From Embers To Excellence™

Torrin began his entrepreneurial career back in 1989, cutting his teeth in the retail space. The first venture at the age of 24 was in the video rentals business. Within a few short years he was part-owner in 3 locations. We all know that didn’t last. He then built a career in real estate, establishing his own agency in 2007 that focused on commercial real estate sales, leasing and property development. Again, the economic crisis of 2008 almost ruined him.

The result was dramatically increased success and a new way of doing business using an inner game operating system created from internal strength.

Take the time to talk to Torrin about your business journey – you’ll be better for the experience.

https://attergy.com/book/

To connect with Torrin and his coaching programs he provides a copy of his real book (not a pdf), complimentary with an opportunity to have a free discovery session to unlock your biggest issue in business. https://linktr.ee/attergy

Retired Master Sergeant Roger Sparks, Author of “Warrior’s Creed,” served within the military for over 25 years. He served in the Special Forces of 2 different branches of our military. Marine Corps Force Recon and the Air Force’s Pararescue. Roger is a recipient of the Silver Star, one of our nation's highest awards for valor, for his actions during a fierce firefight with insurgents in Afghanistan’s Watapur Valley on Nov. 14, 2010. Sparks has transitioned from a career of special operations into the civilian world as an artist, author, and speaker. He lives with his family in Eagle River, Alaska.

This episode is one of the deepest conversations I have ever had. Roger is a Renaissance Man and a philosopher. We spoke for hours and shared some deep stuff. He is an amazing human being in so many different ways. I am positive that fact will become more and more apparent as you listen to his story, his philosophy, and his thoughts on how to live a good life. There are so many nuggets of wisdom laced within this conversation.

Roger shares some of the advice he gives when addressing Special Operations graduating classes. Here are two words that he expands on: Resolve and Intention. He even quotes Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh, “The finger pointing at the moon is not the moon.” Over and over again Roger blows my mind.

If you’d like to read his Silver Star citation, you can read it here: https://valor.militarytimes.com/hero/113134

If you’d like to read one of the best books I have ever read, follow this link:

https://www.goruck.com/products/book-warriors-creed

If you’d like to follow Roger on Instagram, here is the hyperlink:

https://www.instagram.com/rdsparks/

LaQuita is a serial entrepreneur, international speaker, and minister who believes the foundation of personal development and business growth rests in possessing the right mindset. She is a sought-out keynote speaker in the United States and abroad and a Transformational coach. LaQuita challenges others to transform their thinking to revolutionize their spheres of influence. Leaders and entrepreneurs alike tune into her live broadcast, La’Quita’s Toolbox Live as well as her podcast La’Quita’s Toolbox, for inspiration and implementable action steps to realize their full potential.

She says, “Those who shift their minds transform their lives and lead others into greatness.”

When obstacles arise, LaQuita Monley refuses to buckle under pressure. She evaluates problems through an optimistic lens and develops strategies for advancement. The result is continual flourishing while operating in her purpose.

LaQuita and I had an incredible conversation. She shares her story, from the perspective of a woman who has held things together at home while her husband fought overseas as a career soldier. This story will give you a better understanding of what being the spouse of a soldier, sailor, or marine is like. This is one of the best conversations I have ever had.

To connect with LaQuita or to listen to her podcast visit here:

Podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/show/laquita-s-toolbox

Website: https://www.laquitamonley.com/

Website: https://www.johncmaxwellgroup.com/laquitamonley/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laquitamonley/

Glenn Parker is an internationally recognized workshop facilitator, organizational consultant, and conference speaker in the area of teamwork, collaboration, and team meetings.

He is the author of sixteen books, including the bestsellers Cross Functional Teams: Working with Allies, Enemies and other Strangers, and Team Players and Teamwork: New Strategies for Developing Successful Collaboration. Glenn’s widely-used instrument, the Parker Team Player Survey, has sold more than one million copies, and his seminal work on team-player styles was featured in a bestselling CRM video.

As a consultant for more than forty years, Glenn Parker has helped create high-performing teams at hundreds of organizations including Novartis Pharmaceuticals, Merck & Company, Bristol-Myers Squibb, Phillips-Van Heusen, Telcordia Technologies, BOC Gases, and the U.S. Coast Guard.

Glenn holds a Master’s degree from the University of Illinois, and studied for the doctorate at Cornell University. Through his philanthropic endeavors, he has raised over $1.5 million for cancer research.

