When she says she wants to feel seen, she’s not asking to be admired or fixed. She’s asking to feel understood. 

In this episode, we’re unpacking what that actually looks like in practice. Because when a woman feels seen, she softens. She opens. She starts bringing more of herself into the relationship. And when she doesn’t, you’ll often feel her pull away, shut down, or reach for connection in ways that don’t quite land.

If you’ve been craving more ease, more spark, more closeness with her in your life… this is where it starts.

We talk about:

- Why “not feeling seen” makes women pull away, shut down, or perform

- The kind of presence that helps her feel safe, playful, and open

- What you’re probably already noticing — but not saying out loud

- How to create the kind of feedback loop that brings out her best

- And our honest question: is roasting how men feel seen? (We’re truly curious.)

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We are thrilled to share part 2 with Jeremie Lotemo. He shares his experience working with men and the most common reason men feel disconnected from their purpose and have a hard time connecting with their woman.

Check out Jeremie's work on Instagram at @jeremielotemo!

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Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a62️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

We are THRILLED to host Jeremie Lotemo on this week's episode. He shares his journey of healing and leading men (and women) to deeper understandings of themselves and relationships.

Stay tuned, in part two, we're discussing how the Father Wound shows up in relationships and how to start unwinding it so you can create the connections you've been craving.

Check out Jeremie's work on Instagram at @jeremielotemo!

Want more from Bri and Court?

Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a62️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

When a woman allows herself to be vulnerable with a man who responds with safety and acceptance, it creates a new energetic blueprint in her nervous system of what a healthy connection feels like. In this episode, we break down the top fears women carry into a first date, show you how to reclaim your body’s wisdom, and give men simple, real-world moves to create genuine safety and openness.

We talk about how:

- Bracing for disappointment creates a contracted energy where women constantly look for signs he'll let them down

- This defensive posture prevents women from seeing good men clearly and blocks the natural flow of feminine energy

- Fear of abandonment causes women to hold back vulnerable parts of themselves, paradoxically guaranteeing the rejection they fear

- The fear of objectification makes women feel dehumanized

- Both men and women need to heal their perceptions of the collective masculine/feminine

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1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

🌿 Join our community, dive into the conversation, and let’s grow together! Your journey to deeper connection and self-discovery starts here! 🌺

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Have you ever walked into a date date already braced for rejection or with that sinking feeling of "What if she thinks I’m not enough?". In this episode, we we flip the script on what men are bracing for in dating—and why it matters for both sides. 

Prepare to Walk Away Knowing:- Why "I don’t want to waste my time" backfires (and how to reframe dating as skill-building, not a job interview)

- The exact energetic shift that makes her lean in (hint: It’s not "try harder")

- How to spot the difference between healthy feminine feedback vs. wounded emasculation 

- Why "not enough" is a symptom, and not the truth (and how to flip it into your superpower)

- Bri’s boundary script for avoiding the "meal ticket" trap without sounding jaded

Resources:

#104 Who Should Pay for Dates?: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3hkrJcoQykGFWAaMdsIELK?si=S37nVLDxQaOe4btwSCM6AA

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🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link!

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

🌿 Join our community, dive into the conversation, and let’s grow together! Your journey to deeper connection and self-discovery starts here! 🌺

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Why do men and women keep missing each other in relationships — even when we want the same thing?

We’re having the exact same conversations, but in two different camps. He thinks she’s the problem. She thinks he’s not doing the work. But what if both sides are just wounded… and craving connection?

In this episode, we finally bring those conversations together. It’s raw, honest, and probably going to shift how you see dating, love, and emotional intimacy — on both sides.

What We Talk About:- The emotional labor burnout women are experiencing

- How men feel overlooked, judged, or unseen despite good intentions

- The “blame game” and how it keeps intimacy at a distance

- Why women must unpack their perception of masculinity

- The risk both sides feel in showing vulnerability

- Approachability, rejection, and emotional safety

- The filters of wounding and how they distort perception

- The feminine’s role in emotional openness and the masculine’s role in groundedness

-  What both sides truly want — and how to bridge the gap

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🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link!

