You can pray for love, want love, and even meet a good man — but if your heart is still wounded, you’ll struggle to receive it. In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives into the psychology and science of emotional pain, revealing how heartbreak, divorce, and disappointment rewire your patterns, shape your choices, and affect the kind of love you attract.

Through raw truth and biblical insight from Ephesians 4:31-32, you’ll learn how bitterness, fear, and self-protection can quietly block your blessings — and what it really takes to heal, renew your heart, and open up to healthy, Kingdom-aligned love.

💙 Inside this conversation, Coach Vee shares the steps to emotional healing and explains how the Heart Matters course inside New Heart Academy guides women through practical, faith-based transformation.

If you’re ready to stop repeating cycles and start healing intentionally, this episode is your roadmap to freedom, faith, and love restored.

Fear can feel like protection, but in reality, it’s blocking the very thing you’ve been praying for: love. In this episode, Coach Vee gets real about how heartbreak, betrayal, and wasted time create hidden fears that keep you guarded, bitter, and unavailable—even when your heart desires marriage.

You’ll learn:

• The most common fears that keep women stuck after heartbreak.

• How unhealed pain rewires your mind and sabotages your love life.

• Why time alone doesn’t heal fear—and what actually does.

• Practical steps to move from fear to faith so you can embrace redemptive love.

Your past does not disqualify you from a beautiful future in love. It’s time to break free from fear and position yourself for the love story God still has for you.

💙 Ready to stop letting fear dictate your love life? Learn how inside New Heart Academy → www.thenewlovecollective.com/nha

Is it possible that your own heart is the very thing blocking the love you’ve been praying for? 💔

In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee unpacks how unhealed pain, bitterness, fear, and shame can sabotage your dating life and keep you stuck in cycles with the wrong men. You’ll discover the signs that your heart needs renewing, the ways unhealed women unknowingly hold their love life hostage, and the transformational shifts healed women make that change everything.

With biblical wisdom, psychology, and real-life stories, this episode will challenge and inspire you to finally deal with the roots, not just the surface. Because the truth is simple: healed women date differently.

✨ What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How bitterness, fear, and shame show up in dating

• The difference between tactics and transformation

• Signs your heart is blocking your love life

• Practical steps to begin renewing your heart today

If this resonated, don’t miss my live workshop Stop the Trauma, happening this Saturday at noon. It’s your chance to release pain, heal deeply, and reset your heart for real love. Replay available for registrants only + includes my Healing Journal.

➡️ Register now and take your first step toward healed love.

Why are so many Christian marriages struggling—and even ending early? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee breaks down the hidden reasons believers keep dating poorly and rushing into marriage unprepared. From unhealed wounds and insecurity to fear, loneliness, and spiritual immaturity, we’ll uncover what’s really sabotaging relationships and how you can break the cycle.

💙 You’ll learn:

• The dangers of dating from fear instead of faith

• Why marriage is not a “badge of honor” but a lifelong assignment

• How psychology, scripture, and healing intersect when it comes to love

• The keys to true readiness for the love and marriage you’ve been praying for

Sis, it’s time to stop letting fear and pressure dictate your love life. Get ready to heal, reset, and position yourself for kingdom love that lasts.

📌 Ready to do the work? Take the Relationship Readiness Assessment and then join me inside New Heart Academy today.

Why do you keep attracting the same type of man—the one who leaves you hurt, drained, or questioning your worth? In this episode, Coach Vee unpacks how unresolved trauma quietly dictates your dating patterns. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with chaos, trauma can make unhealthy relationships feel familiar. But there’s good news—healing breaks the cycle. Tune in to discover the signs your love life is being run by old wounds and the steps you can take to finally choose differently.

If you’re tired of going in circles and ready to heal your heart, join me for the upcoming Stop the Trauma Workshop. Details inside. 💙

You’ve been praying for love… but are you positioned for it?

