Becoming Lucy

From Miscarriage to IVF: The Truth About Fertility, Loss & Moving Forward


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Miscarriage and IVF are conversations we don’t have enough — and this episode changes that.


In this deeply honest episode, Claire shares her experience of miscarriage, the emotional reality of IVF, and what it truly means to move forward when life doesn’t go to plan.


After losing her pregnancy at 14 weeks, Claire opens up about the heartbreak, the physical and emotional toll, and the moments that are often left out of the conversation. From hospital experiences to the reality of fertility treatment, this is a raw and unfiltered look at a journey so many women go through silently.


We talk about:

 • the real emotional and physical impact of miscarriage

 • what IVF is actually like behind the scenes

 • where support systems can fall short

 • the pressure, grief, and isolation that often go unspoken

 • and how Claire began to redefine her life and find a way forward


This episode isn’t just about loss — it’s about resilience, honesty, and learning to live fully, even when life looks different to what you imagined.


If you’ve experienced miscarriage, are going through IVF, or are supporting someone who is, this conversation will stay with you.



⏱️ EPISODE CHAPTERS


00:00 The Journey to Parenthood: Expectations vs Reality

06:42 Claire’s Life Before IVF & Miscarriage

09:48 Finding Love: Claire & Robbo’s Story

13:55 The Joy of Pregnancy: Hope & Excitement

14:44 The Heartbreak of Miscarriage

20:58 Navigating Grief & Emotional Impact

26:53 Where Support Systems Fall Short

28:38 The Emotional & Physical Reality of Miscarriage

37:42 Why We Need to Talk About Miscarriage

47:32 Aftercare, Memory Boxes & Lasting Impact

54:27 The Decision to Try IVF

58:06 Fertility, Age & Societal Pressure

59:51 The Reality of IVF Treatment

01:08:16 Redefining Life Beyond Parenthood

01:17:49 Finding Peace & Moving Forward

01:20:52 Final Reflections



🤍 SUPPORT, RESOURCES & CONTACT


If this episode brought anything up for you, please know you’re not alone. These organisations offer support, guidance, and safe spaces to talk:

 • NHS Miscarriage & IVF Support: https://www.nhs.uk

 • Women & Families Support Groups: https://www.womenandfamilies.org

 • Understanding IVF (Mayo Clinic): https://www.mayoclinic.org

 • Miscarriage Awareness (Myleene Klass Campaign): https://www.example.com/miscarriage-awareness



If you’d prefer to speak to someone directly, Claire has kindly opened herself up as a point of contact for anyone who may need a conversation or support following this episode.


Alongside her personal journey, Claire has recently founded her own business, using over 30 years of global supply chain and logistics experience to support entrepreneurs and founders in growing their retail brands.


You can connect with Claire here:

 • LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-pearson-orchard-retail-group-uk-6095a811

 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claire_orguk?igsh=OHFkZzFkc3QzcXhv



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Becoming LucyBy Lucy Hodgkinson