Summary

In this enlightening conversation, Debra Bowers and Joy Rowland explore the themes of visibility, confidence, and personal growth for women. Joy shares her journey from poverty in Nigeria to becoming a successful visibility mentor, emphasizing the importance of overcoming childhood trauma and finding one's voice. They discuss the power of authenticity, the role of AI in enhancing visibility, and the necessity of reframing rejection as a stepping stone to success. The conversation culminates in the importance of self-love and trust as foundational elements for women to thrive in their personal and professional lives.

Takeaways

• The journey to visibility often starts with overcoming childhood trauma.

• Many women struggle with finding their voice due to societal conditioning.

• Authenticity is key to attracting clients and building connections.

• Rejection should be reframed as a valuable learning experience.

• Self-trust is built through taking action and facing challenges.

• Women often hold back due to fear of judgment from others.

• AI can enhance authenticity by providing factual perspectives.

• Falling in love with oneself is crucial for personal growth.

• Visibility is not about ego; it's about sharing one's truth.

• Embracing struggles is essential for growth and evolution.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Visibility and Confidence

01:14 Joy's Immigrant Journey and Self-Discovery

03:21 Finding Your Voice and Purpose

04:47 The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Women's Confidence

08:26 Overcoming Societal Expectations and Embracing Authenticity

11:56 The Importance of Self-Love and Acceptance

13:45 Visibility vs. Ego: Understanding Authenticity

16:11 The Role of Authenticity in Attracting Clients

17:54 Using AI to Gain Perspective on Self-Worth

23:52 Rejoicing in Rejection and Building Resilience

27:09 Building Self-Trust Through Action

35:21 The First Step to Courage: Self-Love

Offers from Joy -

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Connect with Joy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/joy.rowland_/

Learn more about our show and our Amazing host Debra Bowers on our website https://www.dealswithheels.com

Debra's Marketing agency Hexagon Media can Help you grow your business. Learn more at https://www.hexagonmedia.net

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Connect with Debra on Social Media

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