For The Love Of Men Podcast

By Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher

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August 12, 2022 #40 Swipe Right Vibe (The Energetics of an Aligned Masculine Dating Profile)
Clarity is a masculine gift that will serve you well in dating.
Take time to clarify what you want to experience in dating so you can arrange your actions to create that (i.e. if you want casual, own it). Your behaviors naturally flow from what you are wanting to build.
Think about your ideal partner and write to “her”.
Given the clarity you have about yourself, use (all) the space on your profile to reflect what’s most important to you that “she” would like to know on the front end. Instead of a one-word response, think about answering the question, “what value of mine does this show?” (i.e. if you post a fishing photo, maybe you use a caption to share what fishing does for you- “I am recharged for the week after I spend a few hours at the lake fishing”).
Keep refining your profile as you become more clear of the type of person you are wanting to attract.
This isn’t about adding another hoop to jump through, but rather more clarity. When you keep the boundaries about what you are looking for, you will naturally filter out less compatible candidates. It is ok to be honest if there is a situation or personality that is difficult for you to be with and you are not willing to partner with (“I am passionate about my career and I’d like to be with someone who is equally passionate about their purpose”, etc)
It’s not about the number of swipes, but about compatibility so use that as a marker of progress.

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Free Masterclass: How to Speak so He can Hear You- www.courtneyschand.com/programs
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
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Men's coaching: www.courtneyschand.com/rooted

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The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
The Magnetism of Narcisists and Codependents https://buildingbri.com/free-gift/
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/
Instagram: @buildingbri
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48min
August 05, 2022 #39 The Energy of the Player
The Player Vibe.
This one can be tricky because it will present a lot of Masculine energy: he is in his body, present, and able to respond to the body language of the person in front of him and create the feeling of being seen (one of the core needs of the Feminine).
He is highly charismatic and outgoing and is therefore very attractive to Feminine energy at many different levels of development because she will interpret him as emotionally available and then realize they are not aligned on what they want- which can be quite painful if you don’t trust yourself to hold that pain.

The truth is, we aren’t here to shame the Player.
What we want to highlight is the distinction that Wounded Masculine Player energy may feel like an Empowered Masculine man while they are socializing (you feel seen and drawn to him) but the energy flow wil often be playing on the wounds of the Feminine (i.e. to be picked and chosen). The flow of energy will often be more “about him” when you are engaging with a WM energy which will leave a woman feeling like she needs to earn more of his attention so she can continue the experience of being seen.
This interaction will only develop into something healthy if you are aligned on what you both want (are you both in a light, playful, casual space? Or will you be wanting more than he does?).
To see this with more clarity without closing her heart to all men, a woman needs to be able to hold herself and stay centered while attention comes to her. She will do this by understanding herself (see the parts of you that may want to be chosen and what scenarios trigger that wound) so she can set boundaries to keep herself calm and neutral even around “big” energies so she can stay available to the information she needs to gather. She can also begin trusting the instincts of people that care about her (as she’s learning to trust herself- most importantly), we find that men are often quick to pick up on this energy.

The most powerful questions you need to discern a man’s energy:
-What does empowered energy look/feel like in my body?
-How do I feel around him?
-How do I feel when I’m not around him?

Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here www.courtneyschand.com/programs
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Men's 1:1 Coaching: Rooted: Understanding Empowered Masculine Energy So You Can Support Healthy Love
Men's Course: Rooted — Courtney Schand Coaching

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The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
The Magnetism of Narcissists and Codependents https://buildingbri.com/free-gift/
Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/
Instagram: @buildingbri
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
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25min
July 29, 2022 #38 How the Feminine Experiences Perpetrator Energy
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Many people have experienced wounding from the Masculine, we aren’t here to deny that. But it has been our experience that healing from relational wounds opens up a new paradigm in which to create healthier experiences with all masculine energy.
The more clarity you have of your own wounds, the more clearly you will be able to see their behaviors as “theirs” (vs a reflection of your worthiness).
The wounded masculine energy is seeking power and control. One indication of wounded masculine energy is a feeling of being “pushed”. (i.e. if you state what you need and it is met with a strong reaction that causes you to have to shrink or collapse your boundary in order feel safe).
To begin healing wounded masculine energy, it requires an integration of empowered feminine energy- to compassionately honor the emotions that are being held in the body so that emotions can become a source of direction and personal agency instead of agression.
In the same way, when a woman acknowledges her experiences with wounded masculine energy, she begins to integrate more of her empowered masculine energy and setting boundaries that empower her (and allow her to reopen her heart with discernment).
Initial meetings with a wounded masculine energy may seem like “masculine energy”, especially if you have been attracting men who have been displaying less masculine energy qualities.
Empowered masculine energy feels like being seen, having your boundaries honored, and two whole people co-creating something that feels expansive for both of you.
Notice how your body responds and TRUST it.

Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
It's not about who did the dishes last... Couples Masterclass: Creating More Support in the Kitchen
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Ways to Work with Court: Courses — Courtney Schand
Men's Coaching: Rooted: Supporting a Love that Fuels Your Life

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The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
The Magnetism of Narcisists and Codependents https://buildingbri.com/free-gift/
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/
Instagram: @buildingbri
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
...more
44min
July 22, 2022 #37 The Nice Guy Dynamic (What’s Happening Energetically with a “Nice Guy”)
If you want our support, check out our group coaching call, July 28th at 6pm CST
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Often “nice guys finish last” only because they don’t understand healthy polarity and therefore, will resist leading the relationship in that way. They often display a lot of qualities that make for a great partner and yet have experiences of the women they express interest in being attracted to someone else, usually the “bad boy”.
There’s a misunderstanding about the Feminine, that the way to create harmony is to cater and do what she wants. But this actually creates a sense of unease within a person with empowered feminine energy because it does not create the contrast she needs to feel safe enough to surrender more into her feminine energy. It neutralizes polarity because neither person can (or is willing) commit to one of the poles.
Instead, healthy polarity allows for two separate and whole people. So integrating more of your own masculine energy (this is true regardless of gender) will ensure that you show up to the connection with clearer boundaries so the other person is able to see who you are and what you value. People who have boundaries tend to honor other people’s boundaries because they create clarity and clarity is kind.
This willingness to “back yourself” allows other empowered people to see you more. It will come across as self-confidence but the real gift is the opportunity to see the degree of harmony that can be created between you- if you will be aligned on certain values without fear of loss- self or other.
For the nice guy to create more polarity, he needs to hold equally the value he places on the other person AND the value he brings as a partner including his own life goals, principles, and direction. These are not mutually exclusive, but rather this is what will allow the women he supports to *feel* his masculinity and desire more in a relationship with him than friendship.

Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
It's not about who did the dishes last... Couples Masterclass: Creating More Support in the Kitchen
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Ways to Work with Court: CourtneySchand.com/courses
Men's Course: Rooted: Supporting a Love That Fuels Your Life

Want more from Bri?
The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/
Instagram: @buildingbri
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
...more
33min
July 15, 2022 #36 Polarity of Masculine & Feminine Energy: the Magic Behind Chemistry.
We love talking about creating/understanding healthy polarity and shockingly haven’t made an episode about it- so this one is for you!
Polarity is simply the natural pull that is created by opposite magnetic cores… it’s no different in people. Energetic polarity requires a Masculine and Feminine energy and the tension that results in the middle is what is experienced as sexual tension or chemistry.
To create polarity, we have to commit to embodying more of the energy that feels most authentic to us.
Understanding the energetics of polarity will help you identify the possible reasons the relationship doesn’t “feel the same” and continue to explore and dive deeper into your own energetic core as a form of supporting your partnership.
When polarity is inverted, the ask is to commit to noticing where the imbalance is occurring so you can recommit to honoring each other’s energetic core. The relational dynamic will naturally course correct and feel more like one you want to be part of ;P
We hope this helps- stay tuned for next week, we will talk about how polarity gets disrupted in the Nice Guy dynamic (hint: there’s nothing wrong with him, it’s all about the polarity).

Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
It's not about who did the dishes last... Couples Masterclass- Supported: Creating the Experience of Harmony at Home, Together
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Ways to Work with Court: CourtneySchand.com/courses
Arise + 1:1 Mentoring
Men's Course: Rooted: Supporting a Love That Fuels Your Life

Want more from Bri?
The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
Apply to work with Bri 1:1: https://buildingbri.com/enquiry/
Instagram: @buildingbri
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
...more
25min
July 08, 2022 #35 Safety v. Non-threatening: the Feminine Experience of Integrated v. Un(der)integrated Masculine Energy (pt 1)
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This is a hot topic! Based on our interactions with men on tiktok, “safety” and “non-threatening” seem to be used synonymously- but, as the Feminine partner, they feel totally different.
Men, we want to preface this- it isn’t intended to shame a man in any stage of his development, but rather to shine a light on how different levels/types of energy may be received by a feminine body. If you are wanting to create a dynamic where a woman naturally “submits” to your leadership, she will find that easier to do when she can sense your strength is working on her behalf (vs coming at her or needing to rely on her own for safety).
For women who are committed to their Feminine energy, the key distinction is in your physiological response- does your body naturally soften more in his presence or do you feel neutral around him? Can you freely express yourself or is there a sense that you are needing to continually monitor the situation and censor yourself? One will naturally create more room for sexual tension while the other will stifle it.
-Integrated Masculine energy *feels* like sturdiness and strength. It has less to do with physical size, and more to do with the energetic capacity the other person carries (/owns).
-Non-threatening energy may not cause direct harm but it will not allow her to soften as deeply because she is still needing her own masculine energy online. In our experience, the feeling of safety occurs with a man who has more integrated Masculine energy than she does.
-A man who is stepping more into his masculine energy will take what feels like (from the Feminine perspective) an active stance when it comes to her sense of safety- emotionally and physically- allowing her to soften her defenses.
-The "alpha male" (this is in quotes because the men we've experienced the most safety around speak differently than men who call themselves "alpha") this man is activated/-ing his warrior energy but he hasn't integrated enough of his own Feminine energy to direct his strength effectively and he will often be experienced as more of a perpetrator than a protector by the Feminine.
To creating something that honors us both,
Courtney & Bri

Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Website: CourtneySchand.com
Women's Coaching: Arise: the Art of Empowering Relationships
Men's Coaching: Rooted: Supporting the Love You're Meant For

Want more from Bri?
The Pleasure Path 6 Week LIVE Program starting 10/18: https://brimosher.kartra.com/page/pleasurepath
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
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Instagram: @buildingbri
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
...more
27min
July 01, 2022#34 Part 2: Qualities of Women That Impress Men - Feedback from Male Listeners
In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss:
Qualities Men Love About Women
Respect is a deep admiration of a person’s beliefs, contribution, and choices. To facilitate more experience of Respect, practice verbalizing appreciation of your partner. This will increase your sense of admiration and trust in their abilities even if they differ from yours.

Loyalty- this can look many different ways, often men will experience loyalty as a form of support; a backing of their character and a sense of pride in who they are as a person and a partner. To facilitate more experience of Loyalty, many Feminine energy women need a container (emotional boundaries that clarify the relationship) to feel safe.

Kindness- a natural disposition of generosity, sweetness, and gentleness. To facilitate more experience of Kindness, focus on meeting the deeper emotional needs of the Feminine being seen, heard, and safe.

Honesty- being able to ask for what you need and speak your Truth without attack or criticism. To facilitate more experience of Honesty there has to be safety because honesty requires vulnerability and the more you trust your partner’s reaction, the more willing you’ll be to share (even uncomfortable) information.

Empathy/Care for Others- being attuned and nurturing to others people (including her man). To facilitate more experience of Empathy and Care for Others (including you/family), focus on ways he/she feels supported (or spoiled ;p). Everyone has things on their plate that, if removed, would open up emotional bandwidth to be more available to nurture.

Playfulness is innate to the Feminine. When she’s not weighed down by her own survival energy, happiness and pleasure are naturally expressed. Men, facilitate more experience of Playfulness, play together, get creative, and help her feel secure in other areas of her life.

Groundedness/emotional maturity requires time and space to create. This isn’t about being perfect but rather committed to the process of growth. It requires a lot of integrated masculine energy to create a sense of safety and stability within herself and the container.
Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
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Ways to work with Court

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3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
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Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
...more
55min
June 24, 2022#33 Qualities of Women That Impress Men- Feedback from Male Listeners
If you want our support, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST
In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss:
Qualities Men Love About Women
Respect is a deep admiration of a person’s beliefs, contribution, and choices. To facilitate more experience of Respect, practice verbalizing appreciation of your partner. This will increase your sense of admiration and trust in their abilities even if they differ from yours.

