Hello Fabulous!

Jen here, and do I have a treat for you today! I just had an absolutely enlightening chat with the fabulous Julie Menanno. If you don't already know her, she's a relationship guru specializing in emotionally focused therapy (EFT), attachment theory, and the fine art of turning relationship chaos into secure love.

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Julie broke it down for us: Most of her couples—about 90%—fall into this "anxious-avoidant" tango. One partner's basically a golden retriever, desperate for constant affection, while the other is a turtle, retreating into their shell to avoid all that emotional messiness. Sound familiar?

Julie also tackled the big, scary jungle that is finding a good therapist. Spoiler alert: It's like hunting for a unicorn. Emotionally focused therapy is where it's at, but mastering it is no small feat. Luckily, Julie's team operates as coaches and tackles issues across state lines (no magic carpet needed).

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You can find Julie Menanno and her secure relationship advice in the following places:

Julie's Podcast- The Secure Love Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-secure-love-podcast-with-julie-menanno/id1753342452 Julie's Nationally Bestselling Book- Secure Love: (US Version) https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Secure-Love/Julie-Menanno/9781668012864 (UK Version) https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Love-Create-Relationship-Lifetime/dp/1529902967/?maas=maas_adg_8DB247C73AC7406FC4472B1FB42F4B47_afap_abs&ref_=aa_maas&tag=maas Website: https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship/