In this episode, I reflect on the patterns I’ve noticed across different belief systems, theories, and personal philosophies. Whether it’s psychology, religion, or science, many of the core messages sound remarkably similar—just told in different ways. I talk about a conversation I had with my Christian stepsister, where her language of giving her life to Christ mirrored my own experience of surrendering to the non-physical and living from inner awareness. I also explore a theory about adult development and how many people stop growing at the point of social conformity. Through all of this, I share what it means to live more freely, outside of scripts, and in tune with your own knowing.

Raw reflections on spiritual addiction and finding your own wayJust me processing some realizations about how I got caught up in spirituality like it was the only path, pushing tools and techniques on people when really everyone's journey is different. Talking through how easy it is to become addicted to the things meant to help us, whether that's meditation, astrology, or any spiritual practice.This isn't about dismissing spirituality or saying it's bad. It's about recognizing when we turn tools into identities and start thinking our way is the only way. Been there, done that, learning to let people be themselves without needing them to do what I do.If you've ever felt pressured to be spiritual in a certain way, or if you've caught yourself pushing your beliefs on others, this one's for you. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is just mind your own business and let people figure out their own path.Key moments:0:00 - How tools become crutches2:30 - Becoming a spirituality pusher5:30 - Focus on yourself and what works for you8:13 - Astrology as a tool, not a religion15:00 - Making spirituality your identity18:00 - Projecting confusion onto others21:30 - We're dynamic beings, not fixed identities25:30 - Infinite ways to do life27:00 - Learning to communicate without forcing beliefsIf this resonated:Hit subscribe and like if you want more unfiltered thoughts on spirituality, consciousness, and figuring out life without the bullshit. Leave a comment about a time you caught yourself pushing something on someone else, or share what tools have actually helped you vs ones you got addicted to. What's your take on spiritual bypassing? Have you ever made a practice your whole identity?Keep what resonated, leave the rest. You already know what you need to know.__________________________________Stay in Connected the Frequency Newsletter + Ways to Contributehttps://beacons.ai/frequencyoffree

The Reality of Non-Physical Creation | Breaking Down the Manifesting ProcessEver had someone tell you to "be realistic" while you're trying to create something new? This episode breaks down why that thinking keeps us small and how the non-physical process of creation actually works in everyday life.I dive into the simple truth that everything physical starts as a non-physical idea first. From deciding to go to the store to building massive dreams, there's always an invisible process happening that most people completely ignore. We've been programmed to focus so hard on what's "real" and "here" that we miss the actual mechanics of how things come into existence.The whole manifesting conversation gets convoluted because we try to logicalize everything instead of just accepting that some things work without needing to understand every step. But here's the thing, you're already doing this process every single day. You're just not aware of it.This is for anyone who's tired of getting stuck in the process instead of just taking action. For people who want to understand how their mind actually works and why breaking everything down into tiny pieces sometimes keeps you from moving forward.Key Moments:0:12 - The realist mindset and what people are missing 1:03 - Why the manifesting term gets so convoluted 1:52 - Simple example: going to the store (non-physical process) 3:25 - How breaking everything down can slow us down 4:20 - Getting lost in the process vs just doing 5:39 - What manifesting actually means (removing the process) 6:45 - How our minds are trained to focus on limitations 7:16 - The colonized mindset that traps thinking in boxes 8:21 - Why things don't have to be physically present to be possible 9:14 - Everything starts in the non-physical first Keywords: #manifestation, #mindset , #consciousness, #spiritualpsychology , #nonphysicalenergy , #creationprocess, #limitingbeliefs #awareness #awarenessvideo #intentionalliving #intentionsetting #mindreprogramming #mindsetshift ---Subscribe if this resonates and you want more real talk about how consciousness actually works. Like if you've ever been told to "be realistic" when you were trying to create something bigger.Drop a comment: What's something you want to create that people have told you to "be realistic" about? Or share a time when you realized you were getting too stuck in the process instead of just taking action.__________________________________Stay in Connected the Frequency Newsletter + Ways to Contributehttps://beacons.ai/frequencyoffree

