Sermon transcription:Today we are pausing our sermon series in 2 Corinthians. We
do this every year. We call it Vision Sunday. We reflect on where we’ve been
and where the elders and pastors feel like God is leading us. The immediate
question you may have is: What’s up with the rocks? We are in the Old Testament
today. Old Testament discipline style. No? Haha, well ok. Anyway, that is where
we are.
Let me tell you this story that I mentioned in the Four Oaks
weekly this week. When I was in seminary I took a pastoral counseling class.
Basically before they unleash you to counsel messed up people, they want you to
know how messed up you really are. Believe me, there is a lot of stuff there.
For part of this process they have you construct what is called a genogram. Not
be confused with the riveting family game, Jenga. Totally different thing. A
genogram is basically a physical representation of your family history and
lineage. It is not just an ancestral tree of all your long lost country
cousins, which, apparently, we have many that are barefooted in the east hills
of Tennessee. It is much more than that. It is actually a tool to utilize and
identify family relational patterns, problems, issues, and strengths. The goal
in constructing the genogram is to really make you more self aware about who
you are and where you come from. Not to dwell in it, not to live in it, but to
help you develop healthier patterns of relating in the future.
A couple of things really stood out as I journeyed down this
path of ancestral enlightenment. First, I had family members far and wide
across the fruited plains that filled these things out. Apparently they are
much more comfortable writing things down about the family than they are
actually saying them. As I’m reading these questionnaires, I’m realizing that
we are not going to be doing a genogram debrief at Thanksgiving this year. That
is not going to happen.
Secondly, despite all the issues that were uncovered in that
family exploration, which undoubtedly would be in yours or mine or any of our
families, one theme was strikingly clear. Out of all of this mess God has been
amazingly faithful. To bring spiritual life out of sinful humanity, it is an
amazing thing. I just sat there and looked at my dad’s line. None of these are
exaggerations, or maybe only slightly, but seriously. Living on a mountain, in
a shack, one step above deliverance and banjos, has an outhouse, shoots
squirrels for food, hitchhiking to work as a teenager, a hard life, and then
just seeing God miraculously and sovereignly save him so that he is the one
Christian in my family for an extended season while growing up. Just seeing how
God’s faithfulness, God’s will, God’s way prevails. I believe when we boil it
right down to its essence, the 26 years of Four Oaks can really be summed up in
that way. In the way my friend Kent Hamilton says it, “You know, in the end,
God wins.” God gets his way. I believe that when I reflect on these 26 years,
one of the things that God has given us by his grace is a unique capacity as a
church family to trust in his goodness and to walk in faith. We know he’s got
this. We know that he is faithful, that he is in control, that he is going to
have his way. So, today we are going to take a quick peek at the Four Oaks
genogram to help us understand where we have been, to help point us forward to
where we think God is leading us, and we are going to use Josh...