Why do you keep attracting the same type of man—the one who leaves you hurt, drained, or questioning your worth? In this episode, Coach Vee unpacks how unresolved trauma quietly dictates your dating patterns. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with chaos, trauma can make unhealthy relationships feel familiar. But there’s good news—healing breaks the cycle. Tune in to discover the signs your love life is being run by old wounds and the steps you can take to finally choose differently.

If you’re tired of going in circles and ready to heal your heart, join me for the upcoming Stop the Trauma Workshop. Details inside. 💙

You’ve been praying for love… but are you positioned for it?

In this hard-hitting episode, Coach Vee (The New Love Strategist) breaks down why prayer alone isn’t enough to see results in your dating life — and what “faith in action” really looks like.

If you’ve ever wondered why love hasn’t found you yet (even though you love God and live right), this episode will challenge and empower you to shift from passively waiting to purposefully preparing.

✅ The faith trap that keeps women stuck in singleness✅ What positioning actually looks like (biblically and practically)✅ How to align your beliefs, behavior, and strategy to receive the relationship you’ve been praying for

This is the dating strategy the church never taught you...but you need now.

Sis, it’s not you—it’s the pool.

In this episode, Coach Vee is breaking down the real reason dating feels harder than ever—and why emotionally healthy, commitment-ready women keep getting stuck in cycles of disappointment.

You’ll learn:

• Why modern dating isn’t set up for Kingdom connections

• How the broken dating system is affecting your confidence, trust, and emotional health

• The 7 signs you’ve outgrown the dating pool

• What it means to date with strategy, not just hope

• Why matchmaking may be your next move

If you're tired of guessing, over swiping, and done with "seeing where it goes"—this one is for you.

💘 Apply for matchmaking or get support with your dating strategy here.
Because love still exists—you just need a better way to find it.

Sis… it’s time to talk about the real reason you’ve been saying yes to sex you didn’t want.

In this raw and redemptive episode of Freedom Reigns, we’re pulling back the covers—literally and spiritually—to explore how trauma, abandonment, shame, and self-worth wounds have shaped your sexual decisions. This isn’t just a purity convo or an abstinence reminder. This is about your healing, your nervous system, your heart, and your sovereignty.

Whether you’ve struggled with feeling used, performative sex, or silent regret after the fact… this one is for you.

🎧 Tune in as I unpack:

• Why some women feel emotionally unsafe saying “no”

• How shame and trauma condition you to “fawn” instead of protect your peace

• The connection between self-love and healthy sexual boundaries

• How to reclaim your body, your worth, and your voice—without guilt

• The power of sexual sovereignty and what God really wants for you

🔗 Mentioned in this episode:
✨ Ascend21: The 21-Day Self-Love Challenge ✨ Stop the Trauma Workshop

Sis, your body is sacred. Your voice is enough. And your yes is worth protecting.
Hit play—and let’s redefine your sexual self, together. 💕
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Sis… what if the real reason your dating life feels off isn’t the men — but your mental, emotional, and physical state?

In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee dives deep into why your wellbeing is the foundation of your love life. If you’re constantly tired, anxious, or feeling “off,” yet still trying to show up for love, this is your wake-up call.

We’ll unpack:

• How self-neglect silently sabotages dating and relationships

• The difference between dating from overflow vs. survival

• Why settling, over-attaching, and ignoring red flags all stem from how you feel about you

• Real steps to reset your health, habits, and heart

• How to shift from depletion to divine alignment

This episode is raw, wise, and loaded with truth that’ll help you heal, reset, and date like the woman you really are.

🎧 Listen now.
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Sis, if you keep dating the same man with a different name—or finding yourself in cycles of confusion, disrespect, or situationships—it might not be a them problem. It might be a self-love problem. 💔

In this table-shaking episode, Coach Vee breaks down the deep connection between self-love and your dating patterns. You’ll learn why the love you give yourself determines the love you’re willing to accept, how trauma shapes attraction, and the science behind why peace can feel “boring” if you’ve been wired for chaos.

She unpacks biblical truth, psychological insight, and jaw-dropping statistics that’ll have you rethinking everything—from your past relationships to your current standards.

And if this episode hits your core? Then it’s time to join Ascend21, the 21-day self-love challenge starting June 30th. You’ll detox your heart, activate your worth, and become the woman who attracts Kingdom love without chasing it.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and take your power back.

Are you using discernment—or just defending yourself from disappointment?

In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down the real meaning of dating with discernment and why so many women unknowingly sabotage healthy love while trying to guard their hearts. From calling fear “a check in your spirit” to confusing consistency with control, we’re getting real about how trauma, fear, and unhealed wounds disguise themselves as wisdom.

You’ll learn:

• The difference between discernment and defensiveness

• How to recognize when your “intuition” is actually insecurity

• The 5 keys to using discernment wisely in your love life

• Why healing is essential before you can date with clarity

This one’s part heart check, part love strategy—and it’s going to shift how you navigate dating from this moment forward.

🎯 Ready to date with clarity and confidence? Grab the 3D7T mini-course for just $9 or inquire about the Breakout coaching experience.

Sis… what if the delay in your love life isn’t God’s doing—but yours?

In this episode, we’re dismantling the faith-based excuses that keep women stuck in cycles of passivity, frustration, and disappointment. You’ll learn the difference between bold faith and inactive hope, why your strategy matters just as much as your prayers, and how to move from waiting to walking in alignment.

We’ll unpack the story of Esther, a woman who didn’t just pray for favor—she positioned herself for it. And I’ll give you the truth, tools, and tough love to help you stop hiding behind clichés and start winning at love.

🔥 If you’re ready to stop praying in circles and start preparing with purpose, this is your episode.
Plus, don’t miss the details on the Love Before Labor Day Challenge starting soon!

Sis… how long are you going to sit around “waiting on God” while doing absolutely nothing to prepare for what you’re praying for? 😅 In this table-shaking episode, I’m coming for all the played-out Christian dating clichés—“keep the faith,” “trust God’s timing,” “when you least expect it”—and giving you the truth: God’s timing isn’t random, but it does require your participation.

We’re digging into the psychology of passive waiting, the Bible’s blueprint for bold moves (Ruth and Esther weren’t just chillin’), and why some women are still single—and it has nothing to do with men. I’ll share dating coach insights, real talk, and a few gems from my book No More Lonely Nights, but the real invitation? It's time to take action and join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge. Early Bird ends soon, so don’t miss it.

🎯 This is Decision Week. Faith needs your feet to move.

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💥 Join the Love Before Labor Day Challenge now

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Loneliness has a way of turning up the volume on our fears, doubts, and desire for connection—sometimes so loud, it drowns out discernment. In this #NewMotivation episode, I’m taking you into the story of Leah in Genesis 29 to show how desperation for love can lead us to settle for the noise of attention instead of the substance of real connection. Sis, it's time to stop performing to be chosen and start posturing yourself in praise, purpose, and preparation.

This quick, 7-minute heart check will help you identify the places where you're settling out of fear, shift your focus back to God, and remind you that you are not forgotten—you’re being fortified.

Grab your journal, your favorite tea, and let’s go there.