A sermon preached by Rev. Ginger E.
Gaines-Cirelli at Foundry UMC November 1, 2015, All Saints Sunday.
Texts: Isaiah 25:6-9, John 11:32-44
Today’s Gospel is about a funeral, something we all
know something about. A beloved brother
and friend has died and the family and community has gathered for the rituals
of grief…in the midst of the casseroles and crying and storytelling and
remembering, there hangs the question that so often lurks at funerals—where was
God? Where was God when my loved one
suffered with tubes coming out of her nose, when my beloved fought for breath,
when the light of my life was wracked with pain, when this beautiful person was
so devastated by her mental illness that she chose to exit this world rather
than suffer any more, when the clot broke and moved into his brain, when my spouse’s
heart, so full of love, attacked and took him from me in an instant? If God had been here, this wouldn’t have
happened. Mary gives voice to this
deeply human response to death: “Lord,
if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” Those gathered in grief also mutter under
their breaths, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept
this man from dying?” Alongside these words, so often left unspoken except in
the deep recesses of the human heart, there are also words of hope and
faith. At funerals we hear words that
speak of God’s light and love, of God’s presence, of hope in the life to
come. Earlier in the story, Martha
speaks such a word of hope saying, “I know that Lazarus will rise again…” But
Mary, unlike Martha, can’t muster any words of faith or hope. She just cries.
In the midst of grief, the mixture of rage, confusion,
hope, emptiness, gratitude, regret, fear, faith, loneliness, and so much more
leaves us exhausted and numb as we try to adjust to a universe that has been
radically altered by our loss. A
beautiful prayer in the funeral liturgy of our church speaks of shrinking
before the mystery of death. And a
mystery it is. Suffering and death are
THE human mystery, the place before which all our best efforts and all our striving
reach their ultimate limit. How can we
not shrink before such a mystery? //
If you read the whole story, you discover that Jesus
knew that his friend Lazarus was gravely ill but purposely stayed where he was
for two more days—so that by the time he arrived in Bethany Lazarus had been
dead four days (11:6). But before we get
aggravated by this, thinking that Jesus must be an unfeeling cad, keep in mind
that this Gospel writer, John, is most concerned with telling the story of
Jesus in such a way that something about the nature of God is revealed. John is a theologian, not a historian. At the time John wrote, tradition taught that
the soul lingered near the body for three days, after which there was no hope
of life returning. Jesus waited to
arrive until the fourth day, until things were truly hopeless, when the full
impact of God’s power might be displayed. And upon seeing the deep grief of his beloved
friend Mary and of those who mourned with her, Jesus reveals one of the most
important things we will ever know about the heart of God. Far from being unfeeling, Jesus wept; his own
heart broke for the suffering of those around him. As Jesus cries, we learn that the God whom
Jesus came to reveal is not far removed from our pain and our grief. Our God shares our pain, weeps with us and is
deeply grieved by anything and everything that threatens human wholeness and
flourishing.
But the point of Jesus’ co