmations to the cathartic release of journaling, each step is a celebration of the self. I'll guide you through setting boundaries with finesse, transforming self-critique into self-cherishing, and cultivating a spirit of gratitude that magnifies your unique gifts. Together, we'll toast to every victory and engrain the mantra "I am the prize" into the fabric of our lives, steering us toward a radiant future where happiness flourishes, unfettered by the need for external approval.

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Dive into "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted," where host Shari Leid shares her raw and real experiences navigating through life's major upheavals. From tackling a divorce after 26 years, selling her family home, to the uncertainties of setting new roots, all while parenting young adults and caring for two big dogs, Shari explores the essence of maintaining happiness amidst chaos. This podcast episode lays the groundwork for the upcoming 5-part series which is a heartfelt journey into finding joy and beauty in life's imperfections, proving that happiness is not about achieving perfection but embracing the messiness of life with open arms.

Throughout this compelling series, Shari offers a real-time insight into her life changes, focusing on critical aspects of happiness such as self-worth, family dynamics, friendships, work, and romantic relationships. "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" is more than a story; it's a conversation about thriving in turbulence and seeing opportunity in chaos. Join Shari as she shares her secrets to living a life filled with happiness, reminding us that happiness is not found in the destination but along the journey of everyday life. 

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Embarking on a quest for balance amidst life's tumultuous waves. This episode wraps up our three-part series on achieving a harmonious life, and trust me, it's a conversation you won't want to miss. Expect a blend of laughter and learning as we dissect the art of boundary setting—those that flex without fracturing—ensuring you can face life's buffet with confidence and poise.

Let's peel back the layers of what it means to live a life aligned with your true self. We kick things off by flipping the script on traditional notions of balance—it's not a one-size-fits-all approach, but rather a personalized alignment of actions and identity. I'll take you through the steps of identifying your non-negotiables and teach you how to craft boundaries that stand firm yet allow growth. If you're ready to sketch out a roadmap to your imperfectly perfect life, then grab your notepad and let's navigate this journey together.

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