If you’ve ever asked, “Where are the good men?” …this episode is the reset you didn’t know you needed.

Today, we’re unpacking what truly makes a man qualified for partnership — not by culture’s standards, but through the lens of emotional intelligence, spiritual maturity, psychological readiness, and healed discernment.

You’ll learn the difference between males, men, and MVPs…
why healed women experience a completely different caliber of men…
what intentional, purpose-driven men actually look for…
and how your own emotional world influences who you attract, entertain, and keep.

We’ll talk science.
We’ll talk Scripture.
We’ll deal with patterns, nervous system habits, misguided attraction, emotional regulation, and the spiritual principles God uses to prepare BOTH partners for healthy love.

And by the end, you’ll understand a truth most women never reach:
It’s not that good men don’t exist — it’s that the version of you choosing them matters.

If you’re ready to upgrade your discernment, shift your patterns, and align with the kind of man who brings clarity, peace, consistency, and purpose… this episode is your turning point.

💙 Ready to begin your transformation? Book your Love Transformation Meet-Up and let’s map out your next season.

Coach Vee is back on stage with her sister, Kristie Love, for a no-holds-barred reunion of their hit segment “Fleshly Speaking.” This live recording from the Coastal Carolina Fair pulls back the curtain on one of the biggest questions in modern dating: why men don’t commit — and why women keep falling for the ones who won’t.

From biblical truths to blunt real talk, the sisters dive into both sides of the story — what’s happening in the minds of men, what women often overlook, and how both faith and flesh play a part in our relationship patterns.

You’ll laugh, nod, and maybe cringe a little as they unpack:
💙 The difference between fear of commitment and lack of readiness
💙 Why good women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men
💙 How peace—not pressure—moves a man toward commitment
💙 What healed men actually want in a woman
💙 The hard truth about what your “type” might be costing you

This episode isn’t about blaming men or bashing women — it’s about exposing the patterns that keep us stuck and rediscovering what Kingdom love really requires.

🎧 Grab your notebook (and maybe a glass of tea) — this one’s funny, fiery, and full of freedom.

So many women think God's withholding a good man from them — when really, they have unhealed father wounds shaping their dating choices.

In this transformational episode, Coach Vee unpacks the psychology and spirituality behind the father wound — how emotional absence and inconsistent love create the anxious or fearful-avoidant patterns that quietly sabotage relationships.

You’ll learn:
💙 What father wounds actually are and how they show up in modern dating.
💙 The difference between anxious and fearful-avoidant attachment styles.
💙 How “Broken Home Syndrome” and generational trauma shape who you’re drawn to.
💙 Why God’s design for healing involves re-parenting your heart through His love.

This one is deep, convicting, and freeing all at once. Because when you heal the daughter, the woman can finally rise.

✨ Ready to go deeper in your healing journey?
Begin inside New Heart Academy — the 6-month program for women ready to renew, realign, and experience Kingdom love.

You can pray for love, want love, and even meet a good man — but if your heart is still wounded, you’ll struggle to receive it. In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives into the psychology and science of emotional pain, revealing how heartbreak, divorce, and disappointment rewire your patterns, shape your choices, and affect the kind of love you attract.

Through raw truth and biblical insight from Ephesians 4:31-32, you’ll learn how bitterness, fear, and self-protection can quietly block your blessings — and what it really takes to heal, renew your heart, and open up to healthy, Kingdom-aligned love.

💙 Inside this conversation, Coach Vee shares the steps to emotional healing and explains how the Heart Matters course inside New Heart Academy guides women through practical, faith-based transformation.

If you’re ready to stop repeating cycles and start healing intentionally, this episode is your roadmap to freedom, faith, and love restored.

Fear can feel like protection, but in reality, it’s blocking the very thing you’ve been praying for: love. In this episode, Coach Vee gets real about how heartbreak, betrayal, and wasted time create hidden fears that keep you guarded, bitter, and unavailable—even when your heart desires marriage.

You’ll learn:

• The most common fears that keep women stuck after heartbreak.

• How unhealed pain rewires your mind and sabotages your love life.