The Power of Intentional Words | Raw Thoughts on Freedom, Creation & BeingWords create reality. They channel energy into specific actions and send it to specific places. In this raw, unfiltered exploration, I dive deep into how I've shifted from rebellious freedom to intentional expression, and why being conscious of our words matters more than we realize.I used to think freedom meant doing whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted. Now I understand freedom as the ability to move within my own knowingness. This isn't about restricting ourselves or becoming slaves to politeness - it's about recognizing that we're creative beings connected to source, and our words carry that same creative power.We're not taught how powerful we are or how life actually works from the non-physical into the physical. Instead, we're redirected to systems that benefit from our disconnection from our own inner knowing. But when we understand that our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and visions all originate in the non-physical realm before manifesting through our words and actions, everything changes.Key Moments:00:00 - Opening thoughts on intentional language02:00 - How words channel energy and create reality05:00 - My journey from rebellion to conscious freedom08:00 - The two sides of the freedom coin10:00 - Why systems label natural expression as "chaotic"12:00 - What happens when we disconnect from our inner knowing14:00 - Learning from nature: how grass doesn't try to serve17:00 - Breaking free from colonized concepts of sacrifice19:00 - Words as currency tunneling energy into action21:00 - Conversation with my mom about words creating problems23:00 - Why I share these thoughts and who I want to connect with27:00 - Finding balance between intention and spontaneous expression30:00 - How we express matters more than what we express33:00 - Creating spaces where beings can just be36:00 - The frequency of pure beingThis is for anyone who's ever felt restricted by societal rules, who's questioned why we need so many systems of control, or who's curious about the deeper mechanics of how consciousness creates reality. If you've ever wondered why some conversations feel draining while others feel expansive, or if you're ready to explore what it means to be truly free while still being intentional with your creative power, this one's for you.Keywords: consciousness, spiritual awakening, intentional living, personal freedom, energy work, manifestation, authentic expression, inner knowing, creative power, mindful communication, breaking free from systems, natural being, spiritual rebellion, conscious creationReady to dive deeper? Hit subscribe and turn on notifications so you don't miss these raw explorations of consciousness and freedom.Rate this episode if it sparked something in you - your support helps more people find these conversations.Drop a comment and let me know: What's your relationship with words? Have you ever caught yourself creating problems through how you speak about situations? What does true freedom mean to you right now?I read every comment and your insights often become the seeds for future episodes. Let's create a space where we can explore these ideas together.

Have you ever found yourself talking shit about something that actually helped you become who you are today? Yeah, me too. And it's something I've been thinking about a lot lately.

Why do we dismiss the very tools, experiences, and people that helped us find our freedom?

I recently heard two different people in separate conversations basically trashing spirituality - calling it a distraction, misleading, confusing - while simultaneously admitting they used spiritual practices to get to where they are now. The irony hit me hard. It's like climbing a ladder and then kicking it down once you reach the top.

This got me reflecting on my own patterns. Where do I do this in my life? How do I talk about Christianity after leaving the church? What about past relationships, old projects, or tools I've outgrown?

The truth is, we all do this. We move through experiences, extract what we need, then turn around and demonize the very thing that brought us growth and awareness. But here's what I'm realizing - wouldn't it be better to leave things better than we found them?

In this episode, I'm exploring why we have this tendency to trash our past instead of being grateful for the journey. From spirituality to relationships to career pivots, I'm getting real about how this pattern shows up everywhere and what it costs us when we do it.

TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - People demonizing spirituality that helped them02:27 - My relationship with Christianity and church community
04:36 - The question: did church hurt me or help me?06:46 - Leave things better than you found them08:33 - The coloring book phase and what I learned11:12 - We do this with everything - food, cities, medicine14:05 - Why we cancel people so easily15:15 - Appreciating experiences while you're in them18:25 - Why demonizing might come back to bite you20:09 - You can't want wholeness and demonize what helped you find it

MEMORABLE QUOTES:

"And I wonder though, would you be where you are now if you hadn't used that tool though? Like did it not bring you to this realization?"

