Stubborn Love

From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Healing Betrayal Trauma with Accelerated Resolution Therapy | With Katie K. May, LPC


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Summary

Betrayal in relationships, discovering cheating, or realizing the person is not who you thought they were. All of these are painful relational experiences that can take quite the journey to recover from, but it doesn’t have to be painful or long with the help of Accelerated Resolution Therapy.

Key takeaways from the episode:

  • Learn what betrayal trauma is and how it shows up in relationships

  • Discover the emotional impact of betrayal trauma on your own sense of trust

  • Understand the role of “Protector” for future betrayal

  • Find out how Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) can address the root wounds and relieve traumatic responses.

  • Katie K. May is a therapist, group practice owner, speaker, author, and consultant. As a Linehan Board-Certified Therapist and Master Accelerated Resolution Therapy Practitioner, her expertise shines in her work with depressed teens, the LGBTQ community, and parents dealing with the complex emotions surrounding their child's mental health challenges while reimagining their future. 

    Katie's deep passion lies in helping "black sheep," neurodivergent individuals, and those with traumatic backgrounds, find their sense of belonging. Together, she collaborates with her clients to create personalized coping strategies that empower them to navigate overwhelming emotions and build a life of connection and purpose.

    Noteworthy quotes from this episode:

    [07:44] "I can help my clients regulate and  restructure their beliefs about who they can trust and how they can trust themselves and really activate that self trust again and decrease the self blame."

    [31:00] "It is typical in betrayal trauma for your body to go into overdrive and to overcorrect. If you were trusting before, [you may] be completely untrusting as a way to protect yourself which is an extreme that is intended to protect you, but in fact, likely doesn't serve you at all."

    Connect with Katie

    Website: creativehealingphilly.com 

    Instagram: @creative_healing

    Facebook: facebook.com/creativehealingphilly

    TikTok: @teensupportcenter

    Connect with Paige Bond

    Instagram: @paigebondcoaching

    Facebook: @paigebondcoaching

    TikTok: @paigebondcoaching

    Website: https://paigebond.com

    Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.

    Free Jealousy Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠http://www.paigebond.com/calm-the-chaos-jealousy-workbook-download⁠⁠

    Free People Pleasing Workbook: 

    ⁠⁠https://www.paigebond.com/people-pleasing-workbook⁠⁠

    Disclaimer: This podcast and communication through our email are not meant to serve as professional advice or therapy. If you are in need of mental health support, you are encouraged to connect with a licensed mental health professional to receive the support needed.

    Mental Health Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis counseling.


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