Sis… what if the delay in your love life isn’t God’s doing—but yours?

In this episode, we’re dismantling the faith-based excuses that keep women stuck in cycles of passivity, frustration, and disappointment. You’ll learn the difference between bold faith and inactive hope, why your strategy matters just as much as your prayers, and how to move from waiting to walking in alignment.

We’ll unpack the story of Esther, a woman who didn’t just pray for favor—she positioned herself for it. And I’ll give you the truth, tools, and tough love to help you stop hiding behind clichés and start winning at love.

🔥 If you’re ready to stop praying in circles and start preparing with purpose, this is your episode.
Plus, don’t miss the details on the Love Before Labor Day Challenge starting soon!

Sis… how long are you going to sit around “waiting on God” while doing absolutely nothing to prepare for what you’re praying for? 😅 In this table-shaking episode, I’m coming for all the played-out Christian dating clichés—“keep the faith,” “trust God’s timing,” “when you least expect it”—and giving you the truth: God’s timing isn’t random, but it does require your participation.

We’re digging into the psychology of passive waiting, the Bible’s blueprint for bold moves (Ruth and Esther weren’t just chillin’), and why some women are still single—and it has nothing to do with men. I’ll share dating coach insights, real talk, and a few gems from my book No More Lonely Nights, but the real invitation? It's time to take action and join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge. Early Bird ends soon, so don’t miss it.

🎯 This is Decision Week. Faith needs your feet to move.

📘 Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights
💥 Join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge now

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Loneliness has a way of turning up the volume on our fears, doubts, and desire for connection—sometimes so loud, it drowns out discernment. In this #NewMotivation episode, I’m taking you into the story of Leah in Genesis 29 to show how desperation for love can lead us to settle for the noise of attention instead of the substance of real connection. Sis, it's time to stop performing to be chosen and start posturing yourself in praise, purpose, and preparation.

This quick, 7-minute heart check will help you identify the places where you're settling out of fear, shift your focus back to God, and remind you that you are not forgotten—you’re being fortified.

Grab your journal, your favorite tea, and let’s go there.

Are you tired of lonely nights and wondering when your love story will finally begin?
In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives deep into the truth about loneliness, why it’s more dangerous than we realize, and how to turn this season into one of preparation, healing, and hope.

Loneliness isn’t just a feeling — it can quietly sabotage your standards, your heart, and your future if left unhealed.
Discover the real difference between singleness and loneliness, the hidden dangers loneliness creates, and how to work while you wait and prepare while you pray.

Coach Vee shares practical steps to heal emotional wounds, build a full life now, and position yourself for Kingdom love — not counterfeit connections.
You'll also hear a fresh take on Ruth’s story and how purpose, not pursuit, placed her exactly where God needed her to be.

If you're ready to move from lonely nights to purposeful preparation, this episode will meet you where you are and guide you to where you're called to be.

Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights and start building the life and love you deserve today!

Do you find yourself overthinking texts, getting attached too quickly, or pushing good men away? 👀 Sis, your attachment style might be the silent saboteur of your love life—and in this episode, we’re unpacking it all.

In this deep and eye-opening conversation, I break down:💔 What attachment styles really are and how they’re formed
💡 The three most common insecure styles and how they show up in dating
🛑 The hidden patterns that might be keeping you stuck
✨ 3 practical ways to shift into a secure, confident, and faith-aligned dater

You can break the cycle. You can prepare for real love. But first, you have to recognize what’s been blocking you.

Mentioned throughout the episode:
📖 No More Lonely Nights — my must-have book for healing, preparation, and building a foundation for a happy, healthy, holy relationship.

Grab your copy here

Sis, it’s time to change the game. If you’re tired of confusion, inconsistency, and wasting time on men who don’t align with your vision, this episode is for you! In today’s conversation, we’re diving into how to date smarter, not harder—how to stop ignoring red flags, protect your heart, and move with clarity and confidence.

