Ep. 5 What does foster care really look like behind closed doors—especially when teens are involved?

In this powerful episode of Licensed to Love, Families Thrive’s Director of Program Services, Veronica Black-Turner sits down with seasoned foster parent Jeronda James for an honest, compassionate conversation about the realities of fostering in New York State.

Jeronda shares her lived experience opening her home to foster youth, navigating challenges with patience, advocacy, and heart—particularly when supporting teenagers who urgently need safe, loving homes. From managing daily routines and school placements to allowing emotional space for healing, this episode sheds light on what it truly takes to show up for children in care.

You’ll hear how ongoing support from Families Thrive makes a difference, why advocacy is non-negotiable, and how fostering—while challenging—can be deeply rewarding. Whether you’re considering foster care, currently fostering, or simply want to better understand the system, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and truth.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:

How patience and flexibility shape successful placements

The critical role foster parents play as advocates

How Families Thrive supports foster parents every step of the way

Why following your heart matters when considering fostering

🔗 Learn more about fostering and support services at

0:00 Jeronda James' Journey Into Foster Parenting With Families Thrive

5:50 Preparing for Foster Care as a Single Parent

7:47 School and Healthcare Placements

9:46 Creating a Welcoming Environment

16:35 Importance of Space and Listening

20:11 Challenges of Foster Parenting

30:35 Flexible Parenting Strategies for Traumatized Children

35:19 Fostering Love and Overcoming Challenges in Family Dynamics

42:00 Fostering Hope for Teens in the Foster Care System

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