Ghosting--we love to hate it. In the age of online swipe dating, most of us who date actively have at least one ghosting story. Which begs the question: how should we be defining ghosting? And what about ghosting's evil twin brothers, breadcrumbing and orbitting? In this episode, we take on the many controversial opinions on ghosting and how we can continue to navigate dating when the risk of ghosting lurks in the dark corners of the dating world. Do you say BOO to ghosting? Let us know in the comments!

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What is drop? Why do you need after care for it? Why is it important to discuss this before a scene? Wait, whats sub and dom space?? We discuss all of these questions in this episode! We talk about what sub and dom drop is, what can lead so drop and then the essentials to consider for after care to make sure you take care of yourself and others you are interacting with. This is commonly missed step but such a crucial step for mental and physical well being.

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SONG CREDITS: Opening song: Mystic by Jeff Kaale Ending credits: My Go Away Dream by Not The King

We are back with one of our favorite types of episodes where we respond to Facebook and Reddit post about BDSM or Non-Monogamy post that we have found. We give you our real thoughts, opinions and reaction's! 

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When you are non monogamous there are many times that you will be interacting with an established dynamic, be it in a dynamic where a single or solo person is dating a another person in an established relationship, or a person dating two people in a relationship or even two people who are both in established relationships dating each other. Entering into these dynamics can be challenging at best and confusing and scary at the worst if its not carefully entered into and handled appropriately. In this episode we talk about some of the ways to navigate these relationships and interactions to give you a solid foundation to build upon. 

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If you have ever been interested or intrigued by Shibari and rope bondage then this one is for you! We discuss the origins of the art form, safety measures to consider, best practices and even some alternative uses for Shibari as Trauma and Tension/Stress Release exercises.

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Letssss get ready to rummbbbllllleeee! In one corner we have lifestyle and in the other corner we have identity...let's watch them duke it out and see who comes out on top! Ok, so maybe it's not quite that dramatic but in our communities when discussing if Non-Monogamy is a lifestyle or an identify it can definitely feel like its that dramatic. This is a hot button topic that has been debated about for a while now and the debate seems to be growing deeper in recent years. We discuss in this episode what each term technically means, how it can be applied and where we think we fall in the "fight".

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SONG CREDITS: Opening song: Mystic by Jeff Kaale Ending credits: My Go Away Dream by Not The King

Sometimes the right compliment can put the sparkle in your eyes and the tingle between your thighs! In this episode, we get into what exactly a praise kink is, what the difference between having a praise kink and liking compliments is, how to know if YOU have a praise kink, and how to give praise in just the right way to make your partner come... to the realization that they have a praise kink!!

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SONG CREDITS:

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In this cute lil' mini-sode, we unpack new poly terms that we'd never heard before! Did you know there's a word for when a polycule wants all metas to be not only friends, but open to deeper connections with other members of the 'cule? Or how about for when you're dating parallel poly, but are open to spending holidays where other metas are present, without exactly needing everyone to be close? Get ready to level up your poly skills!

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Word on the street is some people are misusing Safe Words, or completely not using them at all... Um, FULL STOP! In this episode we clear up ANY confusion on who can use safe words, why a safe word can better than using "stop" or "no," nonverbal safe words, and red flags to look out for! Kink safely, friends!

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Living alternative lifestyles can be challenging--especially when it comes to nonmonogamy and kink lifestyles! But if you ask us, it's one of the MOST rewarding things you can do for yourself! In this episode we discuss the challenges we faced going public, the ups and downs, what it was like then and what it's like now! For our audio only listeners, we have a break down of what CJ was trying to say at 25:09 in the form of captions lol (also a sneak preview of Video-Editing CJ dropped somewhere in the video... but we're not telling where that one is!)

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