"Wouldn't it be best for me to make it better for someone going through spirituality or religion or, you know, whatever"

"Why are we demonizing these people instead of thinking that demonizing these systems instead of being grateful that we experience them to give us new perspective?"

"We move through something and then demonize it instead of extract the gold, the wisdom, the being grateful for having the experience and all the things that were in it"

"We all fuck up. We have all fucked up. We have all been a dick to someone, an asshole to someone"

"Every single choice, every single not choice is creating an experience. We cannot avoid experience"

"You can't want wholeness or want to acknowledge our wholeness and demonize or make wrong what has helped us remember what wholeness even is"

"We're all in this shit together. Nothing, absolutely nothing can be done solely just on our own"

What tools or experiences have you outgrown but still feel grateful for? Let me know in the comments - I'd love to hear your perspective on this.

In this episode, I discuss how we can move into a more decolonized world where people are consciously facing the programming they've been subjected to since childhood. We often don't realize we're acting certain ways because these patterns were planted so early that we couldn't question them, or when we did question things, we were punished or manipulated back into conformity.I explore how our parents wanted what was best for us, which usually meant following the rules, living comfortably, and avoiding struggle. The focus has been on getting wealthy and not looking poor, which has shaped so much of how we interact with each other.As we shift away from capitalism and external motivations, I sometimes catch myself asking logical questions about how this will all unfold, and I wonder if that's still coming from a colonized mindset where everything needs to be predictable and planned out. But there's also value in imagining the magical possibilities and going to places we've never seen except maybe in books or movies.I get into how most conversations are really about extraction. When people ask "what do you do," they're not genuinely asking about your life. They're asking about your work life, your money life, your status. There's so much embedded in that question beyond just curiosity.I talk about how dangerous our approach to hiring and networking has become, where we ask seemingly innocent questions but we're really digging for information we can use. Everything becomes about money, status, and what you can extract from someone. Even questions like "where are you from" or "who inspires you" are ways of gathering intel about someone's background, motivations, and how you might be able to exploit their talents or connections.The whole system is built on manipulation and emulation rather than being your authentic self. I call out how ironic it is when people complain about AI being trained on existing models when literally everything we do and say is based on models of other people's lives, things we've seen before, read before, experienced before. We're all just regurgitating things in our own way, and most people aren't even doing it creatively.I share how books like "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "The Art of War" have been bestsellers because they teach manipulation rather than authentic connection. These books are about turning yourself into something else to get what you want rather than just showing up as you are.But what would conversations look like if we weren't trying to extract things from people? What if we asked questions that elicit storytelling instead of resume reciting? Questions like "how has life unfolded for you?" or "what three things have been most exciting about your life so far?" or "what are you most curious about these days?"I get excited talking about creativity and originality. When someone creates something from their own inspiration, whether it's art, music, clothes, whatever, it literally wakes up my soul. If it's original, it's automatically dope to me.I end by wondering what other questions we could ask that would make conversations genuinely worth having. If you're only going to have one conversation with someone, why not make it meaningful? What are these new ways to communicate when we're not operating from that extractive, colonized mindset?Timestamps:00:00 Moving into a decolonized world06:33 How conversations are really about extraction11:20 Books that teach manipulation vs authenticity17:00 Why people mold themselves after others22:00 The predictability of the current system26:00 Questions that elicit genuine storytelling29:00 What creativity and originality mean to me31:00 Making conversations worth having__________________________________Stay in Connected the FrequencyNewsletter + How to Contributehttps://beacons.ai/frequencyoffree

A deeply personal exploration of what it means to live authentically in a world that wants to define you.

In this raw and honest episode, I dive into my journey as a queer person learning to accept not just myself, but the entirety of my existence beyond religious conditioning and societal expectations. This isn't just about sexuality or identity - it's about the fundamental human experience of trying to live authentically in your own skin.

I share why I've never resonated with labels and the invisible "contracts" that come with them, how growing up in Christianity created a long healing journey, and most importantly, the profound realization that you are literally made from the same creative energy as everything else in existence.

