What happens when the church you dedicate your life to turns out to be a cult? In this episode of Cult Diaries, I sit down with Elise Heerde, who courageously shares her story of growing up in and ultimately escaping the grip of an Australian Mega Church cult.

Elise opens up about the unraveling of belief, the painful process of uncovering the truth, and the courageous steps it took to finally break free. Together, we explore what it means to heal after religious trauma, how cult conditioning impacts the nervous system, and how reclaiming authenticity becomes the foundation for real freedom.

Elise Heerde (she/her) is a Certified Coach and qualified Mental Health Practitioner in Melbourne, Australia. She is the Co-founder of The Religious Trauma Collective, where she supports people recovering from religious trauma and cults. With both lived experience and professional training, Elise brings compassion, authenticity, and even a touch of sarcasm to her work — creating safe, judgment-free spaces filled with hope.

This conversation is for anyone who has ever questioned their faith, struggled with the aftermath of religious control, or is seeking the courage to heal and rebuild their life beyond indoctrination. Elise’s journey will inspire you to trust your inner knowing, reclaim your voice, and remember that freedom is always possible.

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