The opinion of others does not really define who you are or the length you reach in life. We are all different and for that matter with different opinions. When you tend to listen to others and not yourself you do things to please others and in this difficult times, all you need is you to help you make the right choices. Forget about what people will say or think , so long as what you are doing is right and brings you fulfillment , do it with your full heart and you will be amazed what you become when you focus on you.