FOREVER 30: Raised Independent. Living Free. GenX Mental Health - Self Love - Relationships w/ Tanya Tecce

FOREVER 30: Raised Independent. Living Free. GenX Mental Health - Self Love - Relationships w/ Tanya Tecce

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FOREVER 30: Raised Independent. Living Free. GenX Mental Health - Self Love - Relationships w/ Tanya Tecce episodes

  • EP. 12 - THIS is Why You're STILL Stuck and How to Get Free FAST…

    Here's The Transformation Method You Haven't Tried Yet (But Must)… Take a LISTEN 🎧 NOW to learn how to go from an anxious, overwhelmed, empathic woman that is second-guessing yourself …to a balanced, joyful, centered woman that TRUSTS Yourself instead 🙌🏼

    Most people try to change their lives at the level of willpower or mindset—and wonder why they end up back in the same loops. In this episode, I reveal how my work goes deeper: alchemizing your subconscious patterns at the level of behavior, belief, identity, cultural conditioning, ancestral imprints, and even karmic codes.

    I'll show you why tools like parts work and timeline work are game-changers for rapid transformation—and how they take you from endlessly reacting to finally alchemizing every experience into fuel for your future.

    You'll hear real examples of clients who:

    ✨ Went from frozen in fear to launching with ease

    ✨ Released cultural money stories and had their biggest months ever

    ✨ Broke free from ancestral survival programming

    ✨ Collapsed karmic loops to finally create healthy relationships

    ✨ Stopped spiraling in reaction and learned to transmute challenges instantly

    This isn't mindset coaching. This is identity-level alchemy. And it's why investing your time in this work isn't optional—it's essential if you want to live, lead, and create as your fully expressed self.

    Hit play, and let's shift you into the version of you who's already free.

    Want to feel the shift starting right now? Take my free empath quiz and see what's already waiting for you on the other side of overwhelm:

    ➜ https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    Your nervous system was never broken. It's simply been waiting for you to remember the reset button was always in your hands 🗡️

    The time you make to take this quiz and its insights in …is where your power begins 🌟

    💕RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    ✅ Find out What Type of Empath are You (and What to do About It) here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    ✅ Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/dgi9FElc84g?si=djQYn9dsC8Nn588C

    ✅ Subscribe to this FREEDOM podcast 🎙️

    ✅ For those of you ready to dive into the full-on treasure hunt now, the link to more info and enrollment for the FIND YOUR PEACE course is here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you, and what you say may help someone else.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🌟And We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    18 min
  • EP. 11 - The 4 Attachment Styles of Love & How Yours is Causing You Anxiety & Affecting Your Relationships…

    In this very special episode, attachment expert Jessica Da Silva and I discuss the attachment styles and how yours is affecting your relationships …and one precious life.

    But we don't leave you hanging there...

    Crack a whole new world of possibilities open for yourself, your life and your loved ones when you learn about the styles, then take the free quizzes—and your newfound understanding—into your next chapter of empowerment and transformation.

    My clients and I are so thankful to God to have found the life transforming tools and resources to heal anxiety permanently, and naturally…

    Take a LISTEN 🎧 NOW to learn how to go from an anxious, overwhelmed, empathic woman that is second-guessing yourself …to a balanced, joyful, centered woman that TRUSTS Yourself instead 🙌🏼

    ▶️RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    ✅ Find out What Type of Empath are You (and What to do About It) here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    ✅ Find out What Your Attachment Style here: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5f3aea91a16a480026d847cd

    ✅ Don't Miss out on these very special free gifts! And comment below - what type are you?

    ✅ Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/bvma1SLOuVc?si=cCasJgLpZOXaH8Pa

    ✅ Subscribe to this FREEDOM podcast 🎙️

    For those of you ready to dive into the full on treasure hunt now, the link to more info and enrollment for the FIND YOUR PEACE course is here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

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    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🌟And We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    1 hr
  • EP. 10 - How to Chill OUT w/o Medicating or Moving to a Monastery (You don't need a pill, you need this podcast...)

    Do you know that as a highly sensitive woman, you can literally become OVERWHELMED and your nervous system can short circuit by feeling too many sensations surge thru you all at once?⚡️

    This is one of the roots of your anxiety, stress and panic.

