For Your TMI

Welcome to TMI Minisode 6: Circumcision. Dréya St. Clair from Gender 101 recounts her decision to get circumcised as a young teen, as well as her overall experience with gender and self acceptance.

Dreya Links

Articles Featuring our Guest, Dreya St. Clair:

Brown Alumni Mag Interview with Kate Bernstein:

https://news.brown.edu/articles/2018/08/nonbinary

Bustle Article:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/191224-a-body-project-andre-st-clair-on-her-penis

Circumcision Procedure

https://m.acog.org/Patients/FAQs/Newborn-Male-Circumcision

Adam Ruins Rverything: Circumcision

https://youtu.be/gCSWbTv3hng

Prepuce

https://www.dictionary.com/browse/prepuce

Gender Dysphoria

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/conditions/gender-dysphoria

Trauma in Your DNA.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/573055/

Anxiety As an Evolutionary Tool

https://academic.oup.com/emph/article/2016/1/214/2802659

Where to Find More FYTMI:

IG: @foryourtmi

Email: [email protected]

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to Episode 9: Gender 101 with Dreya St. Clair. This conversation with the Brown and CalArts Alum breaks down the components of Gender, Sex and Sexuality in a fun, judgement-free, and intimate way.

Articles Featuring our Guest, Dreya St. Clair:

Brown Alumni Mag Interview with Kate Bornstein:

https://news.brown.edu/articles/2018/08/nonbinary

Bustle Article:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/191224-a-body-project-andre-st-clair-on-her-penis

How Old Is English

https://public.oed.com/blog/old-english-an-overview/#

Buck Angel

IG: @buckangel

https://buckangel.com

https://bust.com/sex/195055-trans-man-gyneologist-advice-buck-angel.html

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/evq43w/buck-angel-how-learning-to-love-my-vagina-affirmed-my-manhood

Trans and Cis in Chemistry

https://www2.chemistry.msu.edu/faculty/reusch/virttxtjml/sterisom.htm

NYC Bathroom Law:

https://www1.nyc.gov/nyc-resources/service/7147/single-occupancy-bathroom-complaint

Name Change and Gender Marker Change Requirements State by State:

https://namechange.uslegal.com/name-changes-laws-by-state/

https://transgenderlawcenter.org/resources/id/state-by-state-overview-changing-gender-markers-on-birth-certificates

https://transequality.org/documents

Percentage of Trans People in the Population

https://thinkprogress.org/the-american-transgender-population-is-larger-than-we-thought-it-was-ab83126f33a/

History of the Word 'Tranny'

https://www.transadvocate.com/tranny-an-evidence-based-review-2_n_13593.htm

Where to find more FYTMI:

IG: @foryourtmi

Email: [email protected]

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to Minisode 5: Supporting Survivors of Sexual Assault with Tim Mousseau.

Content Warning: In this minisode, our guest recounts the story of their sexual assault. We discuss ways in which you can be supportive of people if they disclose an assault, how consent plays a role in all aspects of life, and how to be a better partner when it comes to boundaries and consent.

Where to Find Tim

timmousseau.com

IG: @tim_mousseau

Resources For Reporting an Assault

Information about the National Sexual Assault Hotline

https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline

Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.

Consent Education

https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2016/04/when-should-kids-start-learning-about-sex-and-consent/480264/

http://www.siecus.org/_data/global/images/guidelines.pdf

http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/3rs-curriculum

Root Chakra

http://bravebelle.com/root-chakra-impacts-sexuality/

https://tantricmassageguide.com/blogs/introduction-tantra-chakra-system/

Bartholin Glands and Cyst

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/bartholin-cyst/symptoms-causes/syc-20369976

Where to Find More FYTMI:

IG: @foryourtmi

Email: mailto:[email protected]

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to Episode 8 with Tim Mousseau, a speaker on Consent & Toxic Masculinity. This conversation revolves around how to practice and teach consent, the harmful effects of toxic masculinity, how we all participate in perpetuating it and the changes we can make to support non-toxic masculinity.

Tim was also a Movember spokesman in 2018.  He educates us on it's goals, as well as how his work towards helping people recognize their toxic masculinity and change for the better can greatly improve their mental health and their entire lives.