In this hard-hitting episode, Coach Vee (The New Love Strategist) breaks down why prayer alone isn’t enough to see results in your dating life — and what “faith in action” really looks like.

If you’ve ever wondered why love hasn’t found you yet (even though you love God and live right), this episode will challenge and empower you to shift from passively waiting to purposefully preparing.

✅ The faith trap that keeps women stuck in singleness✅ What positioning actually looks like (biblically and practically)✅ How to align your beliefs, behavior, and strategy to receive the relationship you’ve been praying for

This is the dating strategy the church never taught you...but you need now.

Sis, it’s not you—it’s the pool.

In this episode, Coach Vee is breaking down the real reason dating feels harder than ever—and why emotionally healthy, commitment-ready women keep getting stuck in cycles of disappointment.

You’ll learn:

• Why modern dating isn’t set up for Kingdom connections

• How the broken dating system is affecting your confidence, trust, and emotional health

• The 7 signs you’ve outgrown the dating pool

• What it means to date with strategy, not just hope

• Why matchmaking may be your next move

If you're tired of guessing, over swiping, and done with "seeing where it goes"—this one is for you.

💘 Apply for matchmaking or get support with your dating strategy here.
Because love still exists—you just need a better way to find it.

Sis… it’s time to talk about the real reason you’ve been saying yes to sex you didn’t want.

In this raw and redemptive episode of Freedom Reigns, we’re pulling back the covers—literally and spiritually—to explore how trauma, abandonment, shame, and self-worth wounds have shaped your sexual decisions. This isn’t just a purity convo or an abstinence reminder. This is about your healing, your nervous system, your heart, and your sovereignty.

Whether you’ve struggled with feeling used, performative sex, or silent regret after the fact… this one is for you.

🎧 Tune in as I unpack:

• Why some women feel emotionally unsafe saying “no”

• How shame and trauma condition you to “fawn” instead of protect your peace

• The connection between self-love and healthy sexual boundaries

• How to reclaim your body, your worth, and your voice—without guilt

• The power of sexual sovereignty and what God really wants for you

🔗 Mentioned in this episode:
✨ Ascend21: The 21-Day Self-Love Challenge ✨ Stop the Trauma Workshop

Sis, your body is sacred. Your voice is enough. And your yes is worth protecting.
Hit play—and let’s redefine your sexual self, together. 💕
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Sis… what if the real reason your dating life feels off isn’t the men — but your mental, emotional, and physical state?

In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee dives deep into why your wellbeing is the foundation of your love life. If you’re constantly tired, anxious, or feeling “off,” yet still trying to show up for love, this is your wake-up call.

We’ll unpack:

• How self-neglect silently sabotages dating and relationships

• The difference between dating from overflow vs. survival

• Why settling, over-attaching, and ignoring red flags all stem from how you feel about you

• Real steps to reset your health, habits, and heart

• How to shift from depletion to divine alignment

This episode is raw, wise, and loaded with truth that’ll help you heal, reset, and date like the woman you really are.

🎧 Listen now.
💻 Join the Ascend21 challenge: Here
📞 Book a Love Transformation Meet-Up: Here

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Sis, if you keep dating the same man with a different name—or finding yourself in cycles of confusion, disrespect, or situationships—it might not be a them problem. It might be a self-love problem. 💔

In this table-shaking episode, Coach Vee breaks down the deep connection between self-love and your dating patterns. You’ll learn why the love you give yourself determines the love you’re willing to accept, how trauma shapes attraction, and the science behind why peace can feel “boring” if you’ve been wired for chaos.

She unpacks biblical truth, psychological insight, and jaw-dropping statistics that’ll have you rethinking everything—from your past relationships to your current standards.

And if this episode hits your core? Then it’s time to join Ascend21, the 21-day self-love challenge starting June 30th. You’ll detox your heart, activate your worth, and become the woman who attracts Kingdom love without chasing it.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and take your power back.