Friendship Matters

What if friendship isn't about convenience, but intention? In this energizing conversation, CEO and "friend collector" Andora Hinton shares how growing up as an only child shaped her hunger for connection and how adulthood taught her to choose friends with care. We dig into reciprocity, values alignment, vulnerability at work, and how different circles (corporate vs. entrepreneurial) fuel balance and momentum. Andora offers practical, doable ways to deepen bonds, especially when life gets busy, careers demand everything, or you're rebuilding community in a new city. If you've ever wondered how to make time for real friends without losing yourself, this one's your playbook.

You'll learn:

• How to move from "convenience friends" to chosen friendships

• A simple system to keep friendships alive (text, call, schedule)

• Why reciprocity + shared values predict depth

• Courage-over-comfort steps to find friends (and keep them)

• How to model healthy friendships for kids—and teams

"Friendship is what you make it—so let's make it intentional, energizing, and for life."

Andora Hinton

Founder & CEO , Willow North Growth Partners

Andora Hinton, CEO of Willow North Growth Partners, has over 26 years of experience in sales, coaching, and training, specializing in helping teams improve communication and collaboration to drive growth across industries. She customizes strategies to align with organizational goals and foster lasting behavioral change.

Named a Top 100 Innovative Entrepreneur and Womelle Magazine's Thought Leader of the Year in 2024, Andora is certified in Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Intelligence, and other leadership frameworks.

In addition to her professional work, Andora is passionate about the power of deep, meaningful friendships and how these relationships contribute to both personal and professional growth. She believes that friendship, vulnerability, and connection are key elements in navigating life and leadership with authenticity and strength.

Based in Chapel Hill, NC, Andora supports Make-a-Wish and lives with her family and dog, Duke. Her mission is to help leaders and teams unlock their potential, create lasting connections, and achieve success.

You can connect with Andora at www.willownorth.com.

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Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

What if the fastest way to deepen every relationship—at home, at work, with friends—wasn't talking better, but listening differently? Best-selling author and leadership coach Becky Harling joins us to reframe listening as a true superpower. With warmth, humor, and hard-won wisdom, Becky shows how focused attention, empathy (not fixing), and unhurried presence can turn everyday conversations into connection—especially in a lonely, distracted world.

You'll hear:

• What real listening is: helping someone feel heard, valued, and understood—not just "I caught your words."

• Why we rush to fix—and how to stop: simple scripts that validate feelings without taking over.

• Practical rituals to slow down: from "walk slowly through the room" to the three-question coffee card.

• Leader takeaways: create space so your team feels heard without over-functioning.

• Friendship in the wild: Becky's beach-walk story and the power of "Tell me more" and "Are you complete?"

🎧 If you've ever wondered why your best intentions don't land—or how to be the friend/leader people open up to—this episode is your playbook.

Becky Harling

Certified Coach with The John Maxwell Team

Host of The Connected Mom Podcast

Becky Harling is a positive and passionate key note speaker, author, and coach. She loves to inspire audiences to grow their influence by learning to listen more effectively. She's had the opportunity to speak both nationally and internationally and has found traveling to be one great adventure. Becky is a people person, who loves to meet people and help them thrive. She coaches those looking to improve their communication skills and personal relationships. She is the author of 16 books, including topics on listening and friendship. Her newest book, Friend-Wise, will be released in February. Becky loves hanging out with her husband, kids, and grandkids. She firmly believes that a good cup of strong coffee can be life-changing!

You can connect with Becky at https://beckyharling.com or https://www.linkedin.com/in/becky-harling-31605212/.

©Friendship Institute 2025

Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

What if the single greatest predictor of your health, resilience, and career satisfaction isn't a biohack, but your friendships? In this energizing conversation, Professor Emeritus and physician-wellbeing pioneer Dr. Dael Waxman joins Lisa, and Dr. Russ to unpack how authentic connection fuels longevity, lowers burnout, and makes work (and life) a whole lot better.

From simple micro-moves—like a 10-second "thinking of you" text—to culture-shaping leadership practices, Dr. Waxman shows how to build trust across power dynamics, sustain relationships in busy seasons, and create workplaces where meaningful connection can actually happen. You'll leave with practical, human steps you can do today, no extra time required.