Some of the topics covered in this episode:

1. The research completed to write the book/the creative process

• In-depth interviews with some 50 people with diverse backgrounds – jobs, industries, gender, ethnicity, born outside us

2. The 4 types of positive influence leaders

• Supportive

• Teacher

• Motivating

• Role model

3. How can you tell what kind of leader you are?

4. Most of us have come across negative people in our lives --- how do people cope with negativity they encounter?

5 coping strategies for dealing with negativity:

1) Take it on as a challenge

2) Take responsibility for the situation

3) Persevere in the face of adversity

4) Adopt a calm and reasoned approach

5) Use the negativity as a learning experience

5. How positive influence leaders lead in a time of crisis

1. Be open and authentic

2. Be clear and specific

3. Listen, ask questions, listen some more and respond

4. Walk the talk

5. Conduct an after-action review

• What did we do?

• What went well

• What didn’t

• What would we do differently next time?

• What did we learn?

• What did we do that we will want to incorporate in the going forward workplace?

• We don’t just want to do back to a new normal but to a better normal!

6. Here’s the “so what” question? Let’s assume I am the CEO of a company or a non-profit corporation, how do I use all this to increase the effectiveness of my organization?

Glenn’s Special Offer detailed near the end of the episode will require this:

[email protected]

To purchase their book, learn more about, or to connect with Glenn and his son Michael, visit:

https://thepositiveinfluenceleader.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/glennparker/

https://twitter.com/teamguy1

Elena Pastore is a leadership and career coach. She works with clients on leadership development, skill building, and resume writing. Elena enables clients to achieve their greatest professional leadership impact by capitalizing on accomplishments, honing strengths, and developing exceptional team cultures. She is a double gator having earned both Bachelor and master’s degrees in business from the University of Florida. Originally from Rhode Island, Elena currently resides in St. Pete and enjoys cooking Italian meals.

This is an excellent conversation that covers many facets of professional development and leadership development. We discuss gender issues in male dominated organizations, the importance of self-awareness, communication, and message congruency.

For more information or to connect with Elena, visit her website: https://elenapastore.com/

Originally from Chicago, Paul has now been a professional speaker for over 25 years (giving almost 300 presentations in the past 4 years), and he is one of the leading authorities in leadership and personal growth—especially time management—helping people take back their calendars and restore sanity to their lives. He has spoken for organizations like McDonalds, Subway, Lamb Weston, Northwest Public Power, and Autozone—and among the 80 leaders he coaches per year, 25 of them lead at Pacific NW National Laboratories. Paul has a Master’s degree in education, and has been an educator/administrator/Chief Operating Officer in 5 non-profit organizations. He has coached leaders for over 3,300 hours and is an ACC-certified coach with the International Coaching Federation, as well as a Master Trainer, and a member of the National Speakers Association. He was honored as an Entrepreneur of the Year in the Tri-Cities in 2021.

Through his company, Growing Forward Services, Paul has partnered with his corporate and individual clients to transform their vision, their habits, and their lives. Currently, Paul carries out his mission of sparking breakthrough success by contributing daily inspirational growth messages on local radio, other people’s podcasts, and via social media. Also, he has inspired thousands of individuals and leaders to grow forward through his seminars, team-building off-site retreats, one-to-one self-leadership coaching, and as a keynote speaker. Paul has written 5 books: The Static Cling Principle (on habits and mindsets), Maximizing Every Minute (on time management), Leading the Team You’ve Always Wanted, Leading with Super-Vision, and his newest book: Leading through the Dark Waters of Conflict. He interviews local leaders in his podcast: the Tri-Cities Influencer and national leaders on his podcast: Grow Forward Today.

To connect with Paul, please visit his website: https://growingforwardservices.net/

Andrea Westrum is a Certified Life Coach providing Firefighter Support, Women's Empowerment, and Domestic Violence Support. Previously, she served as a Volunteer EMT & Emergency Response Coordinator. Andrea is a 30-year Firefighter Advocate and works with her Firefighter Support Dog Tiberius.

Andrea and I discuss the life events that influenced her current path. She shares some of her personal story that has given her the perspective and the unique ability to connect with the women that she coaches to overcome domestic violence and abuse.

