What’s Really Holding You Back?

We’ve all said it: “I’m a perfectionist.” But is perfectionism the real issue - or is it just the surface of something much deeper? In this eye-opening episode, I break down why perfectionism is more than a personality trait - it’s often a cover story for fear, self-doubt, or the voices we’ve absorbed from others.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

Key Moment

Learn the hidden costs of staying in the perfectionism loop and the simple mindset shifts that can unleash your true potential.

Episode 5 of a 6-part series.

This Episode Is For You If

Tune in now and start peeling back the layers to find your true self underneath the perfectionism mask!

Ready to take the next step?

Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

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Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s still not enough? Like you’re stuck in an endless loop of pushing harder, working longer, and striving for more - only to feel drained and unfulfilled?

In this raw and transformative episode, I open up about my personal battle with the relentless “Pusher” inside me. This inner force that constantly drove me to go harder, do more, and prove myself - at the cost of my energy, joy, and even self-worth.

This is part 4 of a six-part series.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

If you’ve ever felt caught in the cycle of overachieving and still feeling “not good enough,” this episode is for you. It’s not about giving up your dreams - it’s about finding a way to achieve them without losing yourself in the process.

Why You Should Listen

This isn’t just another podcast about productivity or burnout. It’s an unfiltered look at what it truly means to confront the parts of yourself holding you back and step into a more joyful, authentic version of success.

Tune in now to hear how I faced my “Pusher” and found a better way forward.

And don’t forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it, too!

👉 Ready to break free from exhaustion and find your joy? Hit play now!

Take Action

Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

Join My Free Mini-Training: Learn how to position yourself for success without exhausting yourself.

👉 Sign up here: ForFemaleLeaders.com

Thank you for tuning in - I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

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In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, I dive into the powerful realization of how my inner control freak has shaped my actions, decisions, and even my energy. From obsessing over outcomes to creating impossible to-do lists, I’ve been there. But here’s the kicker—awareness changes everything.

By sharing my journey of discovering voice dialogue, I’ll show you how I learned to embrace and soften the grip of my control freak, creating space for authentic joy and empowered decisions.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a loop of overthinking, over-planning, or over-controlling, this episode is for you. It’s time to let go and lead with ease.

This is part 3 of a six-part series.

What You'll Learn:

This Episode Is For You If:

- You often feel overwhelmed by your own expectations.

Take Action:

Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

Take the Next Step

If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Ready to stop pleasing and start leading? Join my free mini-training to discover how to position yourself for success—on your own terms.

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Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

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Are you caught in the trap of people-pleasing? This episode dives into the hidden cost of trying to make everyone happy—at work, at home, and within yourself. I share my personal journey of breaking free from the cycle of constant approval-seeking and how it transformed my leadership, my career, and my life.

Discover how people-pleasing is silently holding you back from stepping into your full potential and why it’s time to prioritize your own goals, voice, and vision.

This is part 2 of a six-part series.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

Key Moments to Tune In

Why You Should Listen

This episode isn’t about blaming yourself for being kind or accommodating—it’s about reclaiming your energy and making choices that align with your goals and values. If you’re ready to stop bending over backward for others and start living as the confident leader you’re meant to be, this conversation is for you.

Take the Next Step

If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Ready to stop pleasing and start leading? Join my free mini-training to discover how to position yourself for success—on your own terms.

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You don’t need permission to shine. Take the first step today.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

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Are you tired of that relentless voice inside your head telling you you’re not good enough? In this raw and vulnerable episode, I share my personal journey of facing and embracing my inner critic—a journey that took me from self-doubt and exhaustion to empowerment and clarity.

Through the method of voice dialogue, I’ve learned how to turn my inner critic from an enemy into a guide. It wasn’t easy, but it’s a transformation that changed everything—from how I approach decisions to how I pursue my dreams. If you’ve ever felt held back by your own thoughts, this episode is for you.

This is part 1 of a six-part series.

What You’ll Learn:

Who This Episode Is For:

This episode is a must-listen for women leaders, ambitious professionals, and anyone navigating self-doubt or inner conflict. Whether you’re building a career, chasing a dream, or simply trying to feel more confident in your daily life, you’ll find inspiration and practical advice here.

Memorable Quote:

"I realized I’m not here to live small, to ignore my dreams, or to play it safe. My inner critic doesn’t get to run the show anymore—and neither should yours."

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Embracing Our Selves by Hal Stone

• Mini-Training: Position Yourself for Success

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If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. And don’t forget to subscribe for more empowering stories and actionable insights. Together, we’re rewriting the rules of success.

Thank you for listening! Let’s conquer those inner critics—together.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

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Do you truly know who you are? Or are you living by expectations, roles, and voices that aren’t really yours? In this deeply reflective episode, I dive into the profound question: Who are you, really?

👉 Here’s what you’ll gain by tuning in:

Through personal stories and transformative insights, I’ll share why this question—"Who am I?"—is not about finding a single answer but about learning to navigate life authentically, one decision at a time.

💡 This episode is for you if:

🎧 Listen now and start your journey toward becoming authentically YOU.

