I am trying to figure out how to handle this one. This was from 2019 on a public social media post about myself and Eric. This was sent to me yesterday after connecting with an extended member of my family. This is regarding another member they felt overstepped themselves.
I'm not letting this one slide. Something I failed for over a decade was sticking up for myself... from the same toxicity, unhappy circle that projected that unhappiness and hate.
However, when you are that shallow of a human being, man and say something about my inability to realize motherhood. Knowing, I went through reproductive/infertility testing, surgeries to help me realize motherhood, and you are so arrogant to feel this is ok to post for extended family to read? This is beyond disturbing.
It just took that one extended family member, to see and read your post. They kept your public social media post until they felt I was in a good place, strong enough to contact me because they said, it was wrong.
You have daughters of your own. If you feel that free to play God, pretend you are a Christian and with the same breath, say something like this... is beyond disturbing. If you can say something so damn-right-cruel about anyone struggling with infertility, is not a Christian. You are not a good soul. Knowing what I went through to try realize motherhood, because I wanted to have children. Then you would have no problem saying the same about other women struggling with infertility. Even your own. Yes... that IS disturbing.
Folks, you can push people over the edge by taking it upon yourself to say and then post on public social media about something that should never be made fun of... in light of.
It takes years for many women and couples to emotionally heal from struggling with infertility. For some, it takes a lifetime to heal from never having the ability to realize being a parent. As for myself, it took me decades and a lot of hard work with therapy to heal from the greatest loss in my personal life. Not being able to be a mother.
Thank you for setting me back to that place that I worked so hard to heal. Thank you for taking me back to a dark place that I worked so hard to accept and set decades of loss, sadness... free.
You got the rest of your life to live with yourself. I hope the universe and karma is watching, and God does keep tabs. You should be ashamed of yourself. How disgusting! You are not a man. You are not even a human being to stoop to such a level to say such things towards any woman.
Because, I know you follow the podcast. As a step son, you had every right for this less than human being, to not interfere in private family matters between your father and your grandparents. You also have a right to spend quality time with me as you agreed with your father on the phone a few weeks ago. I listened to that phone call. Most importantly, I listened to you.
A motion is in process so you can finally as well, be free to have the right as now, a teenager to spend quality time with me. We will have and enjoy that icecream. If that also includes your father, we will handle that accordingly.
Adults should never hastily put their adult indifferences in between children. Adults should never use children as pawns, pay backs during adult indifference. Children have a God given right to spend time with their family. Their entire family.
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