Why do people need forgiveness in their lives? “Having unforgiveness is like you drinking the poison and expecting the other person to get hurt” Forgiving is hard no doubt about it but how do we forgive our past? Christy Love shares about the time she experienced feeling deep hate for someone and that’s when she decided to read as many books as she can to be able to forgive her ex. A big question she came across was, what’s it like to be in their shoes? What’s their prospective? Learning to have empathy such an important part of healing. Stephen adds on by saying, “hurt people hurt people.” He also talks about how much he loves the musical Wicked. Why? The wicked witch of the west was never wicked. She was simply hurt. Therefor she hurt people. Just like we’re not perfect, we’ve all hurt someone at some point in our lives and most times it’s not intentional. No one in this world was born to hurt you. Letting yourself to feel bitter and letting that take over your life is called self sabotage. Forgive starts by forgiving yourself, your past, and your future.