Loyalty- this can look many different ways, often men will experience loyalty as a form of support; a backing of their character and a sense of pride in who they are as a person and a partner. To facilitate more experience of Loyalty, many Feminine energy women need a container (emotional boundaries that clarify the relationship) to feel safe.

Kindness- a natural disposition of generosity, sweetness, and gentleness. To facilitate more experience of Kindness, focus on meeting the deeper emotional needs of the Feminine being seen, heard, and safe.

Honesty- being able to ask for what you need and speak your Truth without attack or criticism.To facilitate more experience of Honesty there has to be safety because honesty requires vulnerability and the more you trust your partner’s reaction, the more willing you’ll be to share (even uncomfortable) information.

Empathy/Care for Others- being attuned and nurturing to others people (including her man).To facilitate more experience of Empathy and Care for Others (including you/family), focus on ways he/she feels supported (or spoiled ;p). Everyone has things on their plate that, if removed, would open up emotional bandwidth to be more available to nurture.

Playfulness is innate to the Feminine. When she’s not weighed down by her own survival energy, happiness and pleasure are naturally expressed. Men, facilitate more experience of Playfulness, play together, get creative, and help her feel secure in other areas of her life.

Groundedness/emotional maturity requires time and space to create. This isn’t about being perfect but rather committed to the process of growth. It requires a lot of integrated masculine energy to create a sense of safety and stability within herself and the container.

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Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
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Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Ways to work with Court

Want more from Bri?
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
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1h 1min
June 17, 2022 #32 Celebrating the POWERFUL Impact of Dads
If you want our support with all things relationships & dating, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST
The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores.
In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss:
Dads. (Especially girl dads)
Men are so important- dare we say, critical- to creating healthier relationships.
With this week being Fathers Day in the U.S. we wanted to take some time to share the way our own dads have impacted our emotional journey- what that looked like specifically as well as how we’ve created adult-to-adult bonds with our dads.
We have deep respect and gratitude for men who are healing their own emotional wounds- you are changing the trajectory of relationship experiences for generations that follow you. We see you.

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Nourished: Using Your Appetite to Heal Your Relationship with Food https://courtney-schand-courses.thinkific.com/courses/nourish-your-body
Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
Ways to Work with Court
Men's Coaching: Rooted — Courtney Schand

Want more from Bri?
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
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46min
June 10, 2022#31 Qualities of Men That Impress Us- Feedback from Female Listeners
If you want our support, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST
The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores.
In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss:
Being able to explore deeper emotions with you than you can on your own, he’s willing to share in the emotional labor of conscious relationships.

Executing a plan with excellence, being accountable for the whole process and leading the way.

When men are connected to their purpose and taking responsibility for their space.

One listener pointed out the work ethic of men, providing care and creating an experience that is positive for those around you.

Taking charge of their inner space as a form of integrity and following through.

Being generous, it is empowering for people around you when you see others as equals and give from a place of integrity.

Talking to me, not at me. Seeing a person as equally capable keeps the dynamic multidimensional instead of objectifying them.

Authenticity instead of “superficial charm” (i.e. manipulation), trusting that who you are is enough for the right person. Self-confidence is hot!

Loving their kids (if they have them) well. Nurturing requires masculine energy, when women see men who prioritize and nurture their children, it is an obvious display of many green flags for a potential relationship.

Being able to allow independence and connection with others (healthy interdependence)

Treating others with respect. Respect goes along with seeing other people as capable, worthy individuals.

Taking responsibility and accountability for their own growth and life experience (i.e. learning new skills, hobbies, etc)

Asking great questions will go far in dating. Not just that, but being genuinely curious and ask follow up questions. Don’t be afraid to explore the experience of the person you’re with <3
Want more from Courtney?
Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here Relationship Coaching — Courtney Schand
Arise: The Art of Empowering Relationships
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Instagram: @Courtney_Schand
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Want more from Bri?
3 Day/Training Masterclass Series 'Attracting Healthy Love': buildingbri.com/healthy-love/
Sign up for Inside Out, The Art and Science of Healthy Relationships + Magnetizing the Divine Masculine: http://www.buildingbri.com/insideout-selfstudy
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Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ManifestingQueens111/
Instagram: @buildingbri
Website: bulidingbri.com
Ways to work with Bri: https://buildingbri.com/
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43min

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