Would you rather stop caring what people think of you or become better at understanding why their opinions affect you?

What do Narcissism, Davido’s absence and Timothee Chalamet have in common? Today’s episode of course!!

This episode is a lot of things because first of all as you must have already made the connection, David isn’t around and the air feels weird without him here. Next, tee brings us up to speed on what’s been going on for her. Consider this episode tee’s post birthday gift to you.

On this episode, we’ll be discussing self love and self obsession and the very thin line in between these two concepts. We try to explain what self love and obsession mean independently, what they can look like and why it seems they’re often confused. We do some very interesting would you rather questions that would leave you thinking for days.

The episode ends as tee and fortune share some [unsolicited] tips on how we can avoid self obsession while practicing self love.

We hope you enjoy listen this episode as much we enjoyed recording it. Ciao! Or as fortune would say ‘Bonjourno!’.

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Happy Saturday guys… lol, on this episode we decided to shake things up a bit and add something different at the beginning of the episode… can’t spoil the surprise so you’d have to check to know what it is… hope you like ; ). Now, on to the main koko of the day ↓.

Where do you draw the line on accepting yourself for who you are? It’s just us today on the pod and we’ll be discussing a topic that’s very pertinent in our society today. It’s something that in some ways dictates how we go through life especially as young people. If you guessed it right (and can probably tell from the episode title) tee, fortune and Davido will be discussing about beauty standards and the importance of embracing yourself for who you are and being content with it!

We start off by letting you in on what we’ve been up to since the last time we spoke and we talk about the recent P-square drama ( it is now safe to say that money and family do not go well together at all), we then get into the nitty gritty of the episode and we talk about why it seems like we now have warped views on what the beauty standards should be.

We also asked a very important on who or what defines the beauty standards( feel free to let us know what you think in the comment sections of our social media handles). We then did some really insightful would-you-rathers and then ended the episode by giving some likkle tips on how to (as one of the greatest musicians of our time said) be comfortable in your skin.

We really enjoyed recording this and we hope you enjoy listening to it too. Until next time!

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When was the last time you answered “I’m fine” when you really weren’t? For today’s episode we’re exploring something that feels a little bit closer to home as especially as a Nigerian living in the renewed hope agenda economy. We(including Davido) had the amazing Sai on the pod this week and we talked about the need to always be “fine”. We answer some very interesting would-you-rather questions and we also discover what fortune would do if he was a beneficiary of nepotism. We discussed why it seems we’ve become so used to just saying “I’m fine” even when aren’t exactly fine, schedules for crashing out and how we can effectively lean on each for support by having the courage to be vulnerable just like Ethan Hawke says(IYKYK).

As usual we end the episode with our usual watchword( which you should already know if you’ve listened up to this episode)

Do yourself a favour and make listening to this week’s episode a part of your to-do list!

Enjoyyy!

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Should gratitude come from appreciating your own life or from comparing it to someone else’s? This week’s episode is only something we can describe as short and sweet one as it’s one of our shortest episodes, it also takes the cake for the episodes with the highest amount of questions asked [maybe you guys can find answers for us, lol] .We’re taking things slow this episode so it’s just us; tee, fortune and Davido [day ones] on the pod this week and we talk about being grateful without having to compare our situations to other people. Before we get into the episode, we discuss a bit about insecure’s new podcast,(which you should all check out), secondary school miracles and tee’s endless man-crushes. We talked about how it feels like such a Nigerian thing to always one-up others especially when it comes to church testimonies (iykyk) and why gratitude only seems to have more value when it’s compared to other people’s lives. We ended the episode with some insightful would-you-rathers and of course our watch word of the day which is always self awareness or awareness of one-self as tee puts it.

Do yourself a favour and make listening to this week’s episode a part of your to-do list!

Enjoyyy!

