We are so excited about this one! With Valentine's Day just around the corner, we wanted to bring another episode of encouragement and insight to all our single ladies—and who better to hear from than two amazing single Christian men? We sat down with Jamey and Nikolai to talk all things dating, singleness, and what they're actually looking for in a godly woman. From bold dating stories to the struggles of Christian singleness, these guys brought the fun, the wisdom, and the honesty we LOVE.

Whether you're feeling discouraged in the dating scene, wondering how to shoot your shot, or just curious where the good guys are hanging out—this episode is for YOU. Get ready for laughs, vulnerability, and a whole lot of truth about how to pursue Jesus and love in today’s world.

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In this special episode, we’re joined by two godly and hilarious single Christian men — Calvin and Charles — for a real and unfiltered conversation about all things dating, attraction, and pursuing relationships that honor Jesus. From long-distance love stories to thoughts on modesty, vulnerability, and what they're actually looking for in a wife, this episode is packed with honesty, humor, and lots of wisdom. We got to ask the questions so many girls are wondering, and these guys delivered! Whether you're single and curious, dating and discerning, or just love some godly banter, this one is for you!

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00:00 – Welcome to "The Boys" Episode

01:00 – Meet Calvin: Southern Charm & Startup Life

03:30 – Meet Charles: Creative, Construction, & Looking for Love

05:30 – Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships

10:00 – Charles’ Story: Australia, Dating, & Accountability

14:30 – When a Bikini Pic Is a Dealbreaker

18:00 – What Christian Men Look for on Instagram

22:00 – Homemaking, Femininity, and What’s Actually Attractive

25:00 – Are Christian Guys Actually Asking Girls Out?

29:00 – How Calvin Discerns Who to Date

33:00 – Charles’ Bold Approach & Discernment in Pursuit

36:00 – The Problem with Being Unapproachable

45:00 – "If He Wanted To, He Would" — True or False?

48:00 – Final Thoughts & Advice for Christian Women

51:00 – Calvin & Charles' 30-Second Wife Pitches

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We’re back with a super fun, super yappy episode! The snow apocalypse totally threw off our plans, but that didn’t stop us from hopping on the mic to catch up on life (virtually, of course). In this episode, we’re bringing you all the big updates—life shifts, work transitions, possible moves, and yes...even a little pregnancy talk (maybe). From toddler chaos and solo workouts in overalls to new rhythms with childcare and diving back into ministry work, we’re sharing the highs, the lows, and the hilarious in-betweens. You’ll hear about Mac's new church home, Kenz' small group launch, and the very spontaneous business venture that’s bubbling behind the scenes. It's a casual, cozy convo where we let you in on the real-life stuff God’s doing in this season.

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In this episode, we get real about the chaos of life and how we’re learning to slow it all down. From overpacked schedules and toddler chaos to marriage dynamics and that ever-distracting phone, we talk about what’s been stressing us out—and how we’re actually doing something about it. We share the rhythms, mindset shifts, and spiritual habits that are helping us create more peace, presence, and purpose in our days. Plus, we get honest about what our husbands claim they’re “good at” and why ping-pong might be their peak. If your life’s felt a little too frantic lately, this is your gentle reminder that it doesn’t have to be that way. Let’s destress our lives together—starting now.

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In this episode, we're getting real about how to stay spiritually grounded in 2026. We’re talking caffeine withdrawals, gummy detoxes, and the ever-humbling reality of mom life—while also diving into four intentional ways we can pursue deeper consistency in our walk with Jesus. Through laughter, personal stories, and a whole lot of grace, we unpack how community, rhythms, spiritual focus, and clearing life’s clutter can powerfully impact our year. Whether you're starting fresh or just need a reset, this one's for you!

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As we step into 2026, we’re taking time to check in on the health of our hearts using a framework called RPMs — Relational, Physical, Mental, and Spiritual. In this episode, we reflect on how each of these areas looked for us in 2025, where we saw growth, and where we hope to go deeper in the new year. This conversation is full of honesty, laughs, and some real heart checks. Whether you're feeling on fire spiritually or just trying to eat fewer bowls of cereal (Mac, we’re lookin’ at you!), we hope this framework helps you draw closer to Jesus and embrace intentional living in 2026. Grab your journal, reflect with us, and let’s invite the Lord into every part of our heart.