Where to Find Tim:

timmousseau.com

IG: @tim_mousseau

Resources Suggested by Tim:

APA Guidelines on how to best support men

https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/01/ce-corner.aspx

What Are Men To Do in the Age of Trump?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2017/feb/03/men-womens-march-feminism-donald-trump

A Slate article on Men and MeToo

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/01/men-male-fragility-metoo-progress.html

Movember:

https://us.movember.com

College Students and Sex Stats:

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/about-us/newsroom/press-releases/planned-parenthood-new-cdc-report-on-u-s-teens-sexual-behavior-illustrates-adolescents-continued-need-for-sex-education-and-effective-birth-control

https://www.thecut.com/2015/10/sex-lives-of-college-students.html#Darcy-Leor2

Stats on False Rape Accusations:

https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf

Rachel Cargle:

https://www.rachelcargle.com/

IG: @rachel.cargle

Twitter: @RachelCargle

Where to find more FYTMI:

IG: @foryourtmi

Email: mailto:[email protected]

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to our episode with Will Shishmanian and his LGBTQ inclusive musical,

Addy & Dahlia: A Fairytale Musical.

This week’s FYTMI covers not only musicals and issues pertaining to LGBTQ persons, but Crime of Passion Laws, sound baths, and injustices in the healthcare system as well. So, drink up your dose of TMI, enjoy, and we f*cking love you!!

Addy and Dahlia: A Fairytale Musical

https://www.facebook.com/events/2009725215986829/

Female Renaissance Painters

https://www.widewalls.ch/famous-female-renaissance-artists/

Artemisia Gentileschi Works at the Met:

https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/436453

Artemisia Gentileschi: ‘More savage than Caravaggio: the woman who took revenge in oil’

https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2016/oct/05/artemisia-gentileshi-painter-beyond-caravaggio

Domina Franco

IG: @domina_franco

Planned Parenthood Out for Health Program

http://www.outforhealth.org

Trans Services at Planned Parenthood

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-southern-finger-lakes/who-we-are/whats-new-ppsfl/transgender-health-care-and-resources

Link to Bushnell Theatre in Connecticut (Where Will Saw his First Musical)

https://bushnell.org

Links to Sondheim Songwriting Books

https://www.amazon.com/Hat-Box-Collected-Stephen-Sondheim/dp/0307957721/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1547157994&sr=1-2&keywords=look+i+made+a+hat

Andrew Lloyd Webber vs Sondheim Debate — apparently people say Sondheim won but it continues...

https://www.broadwayworld.com/board/readmessage.php?thread=1057219

http://theatricallymusing.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-sondheim-vs-lloyd-webber-debate.html

Crime of Passion Law

https://brettpodolsky.com/general-law/crimes-of-passion-the-definition-history-and-laws

Texas Crime of Passion Law

https://codes.findlaw.com/tx/penal-code/penal-sect-19-02.html

Article About the TX Doctor Caitlin Knew Who Was Shot in the Butt

http://www.tdtnews.com/news/crime/article_614edd91-792a-5b1d-a9cb-4630a8b688ef.html

Pat Shoutout - a link to his stage credit for Beauty and the Beast

https://www.ibdb.com/broadway-cast-staff/patrick-lavery-497685

Hipppie Shit About Tones Affecting Brain Chemistry

https://aplus.com/wtf-is-it-and-should-you-try-it/what-are-sound-baths-benefits?no_monetization=true

A Study on How Tones Affect Brain Chemistry

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5871151/

Statistics Around Wage Gap for Trans People, Unemployment Rate, and Where It Is legal to Fire Someone for Being Trans

https://www.bustle.com/p/we-need-to-talk-about-the-gender-pay-gap-in-a-more-inclusive-way-8707078

https://www.fastcompany.com/40456937/heres-everywhere-in-the-u-s-you-can-still-get-fired-for-being-gay-or-trans

https://studentloanhero.com/featured/survey-lgbtq-student-borrowers-regret-loans/

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/transgender-unemployed-business-jobs-discrimination-1.3740571

Link to Fines for Not Having Health Insurance

https://help.ihealthagents.com/hc/en-us/articles/115001888334-What-is-the-penalty-for-not-having-health-insurance-in-2019-

