Learning to flourish in your identity doesn’t happen overnight - it takes time and patience. This episode will help you develop the self-awareness you need to begin addressing areas that have contributed to unhealthy identity and give you tools to implement healthy practices. 

Transformation Tip: Be who you is, because if you ain’t who you is, then you is who you ain’t. 

Even if you didn’t have love and nurture in your life growing up, you can make a conscious decision to give love and nurture to others. Don’t let your past define you.

Your identity doesn’t form overnight. It takes time and patience. Be gracious to yourself.

• Create a culture of unconditional acceptance and belonging  
  • Not needing to earn acceptance 
  • value the person; not what they do 

• There’s a difference between discipline and punishment 
  • Discipline is to make people better; not make people feel bad about themselves 

• Receive comfort and care 
  • We need a sense of security and protection
  • Love is the greatest form of security

• Trust has to be formed with consistency and integrity 

Transformation Application: Reflect on the 10 tips for a flourishing identity that we have shared over the past 2 episodes. Pick one that you feel like you have had in your life and give thanks for that. Then pick one tip that you feel like you’ve been missing in your life and grieve it, then make up your mind to choose to act in the opposite direction and sow what you would like to reap. 

Coaching Resources:

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http://www.petecoaching.com/

https://www.insightoutcorp.com/

 

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