I’m breaking down:
✅ The difference between passive dating vs. intentional dating
✅ Why so many women ignore red flags (and how to stop!)
✅ Emotional discipline and how to date without getting attached too soon
✅ The key mindset shifts to avoid toxic cycles and finally win at love

It’s time to date like a woman who knows her worth. No more wishful thinking—let’s get strategic.

💖 Ready to take your dating life to the next level? Enrollment for New Heart Academy is open! DM me “NHA” on Instagram or visit www.newthinglifecoaching.com/nha to join.

🎧 Press play, take notes, and let’s get you winning at love!

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Sis, let’s talk. If your dating life feels like a never-ending cycle of first dates that gonowhere, it’s time to make some changes!Attraction might get you a date, but it won’t keep you in the game. If men aren’t following up, if you’re constantly left on read, or if you can’t seem to get past date #1—this episode is for you!

In thispowerful, no-nonsense episode, I’m breaking down:
✅Why most first dates never lead to a second (and how to change that!)
✅The biggest mistakes women make on first dates that kill connection
✅How to stop treating dates like job interviews and create real chemistry
✅The psychology behind why men pursue or pass (this will shock you!)
✅Practical strategies to move beyond surface-level attraction and build deeper interest

✨ Plus, I’m spilling details onFriday’s MIT Training: Get a Date in 14 Days—so if you’re ready togo from waiting to dating, don’t miss this one!

🎯Ready to date with intention and win at love? Grab your copy ofNo More Lonely Nights!Chapter 15, "Get Out There," is your playbook for dating well and attracting the RIGHT man.Grab ithere!

🎧Listen now & let’s get your dating life moving in the right direction! 🚀💃🏽

🎙️ Sis, let’s talk… Are you tired of attracting the wrong men? Stuck in situationships that go nowhere? Wondering why your love life feels like a cycle of confusion and wasted time?

Here’s the hard truth: If you don’t have a clear love vision, you will keep attracting chaos, uncertainty, and heartbreak.

In this episode, I’m breaking down:

If you’re ready to stop wasting time and start attracting the RIGHT man, this episode is for you! And to help you take the next step, I’m giving you a FREE Relationship Blueprint template inside my Write the Vision Workshop so you can start this work tonight!

🚀 Listen now and take control of your love life!

🎯 Sign up for the FREE Write the Vision Workshop + Relationship Blueprint: www.newthinglifecoaching.com/workshop

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📢 Ladies, let’s talk about it—your love life starts with your relationship with God!

If you’re frustrated with dating, feeling stuck in cycles of disappointment, or wondering why things just aren’t working out, it’s time to shift your focus. In this episode, I’m breaking down why cultivating a strong relationship with God is the first step to winning at love and how inner peace leads to better decisions in dating.

🎙 Inside this episode, we’ll cover:
✔️ Why your love story starts with God, not a man
✔️ How seeking God first transforms the way you date and who you attract
✔️ The connection between inner peace, better boundaries, and stronger discernment
✔️ Practical ways to deepen your relationship with God in your single season

📖 Key Scripture: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you.

💡 Ready to break free from dating frustration and truly align with God’s best for your love life?
📚 Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights—inside, I walk you through the CONNECTION Flow Method, the 10 steps every Christian woman needs to find her person. Click the link in the show notes to get started!

👑 It’s time to stop chasing love and start dwelling in God’s love—because when you do, everything changes.

Tune in now! 🎧✨

In this episode, we’re diving deep into Godly feminine power and how tapping into your inner strength and spiritual gifts can transform your love life. As a Christian woman, you are uniquely designed with divine power that aligns with God’s purpose for your relationships.

Join me as I unpack:
✨ What it means to access and embrace your feminine essence.
✨ How to discover and utilize your spiritual gifts in dating and love.
✨ Practical ways to align your relationships with God’s will.

You’ll walk away with tools and encouragement to step into your power, cultivate purposeful love, and reflect God’s glory in your relationships.

Want to go deeper? Tune in to tomorrow’s live training in The SAS Tribe called Power of She, or check out New Heart Academy for the transformational Power of She: Accessing Your Assets course.

Don’t miss this powerful conversation—it’s time to unleash the woman God created you to be!