Breakups are rarely just about what ended. They often reflect who we were trying to be, what we ignored, and how we hadn’t yet learned to choose ourselves. In this episode, we walk you through the healing phase. The moment when clarity starts to return and the urge to label your ex as the problem either keeps you stuck or becomes the entry point to real growth.

What We Discuss:

- How to recognize a capacity mismatch in relationships

- The difference between incompatibility and emotional immaturity

- Why “almost” relationships can feel the hardest to release

- The nervous system’s role in who we’re drawn to

- Healthy accountability vs self-blame after a breakup

- What it means to embody your feminine energy after loss

- How emotionally available masculine men are drawn to women doing this kind of healing work

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

This episode is for the woman learning how to soften without shrinking. For the man who wants to show up in his healthy masculine energy but isn’t sure how to respond when emotions run high. We’re having a real conversation about what it means to be seen, heard, and felt without losing connection. We explore how to communicate from self-awareness instead of defense, and how to create relationships that feel safe and expressive for both the feminine and masculine.

We talk about:

• The thin line between authenticity and reactivity

• How self-protection can sound a lot like empowerment but push away masculine men

• The loop between women who overexpress and men who under-respond

• • The impact of feminine energy when it’s expressed clearly, not chaotically
  • How to connect from your truth while still making space for emotional safety

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

We’re seeing a lot online about high standards, princess treatment, and soft life energy, but what does that actually look like when you're setting up a dating profile?

Because yes, you can want to feel spoiled, cared for, and deeply cherished… And still make space for a masculine man to feel respected, needed, and appreciated.

The truth is, the words you choose, the photos you post, and the energy behind them are telling a story. And if that story is based on fear, self-protection, or trying to get chosen, it’s probably not calling in what you actually want.

In this episode, we’re talking to women navigating dating apps who are finally ready to attract love without the performance. Women who are finally ready to draw in emotionally available men who are grounded in their masculine energy and truly aligned with what they want.

We cover:

- The 4 levels of intentionality behind dating profiles (and why most stop at level 2)

- How to show who you are, not just list what you like

- The biggest silent turnoffs for men reading your profile

- How to express your values without sounding guarded or self-righteous

- What your photos are saying, even when they’re “good” ones

- The subtle shift from vibe to vision that helps you attract emotional maturity

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#DatingWithIntention #FeminineEnergy #MasculineMen #DatingAppsForWomen #AttractLove #EmotionalAvailability #ConsciousDating #HealthyRelationships #DatingProfileTips #EnergeticAttraction

Breakups hurt. Even when you know it’s the right choice, even when you’re the one initiating it, letting go of someone you once loved isn’t easy. In this episode, we’re breaking down the first phase of a breakup: the shock, grief, emotional unraveling, and the deep questioning that comes with it.

In this episode, we are talking about what actually happens in your body during a breakup, how to stop spiraling, why your mind wants to make sense of it all (even if it can’t yet), and what support really looks like during this time.

We cover: 

- What your nervous system goes through after a breakup

- Why both sides of a breakup come with grief

- The temptation to assign labels too early (and why that backfires)

- How to process waves of emotion without letting them control you

- What friends often get wrong when trying to help

- The difference between a hard breakup and a toxic one

- How men and women may process heartbreak differently

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#BreakupHealing #FeminineEnergyHealing #ForTheLoveOfMen #ConsciousBreakup #AttachmentStyleHealing #SoftButPowerful #HighValueWomanJourney #SomaticHealing #SecureAttachment #BreakupGlowUp

The words you choose, the photos you post, and the energy behind them are telling a story on your dating app profile.

In this episode, we’re unpacking how to write a dating profile that actually reflects who you are and the kind of relationship you're looking for, without trying too hard or playing it too safe.

We talk about:

• The 4 levels of intentionality behind dating profiles (and why most people stop at level 2)

• How to show who you are, not just what you like

• The biggest silent turnoffs for women reading your profile

• How to express standards and values without sounding performative or guarded

• What your photos are saying (even when they’re “good” photos)

• The subtle shift that helps you attract the right kind of connection

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t get matches I’m excited about” or “I feel like I have to put on a persona to stand out,” tune in!

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #ModernMasculinity #OnlineDatingTips #DatingProfileHelp #IntentionalDating #RelationshipReady #MenWhoLead #AuthenticConnection #EmpoweredDating

There’s a lot of talk about “princess treatment” right now. Some of it’s light and funny, some of it’s rooted in real desire, and some of it is missing the point entirely.

In this episode, we’re unpacking what’s underneath the viral reels, the lists, the standards, and what happens when a woman starts to base her worth on how much she’s being poured into without pausing to ask: Do I even want that kind of relationship?

Because yes, you can want to feel spoiled, cared for, and deeply cherished…And still make space for a man to feel respected, needed, and appreciated.

It’s all about getting honest with yourself and asking:

• Is what I’m asking for actually mine?

