Ted's story begins in Trail — steel town grit, river valley air, small-town backbone.
Raised in the Kootenays, Ted carried that work ethic west to Vancouver, graduating from UBC, and deciding school wasn't for him, he worked as a doorman and later as an arborist. Hard jobs. Outside jobs. Jobs that keep a man moving.
He found the love of his life in his late 30s. That’s important. Some men rush it. Ted didn’t. When he found her, he went all in.
And then came the dogs.
Not casual pet ownership. Obsession. Bird dogs. Trialing dogs. Training days that turned into full seasons. Upland fields, early frost, heart pounding at the flush. Life was busy. Full. Loud in the best way.
Somewhere in there, fly fishing grabbed him. And when it did, it didn’t let go.
Ted started spending every spare minute around the lakes near Kamloops — stillwater country. Long casts. Chironomids. Watching the wind ripple across glassy mornings.
The best advice he ever received?
“If you can’t cast further, move your boat.”
Simple. Tactical. But also philosophical.
When the distance won’t close — adjust your position.
The Move That Changed Everything
After retirement, Ted and his wife moved to Alberta to be closer to their daughter. A hopeful move. A family move.
Shortly after arriving, his wife was diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer.
Life stopped.
For four years, Ted drove her to chemo. Sat in hospital rooms. Lived in waiting areas. The river disappeared. The dogs went quiet. The boat stayed parked.
Everything paused.
After she passed, the house felt different. The days stretched longer.
And then something shifted.
Ted found a group of men. Found community again. And he found the river.
Standing in current on the Bow River, something came back online. Not instantly. Not dramatically. But steadily.
The Bow gave him rhythm again. Walking local streams gave him breath again.
Fly fishing didn’t erase grief. It gave it somewhere to go.
What Ted Believes Now
At 74, Ted doesn’t sugarcoat it.
Life is not guaranteed.
His advice is direct:
“Don’t wait. If you can retire — retire. Go live your life.”
Not reckless. Not impulsive.
Intentional.
Move the boat.
If something isn’t working — change position. Change perspective. Change seasons. But don’t sit still waiting for perfect conditions.
Because perfect conditions don’t exist.
This episode isn’t about tragedy.
It’s about a man who loved deeply. Worked hard. Lost greatly. And walked back into the river anyway.
And that’s the kind of story that matters.