Why listen

• Learn the micro-skills that strengthen friendships in seconds (and why they work).

• Navigate friendship across hierarchies without blurring boundaries.

• Connection-positive ideas you can pilot at work (yes, even if you're "lonely at the top").

• Reboot your post-pandemic social muscle with low-risk, high-impact actions.

One powerful prompt to try today Who just popped into your mind? Send them a one-line text: "You came to mind—cheering you on today." Notice how you feel—and what comes back.

About Our Guest:Dael Waxman, MD, PCC is a professionally certified coach who works with individuals, groups, and teams to support leadership, life, and professional well-being. He is also a faculty member at the Healthcare Coaching Institute.

Previously, he served as Professor and Vice Chair of Family Medicine at Atrium Health – Wake Forest School of Medicine, where he also created the role of Medical Director of Physician Well-being for Medical Education.

Drawing on decades of experience in medicine and coaching, Dael helps people strengthen relationships, foster resilience, and build more supportive workplace cultures.

Outside of work, he enjoys travel, kayaking, hiking, cooking, and—most recently—learning barista skills.

You can connect with Dael at https://www.linkedin.com/in/dael-waxman-md-pcc-18917322/

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Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

What if the most important leadership metric isn’t on your dashboard, but in your chest?

In this conversation, cardiologist and mindfulness teacher Dr. Jonathan Fisher (author of Just One Heart) joins hosts Lisa T. Grimes and Dr. Russell Greenfield to explore the science and soul of connection.

We dig into the “seven traits of the heart” (steadiness, wisdom, openness, wholeness, courage, lightness, warmth), how friendship and belonging protect against burnout, and why leading with your whole heart improves performance, retention, and wellbeing.

From clinical stories and Blue Zones research to practical tools you can use today, this episode is a timely reset for leaders, clinicians, and anyone craving more meaning. You’ll leave with a kinder way to talk to yourself, a clearer way to show up for others, and proof that connection isn’t soft—it’s smart.

• A practical checklist for how to be—not just what to do—when stakes are high

• Why friendship and belonging are protective for heart health and longevity

• The business case: how warm, connected cultures outperform

• Burnout drivers (autonomy, rigidity, moral injury) and what actually helps

• Simple ways to start “friending yourself” and lead with courage and warmth

“When we lead with our whole hearts, we heal ourselves—and those around us.”

 - Dr. Jonathan Fisher

Dr. Jonathan Fisher is a Harvard-trained cardiologist, mindfulness teacher, and well-being leader. As Physician Executive for Well-Being and Resiliency at Novant Health, he designs and leads programs supporting 38,000+ team members. He is co-founder of the Ending Clinician Burnout Global Community and co-host of its annual international summits. Author of the multi-award winning Just One Heart: A Cardiologist’s Guide to Healing, Health, and Happiness, he helps people reconnect mind and heart to reduce stress, prevent burnout, and lead with clarity, compassion, and care.

Find Dr Fisher at:

Website: https://www.drjonathanfisher.com

Book “Just One Heart”: https://a.co/d/608gH2U

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/happyheartmd/

The Heart-Mind Connection Newsletter: https://substack.com/@drjonathanfisher

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happyheartmd/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDcRj4LQTdHKB2SU6jDs0YQ?view_as=subscriber

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Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

Are the people closest to you energizing your life, or quietly exhausting it?

Not all friendships fuel us, some quietly deplete our energy, joy, and even our confidence. In this eye-opening episode, Donna, Lisa, and Dr. Russ unpack the different types of "energy-draining" relationships, from constant complainers and drama magnets to takers, critics, and insecure friends who always have a bigger story. Through real-life stories, research, and practical tools, they reveal how to set boundaries, prune unhealthy connections, and reinvest in friendships that energize and enrich your life. You'll also learn the simple "3E Filter" (energize, exhaust, enrich) to help you evaluate your relationships and free up space for the people who truly light you up.

Listen in to better understand:

• Why setting boundaries isn't selfish but essential for sustaining healthy, life-giving friendships.
• How to reinvest your time and energy into relationships that truly enrich and support you.