    🔌 In this podcast I teach you 8 of my go-to nervous system soothers (from my online course's reference library called Your Self Care Ritual Menu), so you too will have at least these resources in your pocket to soothe your nervous system, ease panic and offload all that extra energy easily.

    📝 This list is filled with great tools that do your nervous system wonders. (Think of them as grounding outlets that you would have in your kitchen or bathroom or a fusebox that gives out so the entire house doesn't short circuit, except this is for your body 😀)

    Also …make sure you take the quick 7 question free quiz at this link https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz to crack a whole new world open on how YOUR individual nerves get fried out ⚡️ AND what to do about it RIGHT AWAY

    🔌 Whether you are an over giver, over thinker, emotional sponge or soul survivor you'll finish this quick 7 question quiz with insight that YOU DON'T HAVE IN THIS MOMENT YET and an antidote as a solution. So go ahead and find out just what type of empath and what to do about it here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    Medication can help the symptoms subside, but masks the roots 🌳

    The true causes then have the opportunity to land and settle in your body ...exhibiting as neck and back pain, headaches, foggy thinking, ear ringing, stomach issues, hair loss, weight gain (or loss) and poor sleep (to name just a few).

    How do I know? Because I ate all that for breakfast for years...

    I am so thankful to God that I found the life transforming tools and resources to heal anxiety permanently, and naturally…

    Take a LISTEN 🎧 NOW to learn how to go from an anxious, overwhelmed, empathic woman that is second-guessing yourself …to a balanced, joyful, centered woman that TRUSTS Yourself instead 🙌🏼

    ▶️And do NOT miss your action steps at the end of this training audio.

    The Free Quiz I mention (What Type of Empath Am I?) is linked here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    Remember to click subscribe to the FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ while you're here!

    For those of you ready to dive into the full on treasure hunt now, the link to more info and enrollment for the FIND YOUR PEACE course is here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🌟And We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    27 min
  • EP. 09 - What Unresolved Anxiety and Panic is COSTING you. And what to do about it...

    Just for starters, unresolved anxiety and panic is costing you the precious once in a lifetime moments with your family, children and friends, straining your relationships...

    It costs you your quality of life - whether it's being able to be truly present for your loved ones, or drive across bridges...

    It distracts you from your work, and clouds your focus.

    Medication can help the symptoms subside, but masks the roots 🌳

    The true causes then have the opportunity to land and settle in your body ...exhibiting as neck and back pain, headaches, foggy thinking, ear ringing, stomach issues, hair loss, weight gain (or loss) and poor sleep (to name just a few).

    How do I know? Because I ate all that for breakfast for years...

    I am so thankful to God that I found the life transforming tools and resources to heal anxiety permanently, and naturally…

    Take a LISTEN 🎧 NOW to learn how to go from an anxious, overwhelmed, empathic woman that is second-guessing yourself …to a balanced, joyful, centered woman that TRUSTS Yourself instead 🙌🏼

    ▶️And do NOT miss your 2 action steps at the end of this training audio.

    The Free Quiz I mention (What Type of Empath Am I?) is linked here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    And don't forget to click subscribe to the FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ while you're here!

    #empath #anxiety #peace #peaceofmind #joy #ancestralhealing #itendswithus #oldsoul #anxietyfree #innerpeace #innerchild #mindfuljoy #BreakTheCycle #HealingJourney #genx

    For those of you ready to dive into the full on treasure hunt now, the link to more info and enrollment for the FIND YOUR PEACE course is here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🌟And We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    38 min
  • EP. 08 - How You Go From an Anxious, Overwhelmed, Empathic Woman that is Second Guessing Yourself ...to a Balanced, Joyful, Centered Woman that TRUSTS Yourself

    😵‍💫 How you go from an anxious, overwhelmed, empathic woman that is second-guessing yourself …to a balanced, joyful, centered woman that TRUSTS Yourself 🙌🏼

    LISTEN 🎧 NOW to solutions that apply today, more than ever.

    One of the ways we do this is thru my curriculum for FIND YOUR PEACE, taking you thru 8 steps that totally clean up your foundation and roots to get you ready to fly so it can actually be SAFE for your nervous system for you to get what you want (because, HINT: it's NOT right now or you'd already have it).

    I talk about the 8 steps to achieve this in this episode.

    To get a quick start right now, you can download the Free Quiz I mention (What Type of Empath Am I?) here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    And for those of you ready to dive into the full on treasure hunt now, the link to more info and enrollment for the FIND YOUR PEACE course is here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    And don't forget to click subscribe to my brand new FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ here

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🌟And We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    18 min
  • EP. 07 - This Goes Sooo Much Deeper Than Therapy...

    LISTEN 🎧 NOW to solutions that apply today, more than ever.

    And don't forget to click subscribe to my brand new FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ here

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    We dive deep into conversation and are part of a movement shifting the consciousness about mental health in this country.

    If you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    We are the Ones we've been waiting for.

    🌟The link to the free quiz mentioned in this episode is: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/quiz

    See you on the inside ... 💜Tanya

    18 min
  • EP. 06 - How Your Mental & Physical Health are Being Harmed by Weather Manipulation with Pennsylvania Senator Doug Mastriano - PLUS! Your NEXT Level of Freedom, Empowerment & Nervous System Regulation w/ Action Steps

    In this interview I share another level of your mental and physical health and empowerment, nervous system regulation and individual, community, cultural, ancestral and karmic healing in a discussion about Senate Bill 508 - the Clean Air Preservation Act - with Pennsylvania Senator Doug Mastriano.

    We talk about how important moving this bill out of committee is to improving not only your and your loved ones, (and animals') physical health, but your MENTAL and EMOTIONAL health as well.

    This discussion is for everyone, from every "side." If you're human, this is for you. If you have a beloved pet or animal, this is for them too! Plants, insects, everything. This is for every living creature.

    I am talking about your Physical Health, Mental Health & Empowerment. LISTEN 🎧 NOW to solutions that apply today, more than ever, and don't forget to subscribe to my brand new FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ here

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    On the macro level, we've all been thru a transformative crucible the last five years that could make or break you; on the micro level some of you even longer than that.

    And for anyone not yet convinced that geoengineering, cloudseeding and weather maniputlation is a "real" issue, I invite you to listen to the full interview and read thru the cited sources below. Then check in with your gut. It's one of those things that once you see it, you won't be able to unsee it; and in hindsight it will seem silly that anyone ever doubted it.

    "All truth passes through three stages: First, it is ridiculed; second, it is violently opposed; and third, it is accepted as self-evident." - Arthur Schopenhauer

    We dove deep into conversation and are part of a movement shifting the consciousness about mental health and mental empowerment in this country.

    And if you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, and live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    ☀️ ACTION STEPS TO GET SB508 MOVED OUT OF COMMITTEE - We can get at least 100 of us, right?

    1. Call your state Senators - enter your address here to find out who and their contact info: https://www.palegis.us/find-my-legislator

    2. Call the Agricultural Committee Chair - Senator Elder Vogel Jr and respectfully urge him to run the clean air bill. If his office or rep says they are supportive but they have a few concerns with the bill, politely ask what are those concerns? ASK QUESTIONS. And KEEP POLITELY ASKING THEM.

    Senator Vogel's contact info follows…

    * Email address - [email protected]

    * Contact form - https://www.senatoreldervogel.com/contact-me/

    * Rochester District Office - Primary phone: (724) 774-0444 (Rochester address - 488 Adams St. Rochester, PA 15074-1940. Monday-Friday)

    * Harrisburg Office: (717) 787-3076 (Harrisburg Address: Senate Box 203047, 286 Main Capitol Building, Harrisburg, PA 17120-3047)

    * Cranberry Township District Office: (878) 978-2575 (Cranberry Township Address: 8001 Rowan Road, Suite 205, Cranberry Township, PA 16066)

    * New Castle District Office: (724) 654-1444 (New Castle Address: 1905 W State St, New Castle, PA 16101)

    • Alternate Phone (800) 364-1581

    ☀️ACTION STEPS TO HEAL & REINFORCE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM

    Heal your pain and upgrade your outdated programs. Join my free workshop 👉 The Science + the Soul of RESILIENCE will get you resourced, reinforce your nervous system and empower you so you don't feel as anxious, worried and scared all the time 🪷 Save Your Spot Here: tanyatecce.kit.com/masterclass

    ☀️REFERENCES: Sources cited in this interview:

    National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration - What is "weather modification"? https://library.noaa.gov/weather-climate/weather-modification-project-reports

    What role does NOAA play in weather modification? Companies that intend to engage in weather modification activities within the United States are required by the Weather Modification Act of 1976 (15 Code of Federal Regulations § 908) to provide a report to the Administrator of NOAA at least 10 days prior to undertaking the activity.