News Related to the ACA Fines and their Elimination

https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/12/14/677002085/texas-judge-rules-affordable-care-act-unconstitutional-but-supporters-vow-to-app

Links to Blood Monitoring Info and Recommendations for Hormones

https://www.bumc.bu.edu/endo/clinics/transgender-medicine/guidelines/

http://transhealth.ucsf.edu/trans?page=guidelines-feminizing-therapy

http://transhealth.ucsf.edu/trans?page=guidelines-masculinizing-therapy

Where to Find More FYTMI:

IG: @foryourtmi

Email: mailto:[email protected]

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to Dr. Amanda Ganza's TMI Minisode! It's short, it's sweet, it's unexpected and incredibly insightful.

All the links:

Info on Bariatric Surgery Procedures:

https://asmbs.org/patients/bariatric-surgery-procedures

Info on Sleeve Gastrectomy Specifically:

http://columbiasurgery.org/conditions-and-treatments/sleeve-gastrectomy

Info on the Lap Band Surgery Specifically:

https://www.nyp.org/brooklyn/services/advanced-surgery/surgical-weight-reduction-program/lap-band-surgery

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Amanda Episode Part 2

Welcome to Part 2 of Controlling the Birth. Dr. Amanda Ganza, FACOG guides us through the less known, more obscure and more permanent forms of birth control. We hope you enjoy and keep that uterus as full or as empty as you please!

So many links:

The sponge

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/birth-control-sponge

Tilted uterus

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/female-infertility/multimedia/tipped-uterus/img-20008147

Pullout

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/withdrawal-pull-out-method

Internal condoms- we didn’t cover this....

https://youtu.be/3LnIDWC6Wbs

Rhythm method

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/rhythm-method/about/pac-20390918

Tubal ligation

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/healthlibrary/test_procedures/gynecology/tubal_ligation_135,27

IVF

http://americanpregnancy.org/infertility/in-vitro-fertilization/

Egg freezing

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/egg-freezing/about/pac-20384556

Right to life laws

https://www.health.ny.gov/regulations/task_force/reports_publications/when_death_is_sought/chap4.htm

https://www.deathwithdignity.org/states/new-york/

Vasectomy

http://www.urologyhealth.org/urologic-conditions/vasectomy

Hormonal bc affecting ability to get pregnant

https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/buh-bye-birth-control

Dr. Jolene Brighten

http://www.drbrighten.com

Comparison of Different Condoms

https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/five-kinds-condoms-guide-consumers-0

Lambskin Condoms

https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-are-lambskin-condoms-906783

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to Episode 5: Controlling the Birth with Dr. Ganza. We dive deep into pelvic exams, precum, vaginal health and the more common methods of birth control.

Information about migraines, specifically migraines with aura:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/10/091028090654.htm

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2938905/

New study suggesting that birth control with very low estrogen may help control migraines:

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/head.12960

Info about hormonal birth control and blood clots:

https://obgyn.coloradowomenshealth.com/health-info/birth-control/medical-conditions-birth-control/blood-clots

https://nwhn.org/hormonal-birth-control-blood-clot-risk/

Study suggesting that the ring and the patch can cause a higher risk for blood clots than the pill:

https://www.bmj.com/content/344/bmj.e2990

Physician amnesia link

https://consumer.healthday.com/senior-citizen-information-31/misc-aging-news-10/don-t-forget-what-the-doctor-tells-you-512961.html

Reasons for not washing and reusing condoms

https://www.forbes.com/sites/brucelee/2018/07/29/cdc-warns-you-should-not-wash-or-reuse-condoms/#41f06cef3a73

What is precum and where does it cum frum:

https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-is-pre-ejaculate-or-precum/

Laundry detergent and vaginas

https://www.empowher.com/vaginismus/content/could-your-laundry-detergent-be-cause-vaginal-itching

https://www.abc.net.au/news/health/2017-09-12/a-gynaecologists-guide-to-good-vulva-and-vagina-health/8892230

https://www.glamour.com/gallery/9-products-for-a-healthier-vagina

Planned Parenthood guide to Birth Control methods:

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control

Nuvaring:

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/nuvaring/about/pac-20394784

Depo (Shot):

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/depo-provera/about/pac-20392204

Nexplanon (Implant):

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/contraceptive-implant/about/pac-20393619

The Patch (Not Soul):

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/birth-control-patch/about/pac-20384553

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Welcome to our second TMI Minisode featuring Erica Smith and her hysterectomy.