©Friendship Institute 2025

Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

Do you know how to navigate shifting relationships with grace, spot red flags, and know when it's time to hold on or let go? Listen and learn why endings aren't failures, how to reframe change, and how to keep friendships life-giving at every stage.

Friendships aren't static, they evolve, shift, and sometimes fade. In this episode, Donna, Lisa, and Dr. Russ dive into the dynamic nature of friendships, exploring why change is natural, how to recognize when a friendship fuels you—or drains you—and what to do when relationships no longer align.

From "reason, season, lifetime" connections to navigating energy vampires and emotional safety, they offer honest stories and practical wisdom on how to adapt, reframe endings, and even rekindle old bonds.

If you've ever struggled with drifting apart, knowing when to hold on, or when it's time to release a friendship with grace, this conversation will help you see change not as failure—but as an essential part of the friendship journey.

©Friendship Institute 2025

Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

What happens when life collides with work in ways you can't ignore?

In this heartfelt episode, Donna, Lisa, and Dr. Russ open up about the uncomfortable, but essential, role of empathy in the workplace. From navigating personal grief while leading a team, to the power of a simple check-in call, to celebrating others' wins without envy, they reveal how small choices of compassion can ripple across lives and organizations.

If you've ever wondered how much to share at work, or how to respond when a colleague is hurting (or thriving), this episode offers honest stories and practical wisdom that will change the way you see empathy at work—and remind you that sometimes the smallest gestures matter most.

©Friendship Institute 2025

Friendship Matters™ is intended to help improve our Friendship IQ. While this generally signals an improvement in our overall wellbeing, this podcast is not intended in any way to offer specific counseling or medical advice. Please seek help from a trained professional.

In this episode, we step into the friendship frame of empathy and uncover why it matters so much. Donna opens with a deeply personal story of receiving devastating news just hours before facilitating a leadership session, raising the uncomfortable but vital question of boundaries at work. Dr. Russ and Lisa share powerful moments of their own, from a simple phone call that cut through a colleague's isolation to a quiet gesture that helped someone carry unbearable grief.

Together we explore the difference between sympathy, empathy, and compassion, and why small actions, listening without fixing, reaching out when it feels awkward, celebrating a colleague's success, can transform workplace culture.

This conversation reminds us that we don't park our humanity at the office door. Empathy is not soft, it builds trust, fuels collaboration, and even increases motivation. And the challenge we leave you with is simple: take one small action of empathy this week. Its ripple effect may last far longer than you imagine.

If you've ever wanted to go beyond small talk and truly connect with the people around you, this episode of Friendship Matters will show you how. Inspired by a heartwarming Thanksgiving tradition called "Orphans of the Storm," Donna, Dr. Russ, and Lisa explore the transformative power of asking great questions. From starting dinner with dessert to discovering unexpected stories around the table, they reveal how curiosity can unlock deeper conversations, spark genuine understanding, and strengthen relationships, whether in your living room or the boardroom.

You'll hear how curiosity can melt away assumptions, build trust, and even bridge divides in a world that often feels polarized. The hosts share real-life examples of curiosity in action—questions that open doors, ways to keep curiosity respectful and in bounds, and how to prepare for deeper conversations with intentionality. You'll walk away with practical questions you can use right now to turn any gathering into a place of discovery, empathy, and lasting connection. If you're ready to make your friendships richer and your conversations more meaningful, this episode is your guide.

What if the way you think about friendship is quietly sabotaging your connections?

In this eye-opening episode of Friendship Matters, Dr. Russ, Donna, and Lisa explore the hidden mental models—Friendship Frames—that shape how we show up in relationships. From the scarcity mindset that says there's not enough time or energy for friends, to the perfectionism that paralyzes connection, the hosts shine a light on the beliefs that hold us back from meaningful friendships.

They unpack how frames like independence over interdependence, transactional thinking, and fixed mindsets can erode trust and closeness, and why curiosity and conscious choice are the antidotes. You'll walk away with a powerful mindset tool ("Pause, Notice, and Choose") and an invitation to reflect on your own friendship frames.

This episode will challenge how you think—and feel—about friendship. And it just might change the way you connect.