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Have you ever felt like everyone believed in you except you? On today’s episode we have a very special guest(yes, we know that we say that for every guest episode), someone that can only described as the literal jack of all trades. Today, tee, fortune(and our ever resident guest; Davido) sat down with Tamitoye! ( A.K.A Tami do all) to talk about imposter syndrome. We gist a bit about what’s it like being a final year pharmacy student and how exciting it must be to be finally done with school! We then get into the main topic of the day; we talk about what imposter syndrome really is, what it can look like, and how it can affect different aspects of our lives. Some really interesting would-you-rathers were done. The episode ends by tee, fortune, Tamitoye giving some insight into how imposter syndrome can be effectively combated. We know we also say this for every episode but you should definitely give this episode a listen because as per usually it is one for the books!

Enjoyyyy!

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Can we truly be alone without ever feeling lonely? This week to celebrate our tenth episode; fortune, tee (and Davido) are joined by our second feature guest in the history of the pod, Ameye (someone you could also call the queen of side quests). They chat a bit about what’s it like for Ameye being a content creator, a medical student and still having time to pursue so many side quests and how she manages to handle all of it. Very interesting would-you-rathers were done and then they got into the main topic of the episode. They discuss why it almost always seems like most people are afraid of being alone. They also talk about some of the benefits of doing things alone and how it could help with self development. They end the episode by giving some helpful tips to as the episode title suggests finding comfort in yourself. Don’t sleep on this episode because as always it truly is one for the books!

Enjoyyyy!

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Episode 009: The big, bad FAILURE

Do you think people fear failure or what failure might reveal about them? On this week’s episode we’re talking all things failure; the different shades of failure and the relativity of failure. Before properly getting into the episode, Tee talks about her short trip to the Vatican City and asks what nostalgia feels like physically. Some really interesting would-you-rathers were done after they messed up, got into the main gist of the episode and

forgot about them [due to interesting gist, like always] . They talked about the good aspects of failure and the reasons why failure seems like a bad thing to most people. They also talk about the consequences of being afraid of failure. The episode ends with the crew giving us some helpful tips on how to overcome the fear of failure.

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Why do you think people fear missing out so much? In today’s episode, tee, fortune (and davido) discuss what FOMO is and why it seems more prevalent in our society today. Some really interesting would-you-rathers were done and then they delved fully into the discussion of the day. As usual, they give some unsolicited but helpful measures to take in order to combat this feeling.

Be sure to give this episode a listen because it is, as usual, one for the books!

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What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want is you? In today’s episode tee, fortune and Davido (our resident guest) get into what self sabotage is and what it can look like. The episode starts off a bit chaotic as tee shares why more people should start looking into identity crisis in the unconscious state/dream realm based on the dreams she’s been having recently. Some really interesting would-you-rathers were done and they got into why people often self-sabotage themselves. Tee raises an important question about ‘famzing’ as a concept and if it’s really just a self esteem issue. The episode ends with them giving some tips on how to- as the episode title says not shoot yourself in the leg(metaphorically speaking, of course).

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(BTW we counted, the word sabotage was said around 45-50 times)

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Do Nigerians actually not understand mental health or are we just afraid to talk about it?

This week it’s just tee and fortune on the pod (honourable mention to Davido as well!) and they get into a very serious conversation that we all should be having. This week they’re doing a deep dive on Nigerians and mental health. Before they get into the episode, tee shares a little fashion tip for the men on colour combos and shares her favourite thing on the internet currently. Some really interesting would-you-rathers were also done just before they got into the main agenda of the episode. Discussions were had on the need for more mental health and emotional awareness among Nigerians, the reasons why it seems Nigerians don’t like to talk about their emotions, and why it seems there’s so much stigma around the topic of mental health. They also talk about the lack of vulnerability in male friendships and why more men need to be more vulnerable in their friendships. The episode ends by them giving us some ways to improve our mental health. Be sure to give this episode a listen because it’s a much needed conversation we should be having and it certainly is one for the books!

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