Losing a relationship | gaining insight from the relationship — things that went wrong that you know not to do in the next one
Losing a job | gaining insight and skills from the old job that you can use in the new job
Losing a body part | makes you be more appreciative of the other body parts
And so on…….
Losing in the present leads to winning in the future if you change how you see it — the insight, the wisdom and understanding you gained from the loss turns into a W