Behaviours I notice as an adult, are mostly a by-product of my childhood and my early environment.  I have a lot of gaps in my early memories, but it’s easy to trace back to my childhood where certain behaviours stem from.  
Despite the fact that childhood explains a lot, it doesn’t excuse anything as Gavin de Becker said. 

So here I am, in my 40s, learning to  un-learning great many things.  

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On this episode of Kimchi Talk, James and I discuss how trauma shaped our lives.  The concept of taboo is discussed along with topics that are sensitive in Korean culture. 
We are all a product of our environment, for better and for worse.