Message by Doug Bunnell, recorded live April 13, 2025 at First Presbyterian Church of Bellingham. Scripture read by Ozzie Lewis.
Kingdom Regrets
Don’t let life get in the way of Kingdom joy, embrace kingdom life above all.
- Why do you think humility is so important in the Kingdom of God?
- What does this passage reveal about God's heart for the marginalized and those who cannot repay us?
- In practical terms, what might it look like to “invite” those who cannot repay us in our churches, neighborhoods, or communities?
- What do the excuses of the invited guests (v. 18-20) reveal about their priorities? Why do they choose not to attend the banquet?
- How does the invitation to the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame demonstrate the inclusiveness of God's kingdom?
- How does the parable of the great banquet illustrate the nature of God’s grace and invitation?
- What "excuses" might we make today that prevent us from fully responding to God’s call?
- Are there areas where you tend to make excuses (like the invited guests in the parable) for not fully committing to God’s call on your life? What are they, and how can you overcome them?
Luke 14:7-237 When he noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, he told them a parable. 8 “When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by your host, 9 and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you, ‘Give this person your place,’ and then in disgrace you would start to take the lowest place. 10 But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher’; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. 11 For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
12 He said also to the one who had invited him, “When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers and sisters or your relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you would be repaid. 13 But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. 14 And you will be blessed because they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
15 One of the dinner guests, on hearing this, said to him, “Blessed is anyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!” 16 Then Jesus said to him, “Someone gave a great dinner and invited many. 17 At the time for the dinner he sent his slave to say to those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is ready now.’ 18 But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said to him, ‘I have bought a piece of land, and I must go out and see it; please accept my regrets.’ 19 Another said, ‘I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I am going to try them out; please accept my regrets.’ 20 Another said, ‘I have just been married, and therefore I cannot come.’ 21 So the slave returned and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and said to his slave, ‘Go out at once into the streets and lanes of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’ 22 And the slave said, ‘Sir, what you ordered has been done, and there is still room.’ 23 Then the master said to the slave, ‘Go out into the roads and lanes, and compel people to come in, so that my house may be filled.