• Why time alone doesn’t heal fear—and what actually does.

• Practical steps to move from fear to faith so you can embrace redemptive love.

Your past does not disqualify you from a beautiful future in love. It’s time to break free from fear and position yourself for the love story God still has for you.

💙 Ready to stop letting fear dictate your love life? Learn how inside New Heart Academy → www.thenewlovecollective.com/nha

Is it possible that your own heart is the very thing blocking the love you’ve been praying for? 💔

In this episode of Freedom Reigns, Coach Vee unpacks how unhealed pain, bitterness, fear, and shame can sabotage your dating life and keep you stuck in cycles with the wrong men. You’ll discover the signs that your heart needs renewing, the ways unhealed women unknowingly hold their love life hostage, and the transformational shifts healed women make that change everything.

With biblical wisdom, psychology, and real-life stories, this episode will challenge and inspire you to finally deal with the roots, not just the surface. Because the truth is simple: healed women date differently.

✨ What you’ll learn in this episode:

• How bitterness, fear, and shame show up in dating

• The difference between tactics and transformation

• Signs your heart is blocking your love life

• Practical steps to begin renewing your heart today

If this resonated, don’t miss my live workshop Stop the Trauma, happening this Saturday at noon. It’s your chance to release pain, heal deeply, and reset your heart for real love. Replay available for registrants only + includes my Healing Journal.

➡️ Register now and take your first step toward healed love.

Why are so many Christian marriages struggling—and even ending early? In this powerful episode, Coach Vee breaks down the hidden reasons believers keep dating poorly and rushing into marriage unprepared. From unhealed wounds and insecurity to fear, loneliness, and spiritual immaturity, we’ll uncover what’s really sabotaging relationships and how you can break the cycle.

💙 You’ll learn:

• The dangers of dating from fear instead of faith

• Why marriage is not a “badge of honor” but a lifelong assignment

• How psychology, scripture, and healing intersect when it comes to love

• The keys to true readiness for the love and marriage you’ve been praying for

Sis, it’s time to stop letting fear and pressure dictate your love life. Get ready to heal, reset, and position yourself for kingdom love that lasts.

📌 Ready to do the work? Take the Relationship Readiness Assessment and then join me inside New Heart Academy today.

Why do you keep attracting the same type of man—the one who leaves you hurt, drained, or questioning your worth? In this episode, Coach Vee unpacks how unresolved trauma quietly dictates your dating patterns. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with chaos, trauma can make unhealthy relationships feel familiar. But there’s good news—healing breaks the cycle. Tune in to discover the signs your love life is being run by old wounds and the steps you can take to finally choose differently.

If you’re tired of going in circles and ready to heal your heart, join me for the upcoming Stop the Trauma Workshop. Details inside. 💙

You’ve been praying for love… but are you positioned for it?

In this hard-hitting episode, Coach Vee (The New Love Strategist) breaks down why prayer alone isn’t enough to see results in your dating life — and what “faith in action” really looks like.

If you’ve ever wondered why love hasn’t found you yet (even though you love God and live right), this episode will challenge and empower you to shift from passively waiting to purposefully preparing.

✅ The faith trap that keeps women stuck in singleness✅ What positioning actually looks like (biblically and practically)✅ How to align your beliefs, behavior, and strategy to receive the relationship you’ve been praying for

This is the dating strategy the church never taught you...but you need now.

Sis, it’s not you—it’s the pool.

In this episode, Coach Vee is breaking down the real reason dating feels harder than ever—and why emotionally healthy, commitment-ready women keep getting stuck in cycles of disappointment.

You’ll learn:

• Why modern dating isn’t set up for Kingdom connections

• How the broken dating system is affecting your confidence, trust, and emotional health

• The 7 signs you’ve outgrown the dating pool

• What it means to date with strategy, not just hope

• Why matchmaking may be your next move

If you're tired of guessing, over swiping, and done with "seeing where it goes"—this one is for you.

💘 Apply for matchmaking or get support with your dating strategy here.
Because love still exists—you just need a better way to find it.