I was on the road to getting my head together. I knew what went wrong last time. I knew the statistics of falling for the same kind of man as my ex-husband. I knew I had a tendency to need validation and a desire to be approved of. I knew I learnt more about myself on my own than I did with a partner. I needed a break from dating - to stop using it as a distraction from achieving my goals. It all made perfect sense. Until I met Samual.