    Bill Gates backs plan to tackle climate change by blocking out the sun- https://uk.news.yahoo.com/bill-gates-backing-plan-to-stop-climate-change-by-blocking-out-the-sun-183601437.html?guccounter=1

    Extensive Patent list https://geoengineeringwatch.org/links-to-geoengineering-patents/

    Lyndon B Johnson - Lyndon B. Johnson, while serving as Vice President, delivered a speech in 1962 at Southwest Texas State University where he discussed weather control. In this speech, he emphasized the potential power and implications of controlling the weather, including the statement that "he who controls the weather will control the world". Statement clip: https://x.com/johnrich/status/1941954056886321290?s=46 Full speech: https://texasarchive.org/2010_00003

    Bernie Sanders / Joe Rogan - https://vinnews.com/2025/06/24/joe-rogan-fact-checks-bernie-sanders-on-climate-change-claims/

    https://www.facebook.com/reel/892001653110200 Augustus Doricko CEO of Rainmaker discusses cloudseeding and mentions geoengineering

    Sample email: I respectfully urge my Senators to support and vote for

    I am in full support of Senate Bill 508 the Clean Air Preservation Act. It has been sitting in Senate Agriculture & Rural Affairs Committee since March 21, 2025 and deserves its due process to go through a hearing & vote. Please place this bill on the calendar. Recently Tennessee, Florida & Louisiana passed similar legislation. There are 37,000 patterns for weather modification in Washington. There is active research and implementation of climate engineering as per the 2023 Office of Science & Technology Policy Document- Congressionally Mandated Research Plan (SAI). A California private company, Makes Sunsets regularly sends off helium and sulfur dioxide filled balloons into the atmosphere to cool the Earth, these chemicals mixed with water create acid rain. The chemical, silver iodide used in cloud seeding weather modification, as per the safety data sheet is flammable, toxic to humans and aquatic life. There is no regulation on climate engineering other than a simple application to the NOAA. Many farmers have burnt crops and dead fruit bearing trees due to the pollutants of Geoengineering (Steve Jarvis is one example). It is time to ban this in Pennsylvania, No more chemical pollutants in our skies spewed from planes in weather modification efforts— From poisoning our food, harming our citizens. This is a concern for every one of us.

    xo love, Tanya

    #empath #anxiety #peace #peaceofmind #joy #ancestral #ancestralhealing #itendswithus #oldsoul #AnxietyFree #guiltfree #MindfulJoy #mindset #BreakTheCycle #HealingJourney #genx #innerpeace #mentalhealth #joyfulliving #nervoussystem #blacksheep #freedom #narcissist #finance #taxes

    1 hr 2 min
  • EP. 05 - Exiting the Matrix, Another Level of Freedom, Empowerment & Nervous System Regulation w/ Brandon Joe Williams

    🚨🥒A next level of empowerment, nervous system regulation & exiting the matrix w/ Brandon Joe Williams… in this interview I share another level of your empowerment, nervous system regulation and individual, community, cultural, ancestral and karmic healing with Brandon Joe Williams whose channels describe "If you're looking to disconnect from the system and/or never pay taxes again legally, you've come to the right place.

    He is author of 2 books: Don't Be a Slave to Your Clients: Break Your Chains and Regain Your Sanity and Love is a Battery.

    Sign up for his free course as described in the interview.

    LISTEN 🎧 NOW to solutions that apply today, more than ever, don't forget to subscribe to my brand new FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ here

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    We dove deep into conversation and are part of a movement shifting the consciousness about mental health and mental empowerment in this country.

    And if you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, and live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    MORE RESOURCES:

    🪷Watch my free masterclass where I share more of my personal journey and how I healed my anxiety, nervous system and more - linked at https://masterclass.tanyatecce.us/april2025

    🌟If you're ready to dive into building your new foundation in your own time and the privacy of your own home with my 8-module online course - FIND YOUR PEACE- info and enrollment is linked here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    ➡️ If you're ready to start, but not quite ready for a full 8 module course yet, dip your toe into a taste of how the course works, with the 2 module intro course RESILIENCE - that's linked here: https://tanyatecce.us/resilience/

    💜 And for something quick and easy to start with, download my Free PDF Guide: The Top 2 Sources of Anxiety + 6 Powerful Things to Shift Them, here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/protect-my-peace

    xo love, Tanya

    #empath #anxiety #peace #peaceofmind #joy #ancestral #ancestralhealing #itendswithus #oldsoul #AnxietyFree #guiltfree #MindfulJoy #mindset #BreakTheCycle #HealingJourney #genx #innerpeace #mentalhealth #joyfulliving #nervoussystem #blacksheep #freedom #narcissist #finance #taxes

    2 hr 53 min
  • EP. 04 - What are Suffering Obligations of Love? And are they keeping you SOL, stuck and in pain?