• Do I feel empowered asking for it or pressured to perform some version of “feminine”?

• And most importantly... what do I want to give in return?
  

When you approach relationships from an empowered feminine lens, the goal isn’t to demand more. It’s to ask better. To check in with your own heart first. To receive without entitlement. And to let your standards be rooted in self-respect, not fear.

We’re talking about all of that and more in this one.

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#EmotionalSafety #DatingWithIntention #EmpoweredFeminine #HealthyLoveDynamics #PrincessTreatmentWithDepth #HighStandardsNotWalls #ConsciousRelationships #SelfWorthInLove #EmotionalMaturityMatters #LoveWithoutEntitlement #FeminineEnergyHealing #ModernDatingTalk

The bleeding heart man often leads with effort.
He gives, he fixes, he overextends, hoping it will finally earn him closeness or certainty.
And the high standards woman? She’s not wrong for wanting more.
But sometimes, those standards are hiding something else, like fear, self-protection, or a deep unmet need to feel emotionally held.

In this episode, we’re getting into what’s actually going on underneath this dynamic and how both partners can get what they need to feel emotionally safe without swinging into overgiving or rigid expectations.

Because love doesn’t require a performance.
But it does ask for truth.

We’ll explore:

• Why high standards sometimes turn into emotional armor

• How overgiving can be a hidden form of control

• And what it looks like to shift from protection into connection

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠

Check out our website:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#ConsciousMasculinity #FeminineAndMasculineEnergy #EmotionalSafety #DatingWithIntention #HealthyRelationships #MenDoingTheWork #RelationalIntelligence #HealingTogether #InnerWorkMatters #LoveAndPolarity

For most men, this stuff isn’t obvious. No one teaches you what real safety looks like for women. Not in a classroom. Not from other men. Not in the media. So it makes sense if you’ve been doing your best but still feel like something’s missing.In this episode, we’re talking about what safety actually means to the feminine and why it’s the foundation for deeper emotional and physical connection. Not the cliché version of safety. The real, lived, visceral kind that women are tracking every day without even realizing it.

We break it down into 3 core types:

• Physical safety: Why her nervous system is always scanning, and what makes her body relax

• Emotional safety: The difference between “hearing” her and actually getting it

• Sexual safety: Why pushing backfires, and what creates real openness

You’ll learn:

• • How small shifts in your energy tell her more than words ever could

• Why safety is the most underrated (and sexiest) form of foreplay

• What happens when she feels like she has to protect herself from you

• How to spot the green lights that say “She trusts you now. Keep going.”

There’s no script for this. But if you’re willing to slow down, tune in, and actually attune to her pace, you’ll see a version of her you’ve never seen before.

Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?

Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠

Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠@courtney_schand⁠

Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠

Check out our website:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠

Looking for deeper support?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#ConsciousMasculinity #FeminineAndMasculineEnergy #EmotionalSafety #DatingWithIntention #HealthyRelationships #MenDoingTheWork #RelationalIntelligence #HealingTogether #InnerWorkMatters #LoveAndPolarity

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by your partner's emotions or caught yourself thinking, "Why is she telling me this?," you’re not alone. And you’re not doing it wrong.

In this episode, we explore what’s really happening when the feminine shows up with big emotion. It might look like chaos or intensity on the outside, but underneath, there’s often something deeper that isn’t being met. And it’s not always hers alone.

We talk about:

• - Why her emotion might feel bigger than what you know how to hold- What that intensity could be pointing to

• - How to stay grounded without shutting her down

• - Why trying to fix it often misses the point

• - What comes up in you when it all feels like too much

This isn’t about tolerating everything. It’s about understanding what her emotion is communicating and how to stay connected without losing yourself.

If you've ever felt stuck between pulling away or pushing through, this one’s for you.

We’re glad you're here.

When she says she wants to feel seen, she’s not asking to be admired or fixed. She’s asking to feel understood. 

In this episode, we’re unpacking what that actually looks like in practice. Because when a woman feels seen, she softens. She opens. She starts bringing more of herself into the relationship. And when she doesn’t, you’ll often feel her pull away, shut down, or reach for connection in ways that don’t quite land.

If you’ve been craving more ease, more spark, more closeness with her in your life… this is where it starts.

We talk about:

- Why “not feeling seen” makes women pull away, shut down, or perform

- The kind of presence that helps her feel safe, playful, and open

- What you’re probably already noticing — but not saying out loud

- How to create the kind of feedback loop that brings out her best

- And our honest question: is roasting how men feel seen? (We’re truly curious.)

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Want more from Bri and Court?

Check out our Masterclasses:

1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6

2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b

3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

#RelationshipsDecoded  #MasculineAndFeminine  #EmotionalIntelligence  #ModernDatingTalk  #HealingTogether  #LoveAndPolarity  #HealthyRelationships  #InnerWorkJourney  #ConsciousDating  #DatingWithIntention  #FeminineEnergy  #MenAndWomenTalk