👉 Ready to take action? Join my free mini-training and unlock the tools to position yourself for success: forfemaleleaders.com.

🔗 Share this episode with a friend or colleague who needs a little inspiration to claim the success they deserve!

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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Are you chasing recognition but still feel like something’s missing? You're not alone. In this episode, I challenge the common belief that success hinges on validation from others. If you've ever thought, "If only they acknowledged my hard work, I’d feel fulfilled," then this episode is for you.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

✨ Why external recognition isn’t the key to lasting success—and what is.

✨ How to shift your mindset from "being noticed" to "owning your achievements."

✨ Practical strategies to position yourself for opportunities, without relying on others’ validation.

✨ The secret to aligning your career with YOUR goals—not someone else’s expectations.

By the end of this episode, you’ll learn to redefine success in a way that feels empowering, sustainable, and 100% yours.

💡 Key takeaway: True success starts with valuing yourself first. When you embrace your strengths and focus on what YOU want, recognition will follow naturally.

🎧 Don’t miss this transformative conversation. Your career deserves it.

👉 Ready to take action? Join my free mini-training and unlock the tools to position yourself for success: forfemaleleaders.com.

🔗 Share this episode with a friend or colleague who needs a little inspiration to claim the success they deserve!

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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- Website: Susan's Website

What’s the difference between control and leadership? Why embracing true leadership is the ultimate game-changer for your career, your personal growth, and your life. I share a powerful story from one of my coaching calls where a client discovered the freedom and empowerment that comes with stepping out of the "victim mindset" and into authentic leadership.

We’ll explore:

Whether you’re leading a team, looking to advance your career, or simply navigating challenging situations in your personal life, this episode will inspire you to rethink what being "in charge" truly means.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Who Should Listen:

Join the Conversation:

Do you struggle with letting go of control? Or have you experienced the power of stepping into true leadership? Let me know your thoughts! Share this episode and tag me with your biggest takeaway.

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Leadership, control, self-discovery, empowerment, personal growth, coaching, inner critic, authentic self, program insights, overcoming victim mentality.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

What’s stopping you from reaching your goals? For many women, it’s not a lack of skills, experience, or opportunities - it’s a lack of confidence. In this episode, I uncover why confidence is non-negotiable for achieving your goals and how self-sabotage sneaks in to hold you back.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this empowering episode:

1️⃣ The Role of Confidence in Success

Why confidence isn’t just a “nice-to-have” but an essential ingredient for getting what you want—whether it’s a promotion, a career pivot, or leading your own business.

2️⃣ The Silent Power of Belief

How even a tiny glimmer of belief in yourself can spark monumental changes and why self-trust is the foundation of all achievement.

3️⃣ The Truth About Self-Sabotage

Real-life examples of how fear of judgment and self-doubt can quietly sabotage your progress—and what to do when you catch yourself in the act.

4️⃣ Actionable Steps to Build Confidence

Simple yet effective strategies to shift your mindset, embrace your strengths, and start showing up as the empowered leader you’re meant to be.

Key Takeaway:

Your confidence is your compass. Without it, you’re stuck in the same patterns. With it, you’re unstoppable.

🎧 Whether you’re navigating self-doubt, feeling stuck, or ready to embrace your full potential, this episode is your guide to stepping into your confidence and unlocking your success.

👉 Ready for more?

Join my free mini-training: Position Yourself for Success to uncover the tools, mindset shifts, and strategies you need to claim your space and achieve your goals. Click to register today.

💡 Share this episode!

If you know someone who needs to hear this, send it their way. Let’s empower more women to claim their confidence and change their lives.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way. 💪

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Self-sabotage, confidence, personal development, emotional awareness, coaching, self-discovery, empowerment, female leaders.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Navigating the workplace means interacting with all kinds of personalities - some more dominant than others. But how do you hold your own when faced with someone whose ego takes up all the space in the room?

In this empowering episode, I dive into how to identify and handle dominant personalities without losing your sense of self. Whether it’s a loud colleague, a micro-managing boss, or an overbearing client, you’ll learn tools to stay grounded, maintain your confidence, and ensure your voice is heard—even in the noisiest of rooms.

🔑 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✨ Listen to Discover:

💡 Who Should Listen?

If you’ve ever felt small or unheard in meetings, struggled to stand your ground with dominant personalities, or simply want to understand how to handle egos without losing your cool—this episode is for you.

🔗 Join the Conversation:

Feeling inspired? Share this episode with a friend or colleague who could benefit from learning how to stay in control when egos dominate the room. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review to help more women take their positions with confidence and ease.

🎧 Listen now to uncover how to hold your space and claim your success—no matter who’s in the room.

Join the Free mini-training: Position Yourself today!

Be the woman no one can ignore. Discover the 3 secrets to positioning yourself—without having to pretend to be someone else! Subscribe now.

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Ego, vulnerability, dominant personalities, communication, self-awareness, personal development, emotional intelligence, workplace dynamics, self-protection, interpersonal relationships.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!