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

🌿 Join our community, dive into the conversation, and let’s grow together! Your journey to deeper connection and self-discovery starts here! 🌺

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If you’ve ever said, “I just get along better with guys,” this one’s for you.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the sister wound. That deep, often unspoken discomfort some women feel when it comes to female friendships. This wound often shows up as subtle competition, betrayal, comparison, or that feeling of walking on eggshells with other women, and we’re unpacking all of it! 

This one’s mainly for the girls, but if you're a guy tuning in, don’t skip it. You'll get a deeper understanding of how women experience connection, why some pull away from closeness, and how that shows up in relationships. We’ll be diving into the brother wound next, so this lays the foundation perfectly.

In a nutshell, we talk about:

Why some female friendships feel unsafe and how to change that

How “I just get along better with men” is often a defense mechanism

What to do when a friend copies you but never gives credit

The hidden cost of being the “cool girl” in male spaces

What healthy, nourishing female friendships actually look like

How your relationship with women reflects your relationship with your own feminine energyWhy healing the sister wound helps you become emotionally available in love

Episode Mentioned: #5 Understanding Wounded Feminine Energy VS Healthy Feminine Energy

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For most men, this stuff isn’t obvious. And we get it; you are not a mind reader. When she says something random like “Kiwis are on sale,” you’re not thinking, “Ah yes, a hidden test of my emotional availability.” You’re thinking, “…Cool? Do we need kiwis?” 

And paying for dates? Yeah, you’ve probably heard a million opinions: “It’s 2024, who cares?” or “Real men always pay.” But here’s the truth: It’s not about the money. It’s about what it does for her.

In this episode, we break down:

• What a "bid for connection" really is (hint: her random comments such as “Look at that weird cloud” aren’t small talk)

• How missed bids create distance

• The psychology behind why covering the date (especially early on) changes how she sees you.

Women notice everything. The way you handle these moments decides whether she sees you as just another date or someone worth investing in.

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

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🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link!

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

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Every woman’s love language is not having to ask at all—especially if she’s the kind who’s used to doing everything herself. You know her: the high-achiever, the over-giver, the woman who’d rather silently carry the weight than “burden” someone with her needs. But this isn’t about mind-reading—it’s about attunement. If you’ve ever wanted to make her feel truly seen and safe—without her spelling it out—tune in and learn how to turn “I’ve got you” into a feeling, not just words.

We talk about:

- Why “not having to ask” brings out her feminine energy

- How single-word texts (yes, especially with periods) can accidentally trigger her nervous system

- Why sensuality (not just sexuality) is the secret sauce to deepening polarity

(P.S. If you’ve ever sent a text that just said “K.” and wondered why things got icy… yeah, we’re covering that too.)

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🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link!

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

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Split or take turns paying? Who should pay on a date? Guys, do you ever feel like a walking ATM? Ladies, do ever wonder if saying “yes” to dinner comes with strings attached? Spoiler alert: It’s not about the money—it’s about the connection. In this episode, we talk about the emotional and energetic layers behind who pays for dates—and why it mattersmore than you think.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why men sometimes feel used when paying for dates.

- How women experience pressure and safety concerns ondates.

- Why paying for dates is about creating a feltexperience, not the money.

- How small, thoughtful gestures can mean more thanexpensive dinners.

- The real safety risks women face and how men can createtrust.

- How to move beyond fear and scarcity in dating.

- Why generosity and authenticity are key to deeperconnections.

- Practical tips for leading with confidence and care ondates.

Link to Episode Mentioned:

#102 Entitled Feminine Woman vs Empowered Feminine Woman: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3a3afHBoK1uoxSz0IkQ2lq?si=CAlhoi7CSLmehL7_ufxH8Q

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠

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Check out our website:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth!

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass!  

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner!

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!

🌿 Join our community, dive into the conversation, and let’s grow together! Your journey to deeper connection and self-discovery starts here! 🌺

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