Ever found yourself hurt by someone’s words or actions — even when they didn’t mean harm? In this powerful and honest conversation, Carly and Ruthie unpack offense — a universal experience that can quietly sabotage our relationships and emotional health.

From marriages to friendships to workplace dynamics, offense shows up in ways that are often misunderstood or overlooked. This episode explores how our personal histories, insecurities, and emotional triggers shape how we perceive others — and how we can break the cycle.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why offense cuts deeper than we realize — even when it’s unintentional

• How upbringing and past wounds influence our sensitivity to conflict

• How to build healthier emotional boundaries without becoming numb

• The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation — and why both matter

• Scientific insights on how emotional pain affects your body and immune system

• Practical tools for letting go of grudges and moving toward peace
  

The Good Stuff Podcast with  Carly May (@carlymay) and Ruthie Ridley (@ruthieridley) 

Book: Let Them By Mel Robins