In this episode the host Jason B. Godoy talks about how being a podcaster has brought the haters out of the wood works, which ultimately has left him questioning all of his friendships. In this episode I focus on my relationship with one of my best friends for over 20 years. At the beginning of the episode I share how approximately one year ago I ended a lifelong friendship over a failed business endeavor. Having already walked away from one lifelong friend I am not afraid to do it again if need be, however I believe in the phrase "collision creates connection." I will share with you my experience as I completed a 4-step exercise called "Firing A Friend" to help me determine if I really want to walk away from this friendship or not. 

Fire A Friend:

1. Forgiveness Meditation **I debunk the myth that forgiveness is a weakness** 

2. Get Clear 

3. Where are YOU coming from

4. Protect Your Peace **set boundaries and commitments**

After having completed this exercise I saw the pattern that both my friend I lost last year and my current friend are dealing with external factors in their personal lives that can generate high levels of stress. This by no means is an excuse for their behavior but it is a revelation for me and an opportunity for me to be a good friend, hold space and practice my patience. The difference between this year and last year is that after having done the exercise I realized I really don't want to lose my friend and I was able to set strict boundaries to guide our relationship going forward. I believe the most important parts about this entire experience are first being compassionate and grateful for your friend and secondly to adhere one hundred percent to any boundaries or limitations that you may have set.

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