I sit down with Seth Pardo, a professor, researcher, and trans man who shares his incredible journey of self-discovery. Growing up in the 1980s without much understanding of trans identities, Seth faced significant challenges. We dive deep into his "Dark Night of the Soul," the challenges trans youth face from lack of representation, and his profound work studying how people navigate difficult decisions like medical transition. Our chat takes a powerful turn as we analyze the current laws targeting the trans community and the hypocrisy of legislating personal identities. Ultimately, Seth delivers an inspiring message about leading with compassion for us and others during life's darkest moments.