If you’d like to connect with Andrea, please visit her website: https://www.andreawestrum.com/

Donna Peters is the author of the #1 international bestseller, “Options Are Power: Career Strategies for High Performers Who Want a Life.” She is the host of The Me-Suite podcast, which was the 2021 finalist for both Best Business Podcast and People's Choice Award. Donna is a certified Executive Coach, speaker and leadership faculty with 20+ years advising senior executives and next generation leaders at the world's most admired companies. Donna acted professionally on stage, film and stand-up for 10 years before pursuing an MBA at Cornell and becoming a senior partner and practice leader in Management Consulting. She helps driven professionals take control of the future they want to have.

Donna and I have an amazing conversation about her experience leading and consulting leaders at a very high level. We discuss the career strategies she outlines in her book and dive into what it takes to be a high performer.

To connect with Donna, visit: https://www.the-me-suite.com/contact

Rodolfo "Rudy" Reyes is an American conservationist, martial arts instructor, actor, and former active-duty United States Marine. We discuss his life growing up, his family, and his path as a warrior and philosopher. He tells me about serving in wartime as a special operations Recon Marine and scout sniper; how he ended up as an actor; his struggle with PTSD and how he has worked to overcome it. That leads to the part of our conversation where he tells me about his conservation work and how to get involved with his team doing some amazing work to save coral reefs around the globe.

More about Rudy:

In 1998, Reyes joined the United States Marine Corps and was ultimately selected for (and passed) Marine Recon training. He served in Afghanistan, Iraq, and onboard the USS Dubuque.

After leaving the military in 2005, Reyes became a fitness trainer at a gym in San Diego. His acting roles included playing himself in Generation Kill (2008) and the TV Series Apocalypse Man, Ultimate Survival Alaska, and Spartan Race. He is also one of the interviewees of the 2020 documentary series Once Upon a Time in Iraq. He played Solomon Goodblood in a 2021 film “The Secret of Sinchanee.”

Reyes wrote the book, “Hero Living: Seven Strides to Awaken Your Infinite Power” (2009), with Angela Smith. He has also authored articles for OFFGRID magazine.

In 2016, Rudy Reyes founded the Force Blue Team, taking special operators- SEALS, Recon Marines, Pararescuemen, and Army Special Forces and teamed them up with scientists to rebuild and restore coral reefs.

To learn even more about Rudy or to connect with him, visit:

http://www.rudyreyes.com/

IG @realrudyreyes

http://www.forceblueteam.org

https://www.wearethemighty.com/mighty-trending/recon-marine-veteran-rudy-reyes-from-generation-kill-returns-to-tv/

Joshua Shea is a coach, author and speaker sharing his story and educating about pornography addiction. Pornography-free since March 2014, he believes that if we can begin to talk more about porn addiction and mental health, others may be able to address their addictions before they devolve to the unhealthy levels that he reached. Joshua also addresses the issues that come with being a partner of a porn addict and raising children in a world of high-speed Internet access. Interviewed more than 250 times, he has written three books, designed an online course for partners and coaches/advises both addicts and partners.

Today he works as an author and public speaker, sharing his story and educating others about addiction. Each of his books are available for purchase on Amazon and can be found under the ‘Get Help’ tab on the main menu of paddictrecovery.com.

THE HIGHLIGHTS

• Pornography Addict for 25 years; Alcohol Addict for 21 years

• In Recovery and Relapse-Free since March 2014

• Alcohol Rehabilitation at Spencer Recovery Center, Palm Springs, Calif., March-June 2014 (including internship and group facilitation)

• Sex/Porn Addiction Rehabilitation at Sante Center for Healing, Argyle, Texas, May-July 2015

• Author, The Addiction Nobody Will Talk About: How I Let My Pornography Addiction Hurt People and Destroy Relationships

• Co-Author, He’s a Porn Addict…Now What? An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions

• Contributor of Sex/Porn Addiction Recovery Articles for TheFix.com and Recovery Today magazine

• Public Speaker on the Subject of Pornography Addiction

• Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach – Certification through The PBT Institute, New York

• Presenter at 4th International Conference on Addiction Research and Therapy, October 2020

• TEDx Talk Speaker, December 2020, “The Twisted Tentacles of Porn Addiction”

• Certified Life Coach through KEW Training Academy – Accredited by CTAA

To connect with Joshua: https://paddictrecovery.com/