Links to writing by Erica Smith:

https://www.girlsgonestrong.com/blog/author/erica-smith/

https://www.ferinemag.com/lockerroomtalk

Ig: @ericasmith.sex.edu

Hysterectomy Explanation

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/vaginal-hysterectomy/about/pac-20384541

Uterine Fibroids

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/uterine-fibroids/symptoms-causes/syc-20354288

Tooth and Nail by Dr Linda Dahl:

https://www.amazon.com/Tooth-Nail-Making-Female-Doctor/dp/133501747X

Amanda Palmer - Art of Asking

Ted Talk:

https://www.ted.com/talks/amanda_palmer_the_art_of_asking?language=en

Book:

https://www.amazon.com/Art-Asking-Learned-Worrying-People/dp/1455581097

Bristol Stool Scale:

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a19957435/bristol-stool-scale-poop/

Squatty Potty

https://www.squattypotty.com

Hyster/Hysteria etymology

https://www.etymonline.com/word/hysterical

https://medium.com/@peacelovetrig/on-the-sexist-etimology-of-hysteria-and-what-academia-did-about-it-ef98815ddb6c

Ali Wong:

IG: aliwong

Trailer for her show “Baby Cobra”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XY9h-0x1Oao

Amber Rose:

IG: amberrose

Adenomyosis

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/adenomyosis/symptoms-causes/syc-20369138

Endometriosis

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/endometriosis/symptoms-causes/syc-20354656

Vaginal/Cervical Cuff References

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321679.php

Vaginal Cuff After Hysterectomy Ripping

https://www.uptodate.com/contents/vaginal-cuff-dehiscence-after-hysterectomy

Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune

Episode 4 features Erica Smith, a sexuality educator who schools us on anal sex as well as the definitions of sex itself. Warning, content is NSFW!

Here’s some interesting and relevant shit:

Links to writing by Erica Smith & IG: @ericasmith.sex.ed

https://www.girlsgonestrong.com/blog/author/erica-smith/

https://www.ferinemag.com/lockerroomtalk

Intestinal length:

https://hypertextbook.com/facts/2001/AnneMarieThomasino.shtml

List of stuff up butts

http://www.authorderekadam.com/what-people-put-in-butts/

Bend Over Boyfriend:

Part 2:

https://m.xhamster.com/videos/bendover-boyfriend-full-movie-2307520

Sorry! Still in search of part 1 online. It can be bought here:

https://www.excaliburfilms.com/AdultDVD/500930D1_Bend_Over_Boyfriend_dvd.htm

Coconut oil as lube?

https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/4-reasons-not-to-use-coconut-oil-as-l

https://goodcleanlove.com/blogs/good-clean-love/reconsidering-coconut-oil-as-lube

Breakdown of oil, water and silicone based lubes

https://www.google.com/amp/s/helloclue.com/amp/articles/sex/how-to-pick-a-lubricant

Guide to choosing lube for anal sex/anal play:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/best-lube-for-anal/%3famp

Giardia and other sexually transmitted intestinal parasites:

http://advocatesaz.org/2012/01/03/sti-awareness-intestinal-parasites/

Erogenous spots

O spot:

https://www.medicaldaily.com/g-spot-old-news-o-spot-stimulation-leads-more-female-arousal-how-find-it-303984

G spot

https://www.healthline.com/health/g-spot-in-women

A spot

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anterior_fornix_erogenous_zone

https://thenookybox.com/blog/a-spot/

P spot

https://www.dameproducts.com/blogs/journal/the-p-spot-guide-that-everyone-needs

P spot, O Spot, U Spot, K Spot

http://helloflo.com/the-4-erogenous-zones-that-arent-the-g-spot/

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Music (in order)

Psychadelik Pedestrian - Another Boring Lunch

A A Alto - Ultraviolet

A A Alto - Stamp

A A Alto - Trot Tune