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04:10 – Reflecting on Relational Health

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We’re ending 2025 and kicking off 2026 with something a little fun and a little reflective—our annual list of ins and outs! From decluttering our homes and building sacred spaces to morning Bible time and embracing the dollar store, we share what we're saying yes to and what we're leaving behind. Some of our picks are lighthearted while others dive deep into what God is stirring in our hearts—like craving time in His Word and stepping into something missional with our husbands. We're keeping it real, practical, and faith-filled as always. Get ready to laugh, reflect, and maybe even create your own list for the year ahead!

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We’ve made it to the final week of our Bible study through The Wild Invitation, and wow — what a ride through the book of Acts! This week, we’re reflecting on how the early church’s boldness and reliance on the Holy Spirit weren’t just for then — they’re for us today, too. We talk about living as modern-day witnesses of Jesus, navigating seasons of quiet obedience, and how to follow the Spirit’s lead in our everyday lives (even if that means striking up a convo at a pizza shop).

We also open up about feeling inspired and overwhelmed — how sometimes the mission feels big when we’re weary or in a harder season. But Acts reminds us: God uses the ordinary. The story’s not over. We’re invited in. It’s not just their story — it’s ours too. Let’s say yes to this wild, bold, Spirit-led life.

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00:00 – Welcome Back: Wrapping Up Acts
04:00 – Icebreaker: Miracles and Mega-Church Pastors
06:30 – So What Now? The Acts Invitation to Us
09:30 – Living Boldly Even When Life Feels Hard
13:00 – What Does It Mean to Be a Witness?
15:00 – The Boldness to Follow the Spirit (Even at Pizza Night)
18:00 – Letting the Spirit Highlight the People Around You
21:00 – Little Acts of Boldness Go a Long Way
23:00 – Practical Ways to Live It Out
28:00 – One Last Surprise: The Next Study is Coming!
29:45 – Final Encouragement & Farewell

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This week, we’re diving deep into what it means to stay faithful when life feels like it’s on pause. In Acts 23–28, we follow Paul’s journey through imprisonment, shipwreck, and delay—only to see God move in unexpected and powerful ways.

If you’re in a season where you feel stuck, forgotten, or like nothing is happening, this one is for you. We’re talking about what it looks like to trust God’s timing, keep showing up in the waiting, and believe that even the hidden seasons are holy. Plus, you’ll hear about epidurals, hospital delays, and what the Bible has to do with reality TV. (Yes, really.)Let’s lean in and remember that God is just as present in our waiting as He is in our breakthrough.

In This Episode

[00:01:26] Icebreaker: Bible Story as Reality TV Show

[00:04:35] Setting the Scene in Acts: Paul’s Pattern

[00:05:50] The Mission to Rome & 2-Year Delay

[00:08:00] The Power of Acts 28: Boldness Without Hindrance

[00:09:07] Reflecting on Paul’s Perseverance

[00:10:00] Kenz’s Epidural Story & the Pain of Delay

[00:12:46] Spiritual Delays: Trusting in God’s Timing

[00:13:59] What God Does in the Waiting (Paul’s Letters!)

[00:16:00] Being Faithful in the Small Things

[00:19:45] Obedience in the Secret Place

[00:21:11] What If Paul Gave Up? Why You Shouldn’t

[00:22:00] Perseverance Builds Character

[00:23:00] Raise Your Expectations—God’s Not Done Yet

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Episode 5 of our Wild Invitation Series! Today we unpack one of our favorite stories in Acts—Paul and Silas worshiping in prison. We get real about what it looks like to choose praise even when life feels dark, painful, or disappointing. Worship isn’t just a Sunday thing or something reserved for the mountaintops—it’s a powerful weapon in the valleys too. Whether you’re crying in your car or leading worship in your living room, this conversation is a reminder that worship repositions our hearts, fights back against the lies of the enemy, and invites the presence of God into our circumstances. Let’s get wild with the Spirit—this is the adventure we were made for!

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[01:15] What’s in a Name: Behind “The Wild Invitation”
[04:30] Icebreaker: Unpopular Opinions About Church Culture
[09:00] Acts 16: Paul & Silas in Prison
[12:00] Praise Before the Breakthrough
[17:00] Worship as Warfare
[20:00] Freedom Looks Different
[24:00] Not Just Songs: Expanding Our View of Worship
[26:00] Your Turn: Worship in Small Group or Solo
[27:30] Final Encouragement: Worship Wherever You Are

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