We explore the concept that everything is inherently spiritual, why only humans create categories of right and wrong, and how to recognize that you are not your thoughts but the awareness observing them. This episode offers a different perspective on perfection, change, karma, and the power you have to choose your own beliefs rather than living by what others have decided for you.

Whether you're LGBTQ+, dealing with religious trauma, questioning your spirituality, or simply trying to live more authentically, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on self-acceptance and spiritual freedom.

Key topics: spiritual awakening, queer spirituality, consciousness, authenticity, self-acceptance, religious trauma healing, personal growth, mindfulness, awareness, inner work, non-duality

This episode is part of ongoing conversations about consciousness, authenticity, and what it means to live freely in your own truth.

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My Unfiltered Spiritual Journey: From Conspiracy Theories to Radical Self-Sovereignty | The Frequency of Free PodcastWelcome to the Frequency of Free Podcast! In this deeply personal episode, I share my unconventional spiritual awakening – a non-linear path from curiosity about conspiracy theories to reclaiming self-sovereignty. This isn't about answers, but my experience shifting from fear to freedom, external seeking to inner knowing, and intellectual understanding to visceral truth.In this episode, we cover: (0:00:17) From conspiracy theories to spiritual inquiry. (0:06:32) Redefining God & leaving traditional religion. (0:11:32) Embodiment vs. intellectual spirituality; representation. (0:21:09) "Doing" vs. "Being": embodying truth, not just teaching it. (0:22:07) Nomadic living as a catalyst for self-connection. (0:25:22) Choosing integrity over manipulation (life coaching, telemarketing). (0:30:44) Non-linear healing: from trauma release to embodied experience. (0:38:24) The 180-degree inward shift: establishing inner authority. (1:00:03) Understanding true authority: not giving power to external entities. (1:06:19) Personal transformation & its impact on global systems. (1:11:00) The equality of all beings: no higher or lesser. (1:13:41) Non-physical choices as tools for creating physical reality. (1:15:39) Inward shift's importance in outwardly focused society. (1:17:49) Redefining "work": how internal action impacts reality. (1:19:39) The creator within: inherent energy flow. (1:23:29) Beyond words: energy & intent behind loaded terms. (1:31:00) Trusting unique expression; no need for external validation. (1:32:38) Embracing your voice: overcoming suppression. (1:35:32) Wholeness: physical & non-physical realms are interconnected. (1:41:01) Foresight & sharing: awareness of unfolding events. (1:41:50) Paradox: engage life without losing self. (1:43:55) Diverse paths to awareness (psychology, science, art, etc.). (1:51:00) Danger of holding on: resisting change backfires. (1:53:39) Mind your own business: inward focus transforms the world. (1:56:16) Tools vs. Crutches: staying connected to direct source. (1:59:06) Experience is the teacher: "fuck around and find out."✨ HIGHLIGHTS & KEY TAKEAWAYS ✨ From Fear to Freedom: Conspiracy theories to authentic liberation. Redefining God & Religion: From "man in the sky" to pure, creative energy. Embodiment Over Intellect: Living truth, not just learning it. Power of Self-Sovereignty: Reclaim inner authority, stop giving power away. Collective Awakening: Global shifts reflect humanity's remembrance. Equality of All Things: Nothing is inherently "higher" or "lesser." Inner World Shapes Outer Reality: Conscious choices manifest your physical life. Authentic Voice: Overcoming suppression to speak your truth.👍 If this resonated, like, subscribe, & share your takeaways!

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“Death is like a pair of supernatural glasses that helps me see so clearly.”

In this episode of The Frequency of Free, I sit with Death—not as an ending, but as a presence, a teacher, and a friend. I talk about what it's been showing me lately: the fleeting beauty of this physical life, the creative power we hold, and the freedom in letting things die so they can transform. This one is raw, reflective, and from the soul.

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Answering a deep question from r/spirituality: "What would you say to someone whose only goal is to get rich?" This is a powerful moment to talk about spiritual gatekeeping, projection, and why true freedom includes honoring another person’s path — even if it looks different than yours.