    💔 In a reprise of the incredibly insightful & empowering interview with Damodar Cordua, we cover these topics 💫

    - Repairing your nervous system & becoming less reactive through embodied experience rather than intellectual understanding

    - Creating less struggle and more choice in your life

    - Honoring your previous patterns for how they served you even if they don't serve you anymore... and letting them go

    - Healing your family lineage patterns and empowering your life - and your ancestor's memory

    - Family constellation work

    - Suffering obligations of Love - how your devotion to loved ones unconsciously devotes you to having the same patterns or issues they had

    - Nostalgia as a prison - getting stuck in your life through an over-attachment to nostalgia

    - How the future is better than the past

    … and much more! 🤍

    LISTEN 🎧 NOW to solutions that apply today, more than ever.

    And don't forget to subscribe to my brand new FREEDOM podcast 🎙️ here

    If you've struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, l invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because we'd love to hear and support you.

    We dove deep into conversation and are part of a movement shifting the consciousness about mental health in this country.

    And if you have a loved one struggling, I encourage you to invite them to listen too. It could be the needle mover that helps them manifest the courage to finally live, and live well and take their best next step.

    Because you and your Legacy DESERVE THIS.

    🪷My free masterclass mentioned in this podcast is now linked at https://masterclass.tanyatecce.us/april2025

    🌟If you're ready to start building your new foundation in your own time and the privacy of your own home with my online course - FIND YOUR PEACE- that is linked here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    💜 And for a quick and easy start right now, download my Free Guide: The Top 2 Sources of Anxiety + 6 Powerful Things to Shift Them, here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/protect-my-peace

    #empath #mentalhealth #sol #free #anxiety #peace #peaceofmind #joy #ancestral #ancestralhealing #itendswithus #oldsoul #anxietyfree #guiltfree #joy #mindset #BreakTheCycle #HealingJourney #genx #innerpeace #joyfulliving #nervoussystem #blacksheep #freedom

    57 min
  • EP. 03 - Solutions to anxiety, stress, overwhelm & depression interview with Kathy Romano of 95.7 Ben FM

    Kathy Romano at 95.7 Ben FM and I chat about solutions to anxiety, stress, overwhelm & depression during the global pandemic (plannedemic, scamdemic) and this INCREDIBLY potent time of transformation and becoming we are in. 🕊 🌍

    Solutions that still apply today, more than ever.

    🪷Give it a listen.

    If you are someone you love have ever struggled with anxiety, overwhelm, or mental health, I invite you to leave your thoughts and questions because I'm here, would love to hear from you and support you.

    Here on the FREEDOM podcast we dive deep into shifting the consciousness about mental health in this country. If you have a friend or family member struggling, I encourage you to share the video with them. It could be the #1 thing that helps them take their best next step.

    You and your loved ones are invited to watch my Free Masterclass - Peace & Paradise - if it is still up linked here: https://masterclass.tanyatecce.us/april2025

    And start building your new foundation in your own time and the privacy of your own home with my online course - FIND YOUR PEACE- linked here: https://tanyatecce.us/find-your-peace/

    💜 For a quick and easy start right now, download my Free Guide: The Top 2 Sources of Anxiety + 6 Powerful Things to Shift Them, here: https://tanyatecce.kit.com/protect-my-peace

    10 min

About FOREVER 30: Raised Independent. Living Free. GenX Mental Health - Self Love - Relationships w/ Tanya Tecce

From the publisher's feed

Anxiety Anthropologist and 🕊️Ancestral Trauma Alchemist, Tanya Tecce helps empaths name what they're going thru without guilt, break inherited trauma, and reinvent dynamics so they can stop passing more pain onto loved ones, their community and the world.