Host Paul Akin talks with Sarah Lanier about her book Foreign to Familiar and how “hot” and “cold” climate cultures communicate love differently through indirect vs. direct communication, relationship vs. task focus, and views of honor, time, and authority. Lanier warns against judging other cultures through one’s own lens and argues there is no perfect culture; effectiveness requires learning what communicates love in the local context, including when directness is necessary for safety. For short-term missions, she advises taking no initiative, acting as guests, following local leadership, and selecting humble, teachable participants to avoid harming local ministry. They discuss applying these concepts within the U.S., using cultural curiosity for conflict resolution, avoiding stereotypes amid generational change, and preparing missionaries by building relationships with different cultural congregations before going overseas.

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The Doctor of Ministry

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